How do y'all feel about dudes who don't smoke or drink?
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PILL_COSBY
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Like a dude that's trying to get with you and you learn this about him. I want to hear you beautiful ladies opinion about a guy like this.
Is this a turn on, turn off, or it doesn't matter to you? If it's a turn off then post why.
Is this a turn on, turn off, or it doesn't matter to you? If it's a turn off then post why.
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I don't know if you know this about me... But umm...I gets high...
I need a man that's atleast smoke tolerant. He doesn't have to smoke or drink but he can't act like it's the end of the world if I do.
Nothing wrong with that type of guy though. Maybe he can show me a better way to relieve stress and have fun.... -
tha_bride22 wrote: »I don't know if you know this about me... But umm...I gets high...
I need a man that's atleast smoke tolerant. He doesn't have to smoke or drink but he can't act like it's the end of the world if I do.
Nothing wrong with that type of guy though. Maybe he can show me a better way to relieve stress and have fun....
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doesn't smoke or drink at all?
i wouldn't mind it cuz i don't really smoke or drink either but on the times that i do i can't have that ? held against me. -
Lol ^^^ now he knows how to have fun!
Seriously though, drugs are bad,mkay? :-B -
Depends on how he feels about girls that do smoke or drink.
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Ive never in life smoked or drank alcohol. I don't have a problem with people who do, hell, my best friend in college couldn't function unless he was high, and my wife could drink most ? under a table.
I ve never had a problem with what others do. Problem is, when people see you not participating,
THEY think that you are judging them. That's not the case, but, a lot of women see that as a turn off.
Its not a religious thing for me. It's not nothing. I just don't, and NEVER even had even the slightest urge to.
Its not been a problem for me. My attitude has been "deal with it"
Its probably cost me some ? over the years tho lol. -
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I asked how you felt about it. Obviously the guy is into you so it doesn't bother him.Depends on how he feels about girls that do smoke or drink.
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tha_bride22 wrote: »I don't know if you know this about me... But umm...I gets high...
I need a man that's atleast smoke tolerant. He doesn't have to smoke or drink but he can't act like it's the end of the world if I do.
Nothing wrong with that type of guy though. Maybe he can show me a better way to relieve stress and have fun....
Funny you brought this up. Over the years I've heard a gang of females say that a guy like that is boring. Or they can't have fun with somebody like that.
ladies, Is there some truth in this? Is this kind of a deal breaker? Does this take points away?
People have fun all kinds of ways. Personally, I never seen what us so fun about drinking or ruining your lungs and brain cells. Like how could something be so fun If you can't remember it and you're feeling like ? the next day?
I feel you bruh.Ive never in life smoked or drank alcohol. I don't have a problem with people who do, hell,
I ve never had a problem with what others do. but, a lot of women see that as a turn off.
Its not a religious thing for me. It's not nothing. I just don't, and NEVER even had even the slightest urge to.
LOL not on no grown ass man who's been smoke and drank free for his whole life(I hope not lol).i wouldn't care unless he was on some i don't do it neither should you ? . he can do whatever makes him happy long as i can do the same. drugs are fun tho so i'll probably be a bad influence on them lol
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Its not a bad thing, its admirable tbh.
However I don't like being judged when I do decide to indulge. -
Lol. The ? ??? How can that possibly be a bad thing or a turn off? I'd be interested to hear from any ladies who feel like that.
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I dont smoke but I had snacks on deck for my women who did after I put that ? on standby
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*dont smoke nor drink post*
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T. Sanford wrote: »*dont smoke nor drink but still get ? post*
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but its crazy because I think this chick want me to drink tomorrow at her bday party
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It's an EXTREME turn on/plus in my book. I hate the smell of any type of smoke, so that's my number 1 pet peeve. If he drinks at all, he would have to be a very lite drinker. Not a fan, but it's not a deal breaker. I like men who pursue a healthy lifestyle like I do.
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SixSickSins wrote: »It's an EXTREME turn on/plus in my book. I hate the smell of any type of smoke, so that's my number 1 pet peeve. If he drinks at all, he would have to be a very lite drinker. Not a fan, but it's not a deal breaker. I like men who pursue a healthy lifestyle like I do.
ok so you can deal with a man who drinks lightly but what if the smoker had enough respect to not smoke or be high in your presence. what if he was a light smoker and lastly what if he was well to do and not your average stereotypical weedhead slacker and kept a neat appearance. -
Lamilton3000 wrote: »SixSickSins wrote: »It's an EXTREME turn on/plus in my book. I hate the smell of any type of smoke, so that's my number 1 pet peeve. If he drinks at all, he would have to be a very lite drinker. Not a fan, but it's not a deal breaker. I like men who pursue a healthy lifestyle like I do.
ok so you can deal with a man who drinks lightly but what if the smoker had enough respect to not smoke or be high in your presence. what if he was a light smoker and lastly what if he was well to do and not your average stereotypical weedhead slacker and kept a neat appearance.
Nope, no can do. That odor lingers on your skin and clothes and I simply refuse to be around it and the chemicals/pollutants it expels. Barring drinking & driving/getting violent while ? , you're basically only hurting yourself physically with drinking...with smoking, there really aren't any workarounds. If you don't have enough sense and respect for your body to keep your lungs/airways in the best conditions possible then I can't respect you or be with you. Non-negotiable. -
that dog is like a mentor to me -
SixSickSins wrote: »Lamilton3000 wrote: »SixSickSins wrote: »It's an EXTREME turn on/plus in my book. I hate the smell of any type of smoke, so that's my number 1 pet peeve. If he drinks at all, he would have to be a very lite drinker. Not a fan, but it's not a deal breaker. I like men who pursue a healthy lifestyle like I do.
ok so you can deal with a man who drinks lightly but what if the smoker had enough respect to not smoke or be high in your presence. what if he was a light smoker and lastly what if he was well to do and not your average stereotypical weedhead slacker and kept a neat appearance.
Nope, no can do. That odor lingers on your skin and clothes and I simply refuse to be around it and the chemicals/pollutants it expels. Barring drinking & driving/getting violent while ? , you're basically only hurting yourself physically with drinking...with smoking, there really aren't any workarounds. If you don't have enough sense and respect for your body to keep your lungs/airways in the best conditions possible then I can't respect you or be with you. Non-negotiable.
well, as we know there are other ways to enjoy cannabis other than smoke inhalation. would you consider someone who ingest cannabis by way of cookies or brownies or boils the buds for tea? as for barring drinking and being violent behavior nowadays I am an occasional smoker although in my high school and early college days I was a habitual smoker and being a recovering alcoholic I can tell you a ? head is way more harmless than an alcoholic. during my ? phases I am angry vindictive I say hurtful things I shouldn't I take my anger out on others and I destroy property. it's almost like being a zombie. when high it's possible for others to make you angry I know from experience but I would never lash out. i'm just letting you know and if I was in a relationship I wouldn't be the type to try and turn my s/o onto it if it wasn't her thing. -
I'm happy that you've turned your life around and are hopefully much better
But I'm just not down with taking drugs for recreational purposes. -
Cigarette smoke is a no go though. Ever since I quit, I can't tolerate the odor
Bidis and black & milds are tolerable but no squares -
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Bidis and Black & Milds are terrible -
I member I ran through two packs of Bidis in two days back in '09 when I first found out about em...Haven't done it since though...Pakis round here don't een have em in stock...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EF_uD6ClWMg
