Ladies, Do You Wanna Win or Do You Wanna Winner?
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Billy_Poncho
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I mean win in the sense that you're the primary earner, the one who has the most power in making decisions in the relationship, etc. or would you rather take a back seat and let your man make the money and guide the course of the relationship
Fellas, are y'all cool with being in a relationship with a woman that makes more than you and has a better social standing than you?
Fellas, are y'all cool with being in a relationship with a woman that makes more than you and has a better social standing than you?
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I don't think it's an either/or. Like I make more money than my girl. But even if I didn't, I'd still make most of the decisions. She would much prefer to leave ? to me.
But yeah, I could deal with a woman who made more money than me. I kinda feel like ? who feel like less of a man because their woman makes more money than them are clowns to start with. -
Is this your FOF thread idea Billy? Hm.
I want a winner that I can help further win. -
Food, Sex, and Silence is the only things that matter..I could careless if my woman made more than me.
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Is this your FOF thread idea Billy? Hm.
I want a winner that I can help further win.
Say some controversial ? , I need numbers -
This the supposedly FOF thread?
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Wait......she makes more money and I'm supposed to feel upset?
Nah ? .......... I'm looking for a sugamomma matter fact @topoftheworld take care of me
@Cain need a j-o-b first. -
I would argue that a woman being with a man that makes less than her is not actually a win, but really a loss.
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I'll take a winner
That way together we can be successful
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Making the most money doesn't mean someone has the most power when it comes to decision making in a marriage/long term relationship. That's something that's decided w/o any pay check influence. Plenty hen pecked dudes who bank alot of money yet their wives control all the finances. I could be with a woman who made more than me. Her making more money wouldn't mean ? but more expendable income for the both of us.
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Alright the white women have spoken and spoken well.
Where the sistas stand on this here -
She can make more but I'm not gonna be some slouch ass ? . I'm gonna put in work too. No way in hell I'm going leach off someone else.
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Diamond push or bust.
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It doesn't matter. If she makes more, cool. If not, cool.
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inb4 i call somebody a soft ass new ngga. Pologies in advance.
But its relative imo
If i'm makin, say 100k, i'm comfortable w/ my woman makin more than me b/c i'm gettin it myself.
But if i was makin 10/hour, and she makin 20/hr...30/hr...100k, etc...
Thats just not gonna work. -
inb4 i call somebody a soft ass new ngga. Pologies in advance.
But its relative imo
If i'm makin, say 100k, i'm comfortable w/ my woman makin more than me b/c i'm gettin it myself.
But if i was makin 10/hour, and she makin 20/hr...30/hr...100k, etc...
Thats just not gonna work.
What would be your specific issue if she was making $10/hr and she was making $20/hr? Like why wouldn't that work? -
I wouldnt mind at all. The whole point of being together , is to support eachother . Her accomplishments and success will only benifit me.
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Where's the ambitious ladies at ?
Everybody should want to win (man / woman) first and foremost. -
mryounggun wrote: »inb4 i call somebody a soft ass new ngga. Pologies in advance.
But its relative imo
If i'm makin, say 100k, i'm comfortable w/ my woman makin more than me b/c i'm gettin it myself.
But if i was makin 10/hour, and she makin 20/hr...30/hr...100k, etc...
Thats just not gonna work.
What would be your specific issue if she was making $10/hr and she was making $20/hr? Like why wouldn't that work?
this cat is basing his manhood off of being above his woman financially
a girl with more money than me>>>>taking care of a broke broad
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hmm
more dudes than ladies answering the question. Interesting -
I dont care who's "winning" as long as we crossing the finish line together....we both do everything we can to bring as much as possible to the table so we should never have any problems in that area...
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mryounggun wrote: »inb4 i call somebody a soft ass new ngga. Pologies in advance.
But its relative imo
If i'm makin, say 100k, i'm comfortable w/ my woman makin more than me b/c i'm gettin it myself.
But if i was makin 10/hour, and she makin 20/hr...30/hr...100k, etc...
Thats just not gonna work.
What would be your specific issue if she was making $10/hr and she was making $20/hr? Like why wouldn't that work?
this cat is basing his manhood off of being above his woman financially
a girl with more money than me>>>>taking care of a broke broad
Aye, dont speak for me u broke ngga, u lol
To answer the question its just how it is. Man thing *shrug*
I could go Biblical and mention being equally yoked, head of household, men leading, etc, but yall dont like that very much so yall got it. Continue to ride shotty in ya BM whip as she pumps the gas. Yea thats how i feel today. -
what if the female has the higher paying job and the man makes a little less. But his job/career has all the benefits that the family needs that the females job doesn't have...
is that still a win for the man? -
Ya'll ? lookin at it wrong, once you and that woman are together, the competition ceases. You must work together to make the union rise. It don't matter who make the most money because that's not what we're in it for. I love my girl with everything in me, and though I make more money, it don't matter because I make sure she got everything I got. There was a time when she made much more than me, and I was making nothing because I was on house arrest and couldn't do me, so I made sure she came home to an environment that was as peaceful, and as stable as possible by performing most of the duties that would be described as womanly. She still respected me as a man, and the leader of our household. Once you're really with someone, it's about the union, Synergy my ? , synergy. Learn that ? .
