should single moms remain single until their kids are older?
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THOT PILGRIM
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Not trying to stir ? , but I'm seeing a lot of child abuse cases involving single moms with very young kids and the new boyfriend/stepfather.
These kids end up abused/killed by the pieces of ? that the moms invite into their homes to play daddy just weeks or months after their baby is born.
I completely get that the boyfriends are pieces of ? that deserve torture. But how accountable are the moms tho? They just let these dudes move in and babysit their young, vulnerable kids within months of dating. Like damn ? , all that for some hard ? ?
Should single moms wait a while to date? When is it appropriate for them to bring a stepfather into the picture?
These kids end up abused/killed by the pieces of ? that the moms invite into their homes to play daddy just weeks or months after their baby is born.
I completely get that the boyfriends are pieces of ? that deserve torture. But how accountable are the moms tho? They just let these dudes move in and babysit their young, vulnerable kids within months of dating. Like damn ? , all that for some hard ? ?
Should single moms wait a while to date? When is it appropriate for them to bring a stepfather into the picture?
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No but they should be a lot more cautious/aware of the men they bring around their kids. Too much ? tomfoolery afoot to be introducing kids all ? nilly.
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I think itd be better than having 7 boyfriends while the kid is growing up.
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only a loser would get with a single mother
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nah, just don't bring a ? around their kids unless the ? is legitimately serious
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Yes she should wait
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Personally I think if you're going to have a go at it then do it while they're young.
If me and the bf don't work out I won't be seriously dating anyone until she's grown.
I would have me a late night boo thang that she knows nothing about though..mama gotta have a life too.
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you can always tell who a woman is by how she treat her kids....
she can be phony as ? to everybody else.. but she real with her children....so if a chick brings any and every ? she ? around her kids like it's nuffin....she ain't bout ? .....easily -
I do think a woman should wait a long period of time and get some background information on a man as well before she starts bringing him around her kids.
I think in many of these cases the mother is partly to blame.
Why would you leave some guy alone with your child that you've only known maybe a few weeks.
There are a lot of ain't ? women out there though and it reflects in their parenting.
If you ? with ? fine but get someone you trust to watch your kid while you are doing it and never leave a man you dealing with or any person you don't gave extensive history with and trust around your child particularly if you have really young children. -
How about waiting to find the right person to have kids with...
Wait that's crazy talk -
Cooper ? and stop being a diva.
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Sure
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Alot of women date solely for the free babysitting.
I have an acquaintance like that...she has a daughter too.
I just smh @ that. -
For all our sakes those ? need to invest in ? and if they are to fat and lazy to use them then they should buy the ones that hook up to the machines.
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Also proves how many women out here dating perverts and pedophiles
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This zombie ? legit wakes up angry as ? everyday.
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How about waiting to find the right person to have kids with...
Wait that's crazy talk
you're acting like Aretha Franklin when she's hungry -
No, but women need to be extremely cautious about who comes around her kids. Personally men can barely come over my house, let alone spend the night. Definitely no living together or babysitting when he was younger...
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Of course the moms are are accountable, but not dating at all seems like overkill. People just need to be more careful who they bring around their children. My girl just met my son 2 weeks ago and I been dealing with her in some shape, form or fashion for well over a year.
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Kids born to someone worthy is such a foreign concept to you ? you get offended by the mention of it
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It's all about how you go about it. I don't see how women can bring a guy around their kid without a background check, getting to properly know him, a commitment and approval from the child's father.
That's a lot, but that's your seed. -
lol @ approval from the child's father.
What if dude is just spiteful? He's not going to approve anydamnbody. -
lol @ approval from the child's father.
What if dude is just spiteful? He's not going to approve anydamnbody.
single mother logic at it's finest. which is why again only losers date single mothers -
a child needs balance..
so no..
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How about waiting to find the right person to have kids with...
Wait that's crazy talkonly a loser would get with a single mother
#factsonly
