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  • Disciplined InSight
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    Some of ya'll are exposing your vaginas on here big time. Whelps can heal.
    A daughter doing table dances butt-ass naked for 10 dollars a pop (or even worse prostituting or porn star) can scar a father lifetime.
  • 2stepz_ahead
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    it seems people to easy on these chicks and thats why we have twerkers, and an over abundance of strippers an pornstars and not enough women who respect themselves.

    yea i said it.

    ? out here not respecting themselves and sell they ? to the highest bidder because no one made them respect themselves. yes, it was always hoes....but now chicks acting like thats the norm.

    it all started with parents thinking its cute when they 4yr old drops it to the floor.

    sorry to say but we may need to eliminate a whole generation to get back on track.
  • aneed123
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    pralims wrote: »
    it seems people to easy on these chicks and thats why we have twerkers, and an over abundance of strippers an pornstars and not enough women who respect themselves.

    yea i said it.

    ? out here not respecting themselves and sell they ? to the highest bidder because no one made them respect themselves. yes, it was always hoes....but now chicks acting like thats the norm.

    it all started with parents thinking its cute when they 4yr old drops it to the floor.

    sorry to say but we may need to eliminate a whole generation to get back on track.

    I feel u. Parents today wanna be their kids friends instead of parenting.... all these choices and this exposure to ? .... all this privacy .... society needs to go back to the days of no lock doors in my house (when kids wanna lck their room) or eww I dont wanna eat this (well u wont eat ? then) etc.....
  • StoneColdMikey
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    Those girls got what they deserve. ? the mother.
  • BoldChild
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    If yall think whipping your teenage daughter tell her legs is bleeding will work, how is that any different that an abusive male slapping his wife for doing something wrong?

    If it's gotten to that point, it's already too late.

    By that time they are starting to become an adult, and beginning to shape their own opinions, and world views, beating them isn't going to make them suddenly change their opinion, their not little kids anymore, they don't think like, "oh if I do that, daddy will hurt me, I better not."
  • aneed123
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    BoldChild wrote: »
    If yall think whipping your teenage daughter tell her legs is bleeding will work, how is that any different that an abusive male slapping his wife for doing something wrong?

    If it's gotten to that point, it's already too late.

    u goin to the extreme.... I guess the generations before ? and young parents who whooped their kids were all wrong? male and female children can and should get whoopins....
  • BoldChild
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    aneed123 wrote: »
    BoldChild wrote: »
    If yall think whipping your teenage daughter tell her legs is bleeding will work, how is that any different that an abusive male slapping his wife for doing something wrong?

    If it's gotten to that point, it's already too late.

    u goin to the extreme.... I guess the generations before ? and young parents who whooped their kids were all wrong? male and female children can and should get whoopins....

    I didn't say whoopings were wrong, I said whoopings to that extreme was wrong, and whoopings on a teen were ineffective, well there effective, but maybe not in a good way.
  • Disciplined InSight
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    BoldChild wrote: »
    If yall think whipping your teenage daughter tell her legs is bleeding will work, how is that any different that an abusive male slapping his wife for doing something wrong?

    If it's gotten to that point, it's already too late.

    By that time they are starting to become an adult, and beginning to shape their own opinions, and world views, beating them isn't going to make them suddenly change their opinion, their not little kids anymore, they don't think like, "oh if I do that, daddy will hurt me, I better not."

    It gotten to that point because the mother allowed it (the twerking)...
  • 2stepz_ahead
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    BoldChild wrote: »
    If yall think whipping your teenage daughter tell her legs is bleeding will work, how is that any different that an abusive male slapping his wife for doing something wrong?

    If it's gotten to that point, it's already too late.

    By that time they are starting to become an adult, and beginning to shape their own opinions, and world views, beating them isn't going to make them suddenly change their opinion, their not little kids anymore, they don't think like, "oh if I do that, daddy will hurt me, I better not."

    its a big ? difference...fukk is wrong with you.
    a father is not the same as some random ? . a father help bring you up, this random ? is nothing on the grand scheme of things.

    so you telling me any ole ? you bang out is on equal ground as your mother?

    as a parent i will raise my kids until they are 18. after that they are on they own. but before then, its my job...my job and responsibility to raise my child how i see fit! some random ? slapping his wife...its not his job thats a choice to be with that person and abuse them for whatever reason.

    disciplining your child and slapping you spouse are never on the same level....
  • StoneColdMikey
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    ? im the youngest of my brothers and I know my pops would legit fight us and whoop my older sister if we did some ? ? .
  • aneed123
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    also both parents gotta be on the same page.. a lot of times the dad would handle the boys and the mom the daughters... and dad would prob yell and make them cry while mom laid hands on em when needed.... If mom aint doing ? situations like this happen
  • BoldChild
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    pralims wrote: »
    BoldChild wrote: »
    If yall think whipping your teenage daughter tell her legs is bleeding will work, how is that any different that an abusive male slapping his wife for doing something wrong?

    If it's gotten to that point, it's already too late.

    By that time they are starting to become an adult, and beginning to shape their own opinions, and world views, beating them isn't going to make them suddenly change their opinion, their not little kids anymore, they don't think like, "oh if I do that, daddy will hurt me, I better not."

    its a big ? difference...fukk is wrong with you.
    a father is not the same as some random ? . a father help bring you up, this random ? is nothing on the grand scheme of things.

    so you telling me any ole ? you bang out is on equal ground as your mother?

    as a parent i will raise my kids until they are 18. after that they are on they own. but before then, its my job...my job and responsibility to raise my child how i see fit! some random ? slapping his wife...its not his job thats a choice to be with that person and abuse them for whatever reason.

    disciplining your child and slapping you spouse are never on the same level....

    The way I see it, abuse is abuse. If my momma were to punch me in the mouth, aand some random female were to punch me in the mouth, when it comes down to it a female is punching me in the mouth, abuse is abuse, regardless of my relationship with the person.

    Now, because its my mother, I might not see it as abuse, and would react to the situation totally different than i would if some random female punch me, but just because the parental figure feels they are rightly punishing their child doesn't make everything they do not abuse.
  • 2stepz_ahead
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    BoldChild wrote: »
    pralims wrote: »
    BoldChild wrote: »
    If yall think whipping your teenage daughter tell her legs is bleeding will work, how is that any different that an abusive male slapping his wife for doing something wrong?

    If it's gotten to that point, it's already too late.

    By that time they are starting to become an adult, and beginning to shape their own opinions, and world views, beating them isn't going to make them suddenly change their opinion, their not little kids anymore, they don't think like, "oh if I do that, daddy will hurt me, I better not."

    its a big ? difference...fukk is wrong with you.
    a father is not the same as some random ? . a father help bring you up, this random ? is nothing on the grand scheme of things.

    so you telling me any ole ? you bang out is on equal ground as your mother?

    as a parent i will raise my kids until they are 18. after that they are on they own. but before then, its my job...my job and responsibility to raise my child how i see fit! some random ? slapping his wife...its not his job thats a choice to be with that person and abuse them for whatever reason.

    disciplining your child and slapping you spouse are never on the same level....

    The way I see it, abuse is abuse. If my momma were to punch me in the mouth, aand some random female were to punch me in the mouth, when it comes down to it a female is punching me in the mouth, abuse is abuse, regardless of my relationship with the person.

    Now, because its my mother, I might not see it as abuse, and would react to the situation totally different than i would if some random female punch me, but just because the parental figure feels they are rightly punishing their child doesn't make everything they do not abuse.

    if you called your mother out her name and she punched you in the mouth, is it still abuse or was it warranted an you can understand?
    and please dont say you will never.....its hypothetical
  • 2stepz_ahead
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    if my dad ever punched me in the face....most likely i deserved it. and since hes my parent and i know his job is to keep me in line, the thought of abuse would never come to my mind. im going to try to figure out what the ? i did cause i aint see it coming.

    but i also know that my dad wouldnt just do ? just because.

    i think you line of abuse an punishment is blurred.
  • aneed123
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    its just crazy how the powers that be have changed child rearing.... the ? my parents went thru in the country boy I tell u....
  • BoldChild
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    pralims wrote: »
    BoldChild wrote: »
    pralims wrote: »
    BoldChild wrote: »
    If yall think whipping your teenage daughter tell her legs is bleeding will work, how is that any different that an abusive male slapping his wife for doing something wrong?

    If it's gotten to that point, it's already too late.

    By that time they are starting to become an adult, and beginning to shape their own opinions, and world views, beating them isn't going to make them suddenly change their opinion, their not little kids anymore, they don't think like, "oh if I do that, daddy will hurt me, I better not."

    its a big ? difference...fukk is wrong with you.
    a father is not the same as some random ? . a father help bring you up, this random ? is nothing on the grand scheme of things.

    so you telling me any ole ? you bang out is on equal ground as your mother?

    as a parent i will raise my kids until they are 18. after that they are on they own. but before then, its my job...my job and responsibility to raise my child how i see fit! some random ? slapping his wife...its not his job thats a choice to be with that person and abuse them for whatever reason.

    disciplining your child and slapping you spouse are never on the same level....

    The way I see it, abuse is abuse. If my momma were to punch me in the mouth, aand some random female were to punch me in the mouth, when it comes down to it a female is punching me in the mouth, abuse is abuse, regardless of my relationship with the person.

    Now, because its my mother, I might not see it as abuse, and would react to the situation totally different than i would if some random female punch me, but just because the parental figure feels they are rightly punishing their child doesn't make everything they do not abuse.

    if you called your mother out her name and she punched you in the mouth, is it still abuse or was it warranted an you can understand?
    and please dont say you will never.....its hypothetical


    Depends on how hard actually. If she gave me a break your nose/jaw type punch, yeah.

    If it was just a reaction slap or something, enough to knock me off balance a little, then no.

    If ever did do something like that I probably would have got hit, and she would probably would have taken all my ? away. All of it, tv, everything.
  • 2stepz_ahead
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    BoldChild wrote: »
    pralims wrote: »
    BoldChild wrote: »
    pralims wrote: »
    BoldChild wrote: »
    If yall think whipping your teenage daughter tell her legs is bleeding will work, how is that any different that an abusive male slapping his wife for doing something wrong?

    If it's gotten to that point, it's already too late.

    By that time they are starting to become an adult, and beginning to shape their own opinions, and world views, beating them isn't going to make them suddenly change their opinion, their not little kids anymore, they don't think like, "oh if I do that, daddy will hurt me, I better not."

    its a big ? difference...fukk is wrong with you.
    a father is not the same as some random ? . a father help bring you up, this random ? is nothing on the grand scheme of things.

    so you telling me any ole ? you bang out is on equal ground as your mother?

    as a parent i will raise my kids until they are 18. after that they are on they own. but before then, its my job...my job and responsibility to raise my child how i see fit! some random ? slapping his wife...its not his job thats a choice to be with that person and abuse them for whatever reason.

    disciplining your child and slapping you spouse are never on the same level....

    The way I see it, abuse is abuse. If my momma were to punch me in the mouth, aand some random female were to punch me in the mouth, when it comes down to it a female is punching me in the mouth, abuse is abuse, regardless of my relationship with the person.

    Now, because its my mother, I might not see it as abuse, and would react to the situation totally different than i would if some random female punch me, but just because the parental figure feels they are rightly punishing their child doesn't make everything they do not abuse.

    if you called your mother out her name and she punched you in the mouth, is it still abuse or was it warranted an you can understand?
    and please dont say you will never.....its hypothetical


    Depends on how hard actually. If she gave me a break your nose/jaw type punch, yeah.

    If it was just a reaction slap or something, enough to knock me off balance a little, then no.

    If ever did do something like that I probably would have got hit, and she would probably would have taken all my ? away. All of it, tv, everything.

    but thats abuse on then cruel and unusual punishment and isolation of a child...? its damn near abandonment.
  • Gold_Certificate
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    pralims wrote: »
    BoldChild wrote: »
    http://www.inquisitr.com/603749/father-indicted-for-beating-daughters-over-twerking-video/

    Dayton, OH — A father who beat his two daughters with a cord has been charged with child endangerment and corporal punishment.

    Greg Horn, 35, whipped his daughters, ages 12 and 14, with a video cable after walking in on the girls recording themselves “twerking.” Twerking involves wobbling or jiggling the hips and buttocks. Or, to borrow Miley Cyrus’s definition, “It’s a lot of ? action.”

    The video was first posted on WorldStarHipHop.com before making its way to YouTube. Several reaction videos popped up shortly afterward.

    According to the police report, one of the girls had visible welts on her legs and open wounds in the thigh area from being beaten with the video cable. The girls’ mother noticed the wounds and called police.

    The 30 second video sparked a debate over whether Horn’s actions were abusive or good parenting. Some felt that he went too far — at one point, one of the girls screams, “Daddy, stop,” but he continues to beat her — while others felt he was teaching his daughters a lesson and preventing them from engaging in more inappropriate behavior. Ultimately, even though the video had gone viral and left many wondering why the police hadn’t been notified, it was the mother’s intervention that led to an arrest.

    Horn’s indictment comes during the first week of Child Abuse Awareness Month.

    “The goal is always to keep kids safe,” Montgomery County Children Services spokesman Kevin Lavoie said. He also added that when people are reporting cases of child abuse, they don’t have to leave a name or even have definitive proof that abuse is taking place. The suspicion of abuse is more than enough.

    “It may be nothing,” Lavoie said. “But rather than analyze it, let our specialists figure it out and the best course of action.”

    Although it was initially reported that the girls were beaten for recording themselves twerking, they told police they were beaten for sneaking out of the house.

    Greg Horn is scheduled to appear in court on April 16 for his arraignment hearing.

    Do you think Greg Horn was justified in beating his daughters with a video cable, whether for twerking or for sneaking out of the house?



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    Justice is being served, although I think his only crime was stopping them from uploading an ass shaking video:
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    Worst parenting I've ever seen, hopefully they lock this barbarian up for good.

    2013 has no place for such savage and uncivilized behavior.

    Either way, his barbaric actions should be punished.

    an the mom get off scott free and the girls look at the dad like he was wrong and will not take any responsibility.
    now the next time they do something...who will discipline them?
    i guess the dad needs to just talk now huh...they gonna be like...hes a ? afetr we got his ass locked up.

    lets see how that works.
    He was wrong. So much so that even the mother recognized it.

    Hopefully, this will teach these young ladies not to accept barbarianism from anyone; so that they may express themselves openly and freely via ass shaking in the future.

    Them uploading an ass shaking video>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Him uploading a video of himself beating them
  • 1of1
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    Suffering>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Twerking

    when the twerkers are pre/early teen stick figures
  • waterproof
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  • s_a_m_r_i_o
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    Kids got ass whoopings like that on the regular, I see nothing wrong.
  • s_a_m_r_i_o
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    Kids got ass whoopings like that on the regular, I see nothing wrong.
  • Gold_Certificate
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    1of1 wrote: »
    Suffering>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Twerking

    when the twerkers are pre/early teen stick figures
    These are the formative twerking years. They need a proper environment to develop their abilities as well as their inclination for twerking.

    Besides, hitting them with an extension cord while fully-clothed is like a 1/10 on the suffering scale.

    It'd be decent suffering if they were getting punched in the face or stomped out; but a "spanking" is wack.
  • waterproof
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    aneed123 wrote: »
    BoldChild wrote: »
    aneed123 wrote: »
    no issue with it he was hitting their legs with clothes on... no face no body. The girls seemed to be used to it too. He shouldnt have videotaped it and put it online seeing how this culture has changed ans whoopings are deemed bad. the moma needs her ass whooped too getting a father arrested and allowing her daughters to twerk.
    its seems like today the only discipline society deems acceptable is punishment which after a while does nothing.... the healthy fear of if I mess up my parents will whoop me is gone.... all of our parents and grandparents would be locked up for child abuse if we were raised today which is sad.

    ABout this, if he just used a regular belt I doubt anything would have happened, even if the video got out.


    But whooping them with an extension cord, to point where they had open wounds on their body, despite what people think is proper discipline, in the western world that's called child abuse.

    I've had my fair share of whoppings with a switch, and welts that vanished after a little while, but my parents/grandparents never whooped me to the point where I had open wounds.

    ? that I got whooped with extension cords, incense holders, race car tracks, dust pans etc.... hell we had to pick leaves off switches and grandma would wet and braide em... = bleeding wheps... no issue with it


    word up, @aneed i remember when i stayed with grandma in the summer and was running wild ol country lil ? on her land, when i ? up doing some ? that wasn't supposed to do she would of send me to the olive tree to pick a switch, race car tracks when no belt was found was used and im talking boutthe thick black ones from the early-mid 80's....

    there is a lots of weak ass, ? ass ? ass, sensitive ass people.......and they the ones that was doing the baddest ? but couldnt take a ass whopping but are the one's complaining why there is so much bad ass kids running the street and little girls popping it at the age of 10.......

    Man that talking ? is going to take you so for, kids have and always will test their parents, that talking ? me ass, my belt is going to do the talking
  • Meta_Conscious
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    BoldChild wrote: »
    If yall think whipping your teenage daughter tell her legs is bleeding will work, how is that any different that an abusive male slapping his wife for doing something wrong?

    If it's gotten to that point, it's already too late.

    By that time they are starting to become an adult, and beginning to shape their own opinions, and world views, beating them isn't going to make them suddenly change their opinion, their not little kids anymore, they don't think like, "oh if I do that, daddy will hurt me, I better not."

    So teenagers = grown women
    Teenagers r fully responsible adults
    Interesting points...