ladies how long can you be in a relationship b4 you start to think about marriage?
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I ask because I been with my girl since high school and every summer for the past 6 years after a wedding or she hear about one of our friends gettin married I get the 3rd degree about when im go ask her to marry me.
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Damn 6 years though.. you might as well lol.
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The question really is do you want to marry her?
Six years is a minute.. -
I'm pretty sure 60 seconds is a minute.
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thanks for that clarification.
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lol@ making it literal. You smart, dumb mother ? .
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Six years is a long ass time ? ! Marry that ? ....I mean lady. If we're together for 2+ years and he hasn't mentioned marriage I would start to wonder what games he was trying to play with me.
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One year, we gotten engaged. However, like viva said you are taking too long, boo. Figure it out.
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Don't listen to these people. Just cause you been with shorty for 6 years don't mean you gotta marry her. If you comfortable now you good b.
And I would have to be with a girl probably at least 5 years before I even think about it. -
It's time when it's time. If after 4 years I'm still iffy then I'm still iffy
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lolwtf is marriage
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Must co-sign ^^.
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If you dont know whether you want to marry her after 6 years. Then you might as well just leave her.
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I was saying for the past 6 years she been talking about getting married, We been together for over 14 years. she already knew before we had our 1st kid how I felt about marriage and she was cool with it until now..If everything all good in a relationship why mess with it, and she only trip on it after people keep asking her when she go get married, you and Unknown been together forever.
So after hearing all these people ask her that question when they should be minding they ? business she want to come at me with ultimatums, and I ain't going for that ? .
Me and my girl are friends with this other couple that we went to school with and they been together just as long as us, they got married 3 years ago and after 6 months they were split up and hate each other guts.
I just think if your ship is good and it been good for a long time don't go ? with it.
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14 years and a child together.. you scared of commitment bruh? Do you live together? Why would marriage make anything different that you should seperate?
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Damn after 14 years you don't feel like she deserves to be your wife??
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I was saying for the past 6 years she been talking about getting married, We been together for over 14 years. she already knew before we had our 1st kid how I felt about marriage and she was cool with it until now..If everything all good in a relationship why mess with it, and she only trip on it after people keep asking her when she go get married, you and Unknown been together forever.
So after hearing all these people ask her that question when they should be minding they ? business she want to come at me with ultimatums, and I ain't going for that ? .
Me and my girl are friends with this other couple that we went to school with and they been together just as long as us, they got married 3 years ago and after 6 months they were split up and hate each other guts.
I just think if your ship is good and it been good for a long time don't go ? with it.
Here's the flaw in using that as an example though..there's nothing that guarantees that couple would have stayed together had they not gotten married either...they may have still broken up after that 6 month period... -
Oh, well 14 years is a lil different!
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I was saying for the past 6 years she been talking about getting married, We been together for over 14 years. she already knew before we had our 1st kid how I felt about marriage and she was cool with it until now..If everything all good in a relationship why mess with it, and she only trip on it after people keep asking her when she go get married, you and Unknown been together forever.
So after hearing all these people ask her that question when they should be minding they ? business she want to come at me with ultimatums, and I ain't going for that ? .
Me and my girl are friends with this other couple that we went to school with and they been together just as long as us, they got married 3 years ago and after 6 months they were split up and hate each other guts.
I just think if your ship is good and it been good for a long time don't go ? with it.
Here's the flaw in using that as an example though..there's nothing that guarantees that couple would have stayed together had they not gotten married either...they may have still broken up after that 6 month period...
Co-sign. Whatever issue that made that relationship end was there before they got married.
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Damn 14 years dude. Why won't you marry her? You planning to leave her? Marriage won't change anything but if it's important to her, why not just do it.
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^^^ That's ? up. smh.
I would've left after I found out he didn't want to get married but that's just me. -
oh ? i didn't read that part......Damn after 14 years you don't feel like she deserves to be your wife??
EDIT: AND THEY GOT A KID????
gon head & marry her ?
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I would figure within 3 years you can decide. Longer than that, seems like time is wasting.
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Bro 14 years what the ? ? You're not only wasting your life, but hers as well. The ? kind of ? is this I figured y'all had been together maybe two, but 14 y'all shoulda got married 7 years ago at the least.
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I was saying for the past 6 years she been talking about getting married, We been together for over 14 years. she already knew before we had our 1st kid how I felt about marriage and she was cool with it until now..If everything all good in a relationship why mess with it, and she only trip on it after people keep asking her when she go get married, you and Unknown been together forever.
So after hearing all these people ask her that question when they should be minding they ? business she want to come at me with ultimatums, and I ain't going for that ? .
Me and my girl are friends with this other couple that we went to school with and they been together just as long as us, they got married 3 years ago and after 6 months they were split up and hate each other guts.
I just think if your ship is good and it been good for a long time don't go ? with it.
Real ? breh she can't do nothing to you. She ain't gon leave you so keep doing what you doing. ? that ? . -
Sage Wonder wrote: »14 years and a child together.. you scared of commitment bruh? Do you live together? Why would marriage make anything different that you should seperate?
marriage makes a lot of ? different
don't do it son, please reconsider
these chicks in the powder room got an agenda they have to push haha
