YouTuber continues to date girl with video of train leaks out

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  • Busta Carmichael
    Busta Carmichael Members, Moderators Posts: 13,161 Regulator
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    That's all it takes Ol jays?

    Hes not even just smashing. He's wifing
  • mryounggun
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    Crude_ wrote: »
    Everyone has a past but people when hard evidence like videos and pictures are present that changes the perspective for some people.

    No one wants to be anyones fool and that's where pride comes into play because people don't want to deal with another person's past if their is tangible evidence there that can show it on repeat.

    Its kind of an oxymoron in many ways in what people are willing to put up with but I don't judge regardless, because I got a past just like the next man or woman.

    The only different between you, me, and some random third party is that you and I don't have our past ? laundry floating around for someone visually to see. A lot of people care more about what their peers think about them and their lives than they would like to let on though....

    'Pride and Ego destroy great men!' -A great philosopher

    I mean, if I got one foot out the door already or if my relationship ain't really worth a damn anyway, using the fact that a video surfaced might be a convenient reason to bounce.

    But if my relationship is A1 and we ain't got no big problems or whatever and THEN some video pops up from years before I was around...I can't let me pride make me bounce. That's kid ? to me. ? ain't that complicated, from where I'm sitting. Seems like if ? break up with their girl after the video, they're main concern is ? laughing at them at parties and ? or being the butt of ? jokes...rather than their relationship with their woman.

    I mean, if there were LIES and ? involved, maybe that's a different story. But simply the fact that it happened? I'ma need something more compelling than that to break up my home. But I'm a ? who recognizes when pride is helping a situation and when it's hurting one.
  • sunlord
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    I see ? don't know the difference between pride and honor..... men don't want ? because we generally want to be respected by our peers and our communities. Honor seems to be a foreign concept to some people
  • Ol Jay's
    Ol Jay's Members Posts: 8,286 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    sunlord wrote: »
    Ol Jay's wrote: »
    ? tripping, I'm wifing
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    You going to come home one day to a bunch of ? in your bedroom. All them ? going to be on the PlayStation...... you know what I'm saying??

    no I don't know what you're saying, I ain't worried on thinking about no ? like that

    You sounding insecure, who hurt you bro?
  • Ol Jay's
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    That's all it takes Ol jays?

    Hes not even just smashing. He's wifing

    she's pretty, got a fatty, and a freak, all I need bro
  • Trollio
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    Kat wrote: »
    You probably ate a freshly ? box and don't even know it..but keep on acting like you above some ? ..lol.

    ? is funny.

    You sent me nudes when I was 15, so technically you are a ? .

    Some women have morals. I know it's a hard concept for you to grasp.

    I was 15 too @Kat
  • black caesar
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    How did this turn from a funny thread to Kat arguing?
  • mryounggun
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    Ol Jay's wrote: »
    That's all it takes Ol jays?

    Hes not even just smashing. He's wifing

    she's pretty, got a fatty, and a freak, all I need bro

    I mean, I need a little more than THAT...I get where you're come from through. Lol.
  • aneed123
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    Westie wrote: »
    Kat wrote: »
    Kat wrote: »
    mryounggun wrote: »
    Let's just cut to the chase and skip the ? ...


    ...What's ACTUALLY wrong with a woman who might want to ? 2 ? at the same time? As long as everybody is open and honest and whatnot, I legit don't see the problem here. A lot of y'all ? is OD naive. TRUST ME when I tell you that mad women wouldn't mind getting piped by two dudes at the same time. To me, all this ? means is that her freak level is a lil higher than some other women or she's a little more willing to explore it than most women.

    It is what it is. ? might not want to accept this cuz it's taboo or whatever, more than a few of y'all ? are just blind to the fact that - if you remove the stigma from it - your queen would be down for all kinda of ? you prolly wouldn't believe.

    Unless she was cheating on some ? and ? 2 ? on the side, I don't see the issue.

    But that's ME.

    Tell em boo.

    IC dudes are so corny.

    Ain't nothing corny about not wanting a slore.

    There's plenty of women who haven't been DP'ed just as there are plenty of dudes who don't scumbag or smash their friends girl.

    ? and scumbags always try to justify their actions by saying that there is nothing wrong with what they do.

    That's fine if that's not what YOU want, but that's not where it ends with IC boys. Y'all want to make the person that may not be for you personally out to be some pariah on society cause they got their sexual kicks off once upon a ? time. Grow the ? up.

    Truth is y'all don't really care, you just don't want people to know. Just like ? keep cheaters long as nobody knows they keeping a dog.

    Live and let live.

    I let go of this girl I was seeing when I was 22 because of her past lol. Call me petty or whatever but a piece of mind is always better than ending up with child support because of a loose woman. It's not about anyone finding out. It's for my own psyche.

    One a yamp always a yamp. You can always control your sexual desires.

    Shiit there's dudes out here that are smashing whales or 16 year olds because they can't control their sexual desires.

    But I'm not judging anyone. I'm just saying every action has a consequence . You smash 5 dudes at a party and best believe it will follow you until you die.

    Lol ? please.

    1 - It's called a hoe "phase" for a reason. People grow out of it and/or calm their hot ? down every day.

    2 - all you gotta do to have some hoe ? not follow you around is move, or hang around in different circles. It really aint that deep.

    The truth is, you never know what someone did to get off before they met you. Any hang ups you have around their previous, legal behavior has more to do with your hangups than theirs.

    Also, what this girl did doesn't make her a hoe. She wasn't cheating on anyone, she ? . So what? I don't get the anger towards her. Its so weird.

    it dont matter... tell a ? u like for real like could be ir husband type of like that u was a caboose in a train and it was only a ? phase and watch what happens....
  • Ol Jay's
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    lol, they did a prank where she called him another ? 's name :#
  • aneed123
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    LordZuko wrote: »
    HK365 wrote: »
    LordZuko wrote: »
    HK365 wrote: »
    Think about the first time you hooked up with your girls, was she good? How do you think she got like that? You think she was just minding her own business and waiting on you to appear in her life? Man, FOH with that high school nonsense.

    You ain’t planting no flags or exploring new land, these hoes for everybody.

    Stop catching feelings over your girl and what she did before you, if you’re a grown ass man and she loyal to you now, when it matters, then the ? ain’t really important.

    This thought process is asinine.
    A good predictor of future behavior is past behavior.
    If you have a girl that gets off on multiple partners and ? that does not disappear.
    Female orgasms release oxytocin in the brain a feel good chemical that is addictive. Sexual stimuli becomes associated with this euphoria so she's chasing a high.

    It's just not smart to approach females with this mentality

    Chocolate releases oxytocin, should I avoid girls who ate 3 or 4 bars in one night also?

    The insecurity from some of yall is tragic, she ain’t a used car homie. The ? doesn’t depreciate because of how many owners it has previously, if she a real one then she a real one.

    She's worse than a used car. A car can be refurbished, parts replaced engines tuned fuel lines flushed. Hell you can change the engine upgrade it.

    A woman depreciates over time. She got a window like an athlete. Her 20s are her prime years but them the years females like to hoe around and find themselves.

    The older a woman gets The less viable her eggs are, the more emotional baggage she carries from letting a 100+ different ? inside her. She desperate for that one true love [read: sucka] to validate her and make her feel like she not just a washed up thot.

    By the time they wanna settle down they bringing to the table is student loan debt and some Larry Holmes ? .

    yup women age like milk men age like wine
  • konceptjones
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    Crude_ wrote: »
    Everyone has a past but people when hard evidence like videos and pictures are present that changes the perspective for some people.

    No one wants to be anyones fool and that's where pride comes into play because people don't want to deal with another person's past if their is tangible evidence there that can show it on repeat.

    Its kind of an oxymoron in many ways in what people are willing to put up with but I don't judge regardless, because I got a past just like the next man or woman.

    The only different between you, me, and some random third party is that you and I don't have our past ? laundry floating around for someone visually to see. A lot of people care more about what their peers think about them and their lives than they would like to let on though....

    Granted, I have no interest in what the broad is doing nowadays, but y'all know my ex-fiancee was a stripper back in the mid 90's. What an extremely small number of people know about her is that the spot she worked at also put out a monthly magazine and she was featured in it back in '94, ? naked, full face and everything. Now, we're 23 years since that magazine was on the shelf. Maybe she's a well respected member of whatever community she lives in and has effectively buried her past as a stripper. Maybe she's a teacher, maybe she's a small business owner, maybe she's on the city council or something. Whatever the case, if pics from that magazine ever surfaced and the people in her community saw it I'm pretty sure her reputation would be completely ? 'cause knowing her she likely hasn't told anyone about her being a stripper ever since getting out of it around '98.
  • Ol Jay's
    Ol Jay's Members Posts: 8,286 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    sunlord wrote: »
    Ol Jay's wrote: »
    sunlord wrote: »
    Ol Jay's wrote: »
    ? tripping, I'm wifing
    pg9qwpm8cik4.png

    You going to come home one day to a bunch of ? in your bedroom. All them ? going to be on the PlayStation...... you know what I'm saying??

    no I don't what you're saying, I ain't worried on thinking about no ? like that

    You sounding insecure, who hurt you bro?

    ? I sound like I had a ? father.

    did Your old ass pops have a PlayStation?

    I'm a grown ass man, ? I look like owning a video game system, that's kid ? , no wonder your girl getting trains ran on her

    I bet any ? worried about her past own a video game system :#
  • aneed123
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    Cain wrote: »
    Question for the fellas ........Would you ? with a chick that had the same body count as you?

    no.... most ? who consistently get ? in life forget their actual ? count by their early 20s...
  • sunlord
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    Ol Jay's wrote: »
    sunlord wrote: »
    Ol Jay's wrote: »
    sunlord wrote: »
    Ol Jay's wrote: »
    ? tripping, I'm wifing
    pg9qwpm8cik4.png

    You going to come home one day to a bunch of ? in your bedroom. All them ? going to be on the PlayStation...... you know what I'm saying??

    no I don't what you're saying, I ain't worried on thinking about no ? like that

    You sounding insecure, who hurt you bro?

    ? I sound like I had a ? father.

    did Your old ass pops have a PlayStation?

    I'm a grown ass man, ? I look like owning a video game system, that's kid ? , no wonder your girl getting trains ran on her

    I bet any ? worried about her past own a video game system :#

    ? you are a ? idiot, I can't believe you're too ? stupid understand what I was saying.
  • LPast
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    mryounggun wrote: »
    Crude_ wrote: »
    Everyone has a past but people when hard evidence like videos and pictures are present that changes the perspective for some people.

    No one wants to be anyones fool and that's where pride comes into play because people don't want to deal with another person's past if their is tangible evidence there that can show it on repeat.

    Its kind of an oxymoron in many ways in what people are willing to put up with but I don't judge regardless, because I got a past just like the next man or woman.

    The only different between you, me, and some random third party is that you and I don't have our past ? laundry floating around for someone visually to see. A lot of people care more about what their peers think about them and their lives than they would like to let on though....

    'Pride and Ego destroy great men!' -A great philosopher

    I mean, if I got one foot out the door already or if my relationship ain't really worth a damn anyway, using the fact that a video surfaced might be a convenient reason to bounce.

    But if my relationship is A1 and we ain't got no big problems or whatever and THEN some video pops up from years before I was around...I can't let me pride make me bounce. That's kid ? to me. ? ain't that complicated, from where I'm sitting. Seems like if ? break up with their girl after the video, they're main concern is ? laughing at them at parties and ? or being the butt of ? jokes...rather than their relationship with their woman.

    I mean, if there were LIES and ? involved, maybe that's a different story. But simply the fact that it happened? I'ma need something more compelling than that to break up my home. But I'm a ? who recognizes when pride is helping a situation and when it's hurting one.

    From what I see on this site is that long term relationships or marriage is rarely ever discussed. The prospect of having a relationship of value isn't considered.

    The relationships discussed are generally disposable.
  • Lou Cypher
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    I've learned a lot from this thread.
  • Ol Jay's
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    sunlord wrote: »
    Ol Jay's wrote: »
    sunlord wrote: »
    Ol Jay's wrote: »
    sunlord wrote: »
    Ol Jay's wrote: »
    ? tripping, I'm wifing
    pg9qwpm8cik4.png

    You going to come home one day to a bunch of ? in your bedroom. All them ? going to be on the PlayStation...... you know what I'm saying??

    no I don't what you're saying, I ain't worried on thinking about no ? like that

    You sounding insecure, who hurt you bro?

    ? I sound like I had a ? father.

    did Your old ass pops have a PlayStation?

    I'm a grown ass man, ? I look like owning a video game system, that's kid ? , no wonder your girl getting trains ran on her

    I bet any ? worried about her past own a video game system :#

    ? you are a ? idiot, I can't believe you're too ? stupid understand what I was saying.

    bro you wasn't saying ? , you're talking about some ? that don't pertain to me, I'm taking about wifing this goddess and you're trying to project your insecurities on me