Which Woman Would You Choose?
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BOSSExcellence wrote: »Damn at ? choosing to live in a lower income household just so they wont ever have to cook or clean.
Yes, yes.
Pic A simply says
- Wants you to cook
-Expects you to clean
It doesn't say you will be expected to be the only one doing those things, just that you will be expected to do.
? "expect" me to do what?!?!
a ? ?? "expect"..
since the ? when??!
Expect you to not throw her in a trunk, and push the car into the lake.
Basically, everyone has different expectation when entering into a relationship, of course, most people probably have the expectations used in the above example.
oh..
now see.. thats reasonable tho. lol -
Damn at ? choosing to live in a lower income household just so they wont ever have to cook or clean.
Yes, yes.
Pic A simply says
- Wants you to cook
-Expects you to clean
It doesn't say you will be expected to be the only one doing those things, just that you will be expected to do.
That's not necessarily true
If I'm a lawyer that does not have to worry about domestic work I can put in more hours and make comparatively the same as a dual income household
This isn't necessarily true either because you don't know how much your spouse will be making in this situation, and the exact figure of how much more you would make by not cooking 2-3 days a week, and not cleaning up after yourself is unknown.
The women in example B is probably bringing in around 15-20k a year (remember the majority of Americans make no more than 24k a year, and B needs to borrow your car, money, and isn't working throughout the year, sooo)
The women who owns her own business it probably bringing in 80-200K a year.
I'm estimating that you not cooking 2-3 days out of the week, and not cleaning up occasionally would have to result in you making an extra 60k at min to make up for you choosing B.
Pic says nothing about 2 or 3 days
I assumed it was everyday
If she wont cook at all and I don't cook every day then that means I'm spending money on takeout many times a week
I could arguably be spending enough that the dual income isn't even that much higher than the single income
Not to mention the affects on health that eating out can have
The pic also says nothing of her income
80k is well above the median in most places, her net may not even be that much
No reason to assume that, it only said "wants you to cook". If the person who originally made these pics wanted it to be for everyday they should have just wrote the same thing they did for pic B, like "expects to have a meal prepared when she gets home." or made it more clear.
And it doesn't make much time to make a meal if you plan ahead, and know what you're doing.
@bold, no it's not, minus people who are under 24, personal median income is around 32k for the country.
It's cool if people are comfortable and want to go with B, but I'd rather have more money. -
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Damn at ? choosing to live in a lower income household just so they wont ever have to cook or clean.
Yes, yes.
Pic A simply says
- Wants you to cook
-Expects you to clean
It doesn't say you will be expected to be the only one doing those things, just that you will be expected to do.
That's not necessarily true
If I'm a lawyer that does not have to worry about domestic work I can put in more hours and make comparatively the same as a dual income household
This isn't necessarily true either because you don't know how much your spouse will be making in this situation, and the exact figure of how much more you would make by not cooking 2-3 days a week, and not cleaning up after yourself is unknown.
The women in example B is probably bringing in around 15-20k a year (remember the majority of Americans make no more than 24k a year, and B needs to borrow your car, money, and isn't working throughout the year, sooo)
The women who owns her own business it probably bringing in 80-200K a year.
I'm estimating that you not cooking 2-3 days out of the week, and not cleaning up occasionally would have to result in you making an extra 60k at min to make up for you choosing B.
Pic says nothing about 2 or 3 days
I assumed it was everyday
If she wont cook at all and I don't cook every day then that means I'm spending money on takeout many times a week
I could arguably be spending enough that the dual income isn't even that much higher than the single income
Not to mention the affects on health that eating out can have
The pic also says nothing of her income
80k is well above the median in most places, her net may not even be that much
No reason to assume that, it only said "wants you to cook". If the person who originally made these pics wanted it to be for everyday they should have just wrote the same thing they did for pic B, like "expects to have a meal prepared when she gets home." or made it more clear.
And it doesn't make much time to make a meal if you plan ahead, and know what you're doing.
@bold, no it's not, minus people who are under 24, personal median income is around 32k for the country.
It's cool if people are comfortable and want to go with B, but I'd rather have more money.
Well if we're going to interpret it that loosely we could just say that her wanting me to cook and expecting me to clean does not preclude her not doing these things
While it looks better under this light B is still more attractive -
If a chick is trying to boss her s/o around then she's already lost all respect for that person(or never had any to begin with) and it also shows a lack of trust. That relationship is destined to fail
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B...i been hustling all my life, aint desperate to have a woman that works. I need a woman to bare me children and raise them in a clean house and not complain about being to tired from work to give me the ? on tap.
I can cook, I just hate doing it....would rather earn enough to give her an allowance for taking care of home. -
Why you flag my ? for tho Six?
? can't have opinions anymore since you became mod?
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Why you flag my ? for tho Six?
? can't have opinions anymore since you became mod?
Not sure what you mean. I flag stupid posts just as much as I did prior to modding. They just hold more weight now, which isn't my fault. -
SixSickSins wrote: »
SMH...why is my opinion stupid? @SixSickSins
Because you disagree or what I said makes no sense? -
Both.
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B...i been hustling all my life, aint desperate to have a woman that works. I need a woman to bare me children and raise them in a clean house and not complain about being to tired from work to give me the ? on tap.
I can cook, I just hate doing it....would rather earn enough to give her an allowance for taking care of home.
real ? ? rite here everything cept givin her an allowance cause everything thats mine is hers but i need my house clean n food on the table n i dont want my kids gettin use to baby sitters ya american ? lost with these 50/50 ? ya really cooking for ya chicks like that she dont respect u juss my opinion -
SixSickSins wrote: »
SMH...why is my opinion stupid? @SixSickSins
Because you disagree or what I said makes no sense?
Because it hurt her feelings
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B
Lol @ borrowing $20 & my car, i'd buy her a car and give her pocket money as she needs it
Smh at choosing a partner based on her income, ? I can make money, hell if both of us working full-time especially to the point where we have to split cooking and cleaning, obviously we dont have time for each other so what's the point of being in a relationship
? is the new gold diggers. lol
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B - not trying to be Mr mom.
Historically B would get chosen anyway. I know a ton of chicks that are A and they are single, childless and living life. (wife's friends)They hate on B because she can easily find a man but most A's wont ever date B's man. -
I salute any woman out there on her grind, gettin equal pay, in school, career focused. I salute to all those single women.
But uhhh....I will not tolerate women who think its about them, when its about me. And uh, we cant make decisons that cost the team. No. Im from the old school...Cannot play with em. Cannot win with em. Cant do it. I need winners. -
B
Lol @ borrowing $20 & my car, i'd buy her a car and give her pocket money as she needs it
Smh at choosing a partner based on her income, ? I can make money, hell if both of us working full-time especially to the point where we have to split cooking and cleaning, obviously we dont have time for each other so what's the point of being in a relationship
Smh @ choosing a partner just you won't ever have to clean up after yourself. -
I'll take A plus if we married & she ? up then I can ether her in court
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*black women owns successful company*
*ic posters* - "black excellence" "wife" "needs to be more women like her"
*black women in question" - you know this business sometimes takes up my time, can you go ahead and throw something together a few times a week?"
Some ic posters - "what!?" "Cooking, cleaning up?" "Naw, I ant doing none of that, better get on wit that. Sorry, this ain't gonna work." -
SixSickSins wrote: »
So what people supposed to do when you going off making ? remarks? -
You to single to be doing so much crying my ?*black women owns successful company*
*ic posters* - "black excellence" "wife" "needs to be more women like her"
*black women in question" - you know this business sometimes takes up my time, can you go ahead and throw something together a few times a week?"
Some ic posters - "what!?" "Cooking, cleaning up?" "Naw, I ant doing none of that, better get on wit that. Sorry, this ain't gonna work."
Live and let live g
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Flagged for the bolded. FOH
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lol
My bad @Westie
Forgot you already have a full household.
What other benefits would I get from being your househusband? -
You to single to be doing so much crying my ?*black women owns successful company*
*ic posters* - "black excellence" "wife" "needs to be more women like her"
*black women in question" - you know this business sometimes takes up my time, can you go ahead and throw something together a few times a week?"
Some ic posters - "what!?" "Cooking, cleaning up?" "Naw, I ant doing none of that, better get on wit that. Sorry, this ain't gonna work."
Live and let live g
I am letting you live, which is why I haven't reacted to your post.
I'm merely responding to those that's acting like A is doing something wrong because she owns a business, is not a "traditional women" and likely doesn't have the time to perform "full time stay at home parent" duties as a result.
It's one thing to have preferences, it's something else to act like she has committed some atrocity because she owns a business. -
Obviously A, didn't really have a choice here.
