Nelly's thoughts on why so many black women are single!
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"This is just my opinion. I think some girls want the perfect guy. I'm not saying he doesn't exist, he just has to exist for you. It's not going to exist for society...and for you to say "this is the perfect guy".
"We interpret relationships wrong a little bit. Instead of 'Do we look right in society's eyes?', it should be 'Does he look right in MY eyes? Does he take care of me..make me feel special?' He may not be 6'2 broad shoulders and all that...but I've seen girls turn down a great guy because he doesn't look the part."
"Then you got the guys who look the part, but don't act the part. It's just about coming up with that balance. Society has also put us in a rut--either brothers are in jail...or don't like girls no more. To each his own."
He also threw in that women need to let a man be a man, but women are still everything to a man. Hmmm. Your thoughts?
"We interpret relationships wrong a little bit. Instead of 'Do we look right in society's eyes?', it should be 'Does he look right in MY eyes? Does he take care of me..make me feel special?' He may not be 6'2 broad shoulders and all that...but I've seen girls turn down a great guy because he doesn't look the part."
"Then you got the guys who look the part, but don't act the part. It's just about coming up with that balance. Society has also put us in a rut--either brothers are in jail...or don't like girls no more. To each his own."
He also threw in that women need to let a man be a man, but women are still everything to a man. Hmmm. Your thoughts?
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did he say this was specifically in reference to black women? because this just sounds like...women.
it actually sounds like PEOPLE. idk wtf do i know..its nelly speaking after all -
were these shots fired at Ashanti?
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I wonder what Ja Rule's thoughts are on this
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marie addams wrote: »did he say this was specifically in reference to black women? because this just sounds like...women.
it actually sounds like PEOPLE. idk wtf do i know..its nelly speaking after all -
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He made a good point but this applies to all people black, white, Spanish etc.
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This maightbe the first thing spoken from Nelly I agree with. itss not eventhat womens standards be too high, its that most times they'd rather turn the wrong dude into the right dude...or let their homegirls get in their head.
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I need her in my life...... -
marie addams wrote: »did he say this was specifically in reference to black women? because this just sounds like...women.
it actually sounds like PEOPLE. idk wtf do i know..its nelly speaking after all
The question was asked specifically towards black women!
He also addessed Ashanti, it wasn't addressed to her, he gave her compliments and said she was a beautiful person. Stop tryna start ? Reina. lol -
This maightbe the first thing spoken from Nelly I agree with. itss not eventhat womens standards be too high, its that most times they'd rather turn the wrong dude into the right dude...or let their homegirls get in their head.
Cosign this, i don't understand why women have this complex of molding a man and turning a bad boy into a good guy. -
The question was asked specifically towards black women!
He also addessed Ashanti, it wasn't addressed to her, he gave her compliments and said she was a beautiful person. Stop tryna start ? Reina. lol
U never know. Had to ask though -
Cosign this, i don't understand why women have this complex of molding a man and turning a bad boy into a good guy.
It's a challenge. I'm not saying ALL women do that, but the women that do it the underlining reason is because they like men with a edge to them, then they hope she can make him give up his ways. -
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Lulz black women are dummies.
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I need her in my life......
champ you ain't never lie!!!
shorty is a child support payment I would make with no prob
I was stunned the 1st time I saw that video -
blakfyahking wrote: »champ you ain't never lie!!!
shorty is a child support payment I would make with no prob
I was stunned the 1st time I saw that video
Man I've been all over the IllPix and everywhere else on the IC to see if anybody know who she is....but to no avail.
She can grind on my face just like she's doing in the gif. Clawd Have Mercy, You know what I want. Ms.Parker, Ms.Parker, Hey Ms.Parker... -
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The question was asked specifically towards black women!
He also addessed Ashanti, it wasn't addressed to her, he gave her compliments and said she was a beautiful person. Stop tryna start ? Reina. lol
i was just asking since i didnt see that part anywhere in the statement.
either way. i aint listening to ? he has to say regardless....it's nelly -
"This is just my opinion. I think some girls want the perfect guy. I'm not saying he doesn't exist, he just has to exist for you. It's not going to exist for society...and for you to say "this is the perfect guy".
"We interpret relationships wrong a little bit. Instead of 'Do we look right in society's eyes?', it should be 'Does he look right in MY eyes? Does he take care of me..make me feel special?' He may not be 6'2 broad shoulders and all that...but I've seen girls turn down a great guy because he doesn't look the part."
"Then you got the guys who look the part, but don't act the part. It's just about coming up with that balance. Society has also put us in a rut--either brothers are in jail...or don't like girls no more. To each his own."
He also threw in that women need to let a man be a man, but women are still everything to a man. Hmmm. Your thoughts? -
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Him and Steve Harvey should co author a book!!
They are so insightful!
I've never ever ever heard anyone say that before -
Chico Strickland wrote: »Lulz black women are dummies.
I need her in my life......?
Him and Steve Harvey should co author a book!!
They are so insightful!
I've never ever ever heard anyone say that before -
I need her in my life......
GOAT BET Uncut video
His comments seem repeatable to me -
didnt read any of that once i saw this