love vs. money

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NIKE...
NIKE... Members Posts: 3,742 ✭✭✭✭✭
edited September 2012 in For The Grown & Sexy
Back in the day when everybody was broke, couples stayed together b..over time folks started gettin money and livin life outside a box and saying ? love, gimme money..

Me personally, I want money b..love is cool and all but I'd rather cash a check before anything b..some folks is cool with the whole relationship thing but not me b..She gotta make her own money if I ? with her b..

Point is..what means the most to you b? Love or Money?
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  • Louis Cipher
    Louis Cipher Members Posts: 4,020 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 2012
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    $$$ isnt the reason for the break down of relationships/families atleast not directly....

    its the disintegration of gender roles...

    but as far as your thread goes: why cant i have both?
  • NIKE...
    NIKE... Members Posts: 3,742 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    $$$ isnt the reason for the break down of relationships/families atleast not directly....

    its the disintegration of gender roles...

    but as far as your thread goes: why cant i have both?
    Disintergration of gender roles due to the lack of money b..

    You can have whatever you want b..it's ur life..i only know about me b..
  • haute
    haute Members Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 2012
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    lack of money isnt the issue

    lack of clear direction with the money is

  • Ms.Scorp
    Ms.Scorp Members Posts: 3,733 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I've been down this road...love prevails.
  • Gold_Certificate
    Gold_Certificate Members Posts: 13,228 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited September 2012
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  • Gold_Certificate
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  • Gold_Certificate
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  • NIKE...
    NIKE... Members Posts: 3,742 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    haute wrote: »
    lack of money isnt the issue

    lack of clear direction with the money is

    percentage wise..how much priority does financial compatibility have when dealing with a potential partner?

    You seem independent so im willin to say 85% b..cash is the the key to your heart b..just like everybody else

  • NIKE...
    NIKE... Members Posts: 3,742 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Ms.Scorp wrote: »
    I've been down this road...love prevails.
    Congratulations b..some folks are good with love but not me b
  • Louis Cipher
    Louis Cipher Members Posts: 4,020 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    $$$ isnt the reason for the break down of relationships/families atleast not directly....

    its the disintegration of gender roles...

    but as far as your thread goes: why cant i have both?
    Disintergration of gender roles due to the lack of money b..

    You can have whatever you want b..it's ur life..i only know about me b..

    not directly...the womens movement in the 60s changed a lot of things...women started working....roles got mixed up...

    Just my opinion tho...
  • haute
    haute Members Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    haute wrote: »
    lack of money isnt the issue

    lack of clear direction with the money is

    percentage wise..how much priority does financial compatibility have when dealing with a potential partner?

    You seem independent so im willin to say 85% b..cash is the the key to your heart b..just like everybody else

    of course its a factor

    but If a guy has a decent job, but has no financial goals or direction either 1 of two things need to happen for us to work

    either he has get some direction or I have to step up

    but just having money isnt enough for anything
  • Louis Cipher
    Louis Cipher Members Posts: 4,020 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    haute wrote: »
    lack of money isnt the issue

    lack of clear direction with the money is

    percentage wise..how much priority does financial compatibility have when dealing with a potential partner?

    You seem independent so im willin to say 85% b..cash is the the key to your heart b..just like everybody else

    speak for yourself...

    whether a broad had $$$ has never been a consideration as far as me dealing with her...

    character >>>>$$$$

    who cares if the broad is pulling down 300k if shes the devil?

    that logic is faulty as hell
  • playmaker88
    playmaker88 Members Posts: 67,905 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Lol @ saying the disintegration of gender roles.....

    such a cop out...
  • Louis Cipher
    Louis Cipher Members Posts: 4,020 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Lol @ saying the disintegration of gender roles.....

    such a cop out...

    why cop out?

    it seems simple to me...

    look at the black community...you have women being mother and father in a lot of cases...lil boys grow up not knowing how to be men...and lil girls grow up not knowing how to deal with men...or what to look for in a man...

    kids grow up...cycle continues...

    but like everything else...youre entitled to your opinion
  • taeboo
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  • Knock_Twice
    Knock_Twice Members Posts: 4,324 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    It's the ? that comes with having money that ? up relationship..what I call "status tip"

    The ? women see on reality t.v. and see what these women do...men too..look at ? on T.V. that what ? up things...when folks wasn't interesting in being seen..like back in the 80s and 90s and you can actually be in 'love'..now shid women and men get some money...they wanna be on that "status tip"
  • PiffyHaze
    PiffyHaze Members Posts: 1,906 ✭✭✭✭✭
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  • sweetheart93
    sweetheart93 Members Posts: 2,287 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Money.

    Love is nice and all but I'd rather have money.
  • MC The Rapper
    MC The Rapper Members Posts: 8,140 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    1.people need to stop romanticizing the past
    2.Love >>>>> Money you just can't print love
  • frostyicy
    frostyicy Members Posts: 2,151 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    We was so happy poor but when we got rich
    That's when our signals got crossed and we got flipped
    -Jay-Z
  • willhustle
    willhustle Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 6,550 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    I rather have money over love as of right now. I say that b/c I can't truly say that I've ever been in love before and I rather put faith in ? than to put it in people.
  • Bawse D.Lox
    Bawse D.Lox Members Posts: 3,946 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited October 2012
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    you need both.
    inorder to maintain a healthy relationship, u need young mula baaaaabay.
    and even the most introvert-est person get lonely too.

    #Sa7ut3

  • CapitalB
    CapitalB Members Posts: 24,556 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    i cant ..i jus cant..

    imagine this..
    me: babe.. we short on the note this month and the light bill is due tomorrow..
    her: hold on hunny.. i got u.. lemme run upstairs and give u all this love i got!!
    me: the ? !!? ? we broke!!!!

    hahahaha
    love aint gonna go far and get u nowhere wit no money..
    also its easier to learn to love someone then it is to learn to get money.. and aint nothin funnier then two broke mu'fuckas in love..

    im jus sayin..