Honestly: Would U Really Want To Know If Your S/O Cheated?

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Tommy_Milfhitta
Tommy_Milfhitta Members Posts: 1,608 ✭✭✭✭✭
edited March 2014 in For The Grown & Sexy
Was having a debate with my boys about this. I obviously think it's better if i knew if ever i been cheated on. But they brought up some fairly gud points about why they would rather not know if their girl cheated. "As long as she ain't catch feelings or an std and it was a once off thing and wouldn't ever do it again...then i wouldn't wanna know if she cheated on me." That's what my one ? said.

I don't know but my pride won't tolerate being cheated on. So u damn right i wanna know if ur ass has been cheating so i can cut u off with the quickness.. In that situation she can ask ? for forgiveness cos she damn sure won't be forgiven by me.

Honestly: Would U Really Want To Know If Your S/O Cheated? 68 votes

? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
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ITS WHATEVER, AS LONG AS THAT WAS A ONCE-OFF THING OF THE PAST AND SHE CLEAN, THEN I DONT REALLY WANNA KNOW
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  • Max.
    Max. Members Posts: 33,009 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    So my last GF we went out..we argue too much...i broke up with her..last time we hung out she used my phone to check her instagram...she logged out..but what the ? didnt know is i still got notifications sent to my phone...so i was seeing when dudes would DM her...n try m get at her...i act like i didnt know...asked her if she talked to any dudes since we broke up(she said no) i screen shotted messages n called her a stupid ?

    And doesnt matter had sex

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  • Max.
    Max. Members Posts: 33,009 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    U cheat on me ill bury u ?
  • _Lefty
    _Lefty Members Posts: 6,564 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited March 2014
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    She don't care about us, she care about her, that makes the ? selfish, selfish ? are the bane of any ? existence. Lord forbid I have a child with her, she tryin to strip me for child support just to get her pockets together why my son still wearin walmart shoes or some ? like that. A stable, honest relationship that you can grow in is what is is, but two people coexisting to further themselves is a train wreck waiting to happen. Anybody cheatin in a relationship is selfish, and greedy, two things I can't be around.
  • HafBayked
    HafBayked Members Posts: 16,248 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    i wanna know, but it's not so i can turn her loose....im pretty much like t/s homie said...she had a weak moment, a fling, whatever....im obviously not happy about it but she's human

    and she would tell me anyway
  • Darth Sidious
    Darth Sidious Members Posts: 2,507 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    You have to know, it can put your life\health in jeopardy.
  • MARIO_DRO
    MARIO_DRO Members Posts: 14,425 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    SHE IS GONE... PERIOD....
  • playmaker88
    playmaker88 Members Posts: 67,905 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    Yup so I can hit the delete put it in the recycle bin and empty
  • Tommy_Milfhitta
    Tommy_Milfhitta Members Posts: 1,608 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    You have to know, it can put your life\health in jeopardy.

    @‌ Darth Sidious

    Suppose it was just a young fling. Like i said, let's say she is clean (no stds etc), she has no feelings for dude, they don't keep in touch or anything and there's no way she wud let the ? in her space ever again. Wud u still wanna know?
  • AZTG
    AZTG Members Posts: 7,598 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    Yea ima need to know. So i can proceed to put hands on her soon as she tells me.
  • T. Sanford
    T. Sanford Guests, Members, Writer, Content Producer Posts: 25,291 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    If she cheat on me then I'll gun her down, so she won't cheat on anyone else
  • Black Boy King
    Black Boy King Members Posts: 6,984 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    Yes. Too many chicks in the world to be sharing one.
  • jono
    jono Members Posts: 30,280 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Ignorance can be bliss, so an argument can be made for not wanting to know but I can't see myself being so blind as to let someone take advantage of me.
  • Darth Sidious
    Darth Sidious Members Posts: 2,507 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited March 2014
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    @Tommy_Milfhitta‌

    That's a lot of IFs but IF those were the circumstances I could probably take a pass on knowing.

    I am not a religious person but in the classes I took before we got married at our church, they ask you if you could forgive your spouse if they had an affair.

    The answer they want of course is 'yes, you could forgive' but it depends on the circumstances as we say. I tend to hold grudges pretty well so I couldn't answer that truthfully until put in the situation.

  • playmaker88
    playmaker88 Members Posts: 67,905 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    Full disclosure..

    Not a white hipster I dont say ? like ? yea

    Macklemore ass muthalova
  • Recaptimus_Prime360
    Recaptimus_Prime360 Members Posts: 64,801 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    Yup. Green light for me to do my thing.
  • dallas' 4 eva
    dallas' 4 eva Members Posts: 11,216 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    So T/S did your cousin cheat on you with your brother or what?
  • Trollio
    Trollio Members Posts: 25,815 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Ima ? her home girl
  • S2J
    S2J Members Posts: 28,458 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    That ngga said 'as long as she didnt catch feelings'

    There's a whole new breed of ? nggas out here, i tell ya...
  • Tommy_Milfhitta
    Tommy_Milfhitta Members Posts: 1,608 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    S2J wrote: »
    That ngga said 'as long as she didnt catch feelings'

    There's a whole new breed of ? nggas out here, i tell ya...

    Lol.. thats exactly what I thought. Like a ? just dicked ur ? down nd u kinda "kul" widdit as long as she don't feel emotionally attracted to him. FOH...
  • REV_RAGE
    REV_RAGE Members Posts: 675 ✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    I would want to know problem is by the time they would tell me I'd plant'em and fertilize the daisies.
  • HarlemThumzUp
    HarlemThumzUp Members Posts: 4,942 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ITS WHATEVER, AS LONG AS THAT WAS A ONCE-OFF THING OF THE PAST AND SHE CLEAN, THEN I DONT REALLY WANNA KNOW
    what you don't know cant hurt you is pov
  • Alkinduz
    Alkinduz Members Posts: 2,070 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Threadstarter, slap that ? azz ? that is cool with not knowing and bannish him from your circle.

    da ? is this not wanting to know babble? Madness mayneee

    There will be death and destruction lol
  • NothingButTheTruth
    NothingButTheTruth Members Posts: 10,850 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    ? YEAH! I WANNA KNOW GOTDAMIT!!
    Trust is everything in a relationship. Once you break that, it's over, so yes.