Ladies: why do you do this to the men in YOUR life?
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Young_Chitlin
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Let's say that there is a guy that wants you, and you "want him too." However, you let him know with flirtatious body language such as touching et al. He steps up, but you reject him. when you sense that he is distancing himself from you, you start again with the flirtatious body language, only this time, its more obvious that you 'want' him. He gathers courage to step up again, but you reject him again. Why on earth do you do this to us? We want to be with you and you are giving the go ahead to step up, we do that, but then you push us away? Wouldn't it be easier if you told us that you are not interested in a relationship with us??
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she's doing it for her own self confidence
knowing she can get u w.e. she wants is clearly a confidence booster
women need that ?
women hate feeling like no one is attracted to them, or no one wants them
'Preciate the comment Ice. This girl that I was wanting has done this ? to me. She was brushing her leg against mine and always looking at me, so eventually I stepped up and quasi-confessed. She said that she didn't want a relationship with me, so I fell back. A couple of days ago, we and my other friend were watching TV in the student lounge, and she knowingly brushed her butt on my forearm... come on man! At the event last night, I stepped up again. She kept wanting her friend to play cards with me and her, but friend did not want to because she apparently wants me and the girl to ge together. The girl does.not.want.to.get.together.with.me.... I told her that by her friend not playing, that she and I can play cards together... she hissed at me and left a few minutes later smh -
never talk to her ever again
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Don't spend anymore money on her if u are doing so presently....even for the smallest things like going out to lunch or some ? ...then u will truly see if ur dealin with a bird or not
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Young_Chitlin wrote: »Let's say that there is a guy that wants you, and you "want him too." However, you let him know with flirtatious body language such as touching et al. He steps up, but you reject him. when you sense that he is distancing himself from you, you start again with the flirtatious body language, only this time, its more obvious that you 'want' him. He gathers courage to step up again, but you reject him again. Why on earth do you do this to us? We want to be with you and you are giving the go ahead to step up, we do that, but then you push us away? Wouldn't it be easier if you told us that you are not interested in a relationship with us??[/QUOTE]
The problem is you're asking women to produce a logical response for the illogical things that they do. Asking a woman for advice on anything is like taking a German history class from a ? teacher- you're only going to get a short sighted biased half-truth. As for the last part, again for women to do that requires logic, but the sooner you learn that most women have the thinking capacity of a two year old and stop giving a ? what they say or do, the better off you are.
If a woman has a "? " shield up, treat her like a ? , simple..... -
Don't spend anymore money on her if u are doing so presently....even for the smallest things like going out to lunch or some ? ...then u will truly see if ur dealin with a bird or not
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Some women just like playing games and ? around with women, I'd just dead all contact with a chick like that but if she's fine and you see something really happening with yall then keep talking to her son.
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Just dead it. You will feel a lot better.
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Some women just like playing games and ? around with women, I'd just dead all contact with a chick like that but if she's fine and you see something really happening with yall then keep talking to her son.
even if she's fine dead her....u dont want a silly broad like that on your team whatsoever -
Nicely done Ice
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thehonorable wrote: »Just dead it. You will feel a lot better.
holding to the anger and making many threads about it is waaay cooler -
do like a fumble drop tha ?
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naw
holding to the anger and making many threads about it is waaay cooler
Come snuggle with me...my football team lost :-(
I need to take out my aggression/feelings on you. -
i think its worse that after she dismisses u the 1st time u still hold on hope and try again.
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Yeah it is worse and the funny thing is that she's not the first girl that I've 'held hope' on. I know I'm not the only one on the IC that has done this inexcusable behavior
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Young_Chitlin wrote: »Yeah it is worse and the funny thing is that she's not the first girl that I've 'held hope' on. I know I'm not the only one on the IC that has done this inexcusable behavior
then that's you my ? ...yeah she's doing some attention ? ? but you're giving her that attention...everybody wants to feel attractive to somebody, not just women, but the difference is too many men play into giving a woman attention in the "hope" of getting something out of it...try only doing it when you KNOW you're gonna get something out of it and you'll attract chicks that don't play these types of mind games -
lmao @ u THINKING she wants ur ass. How bout - if she wanted u she would go get u.
U think you're reading signs that she wants you, meanwhile you're making it up in ur head. Flirting doesn't = us wanting you. Now you're mad cause u got all the signs mixed up. Don't blame us. Blame yourself. Believe me, if a female wants you she's gone let it be known.
lol yall ? stay crying on here. it's hilarious.
Hiiii BR!! good morning! -
DEE-LICIOUS wrote: »lmao @ u THINKING she wants ur ass. How bout - if she wanted u she would go get u.
U think you're reading signs that she wants you, meanwhile you're making it up in ur head. Flirting doesn't = us wanting you. Now you're mad cause u got all the signs mixed up. Don't blame us. Blame yourself. Believe me, if a female wants you she's gone let it be known.
lol yall ? stay crying on here. it's hilarious.
Hiiii BR!! good morning!
good morning Dee...what's up with you -
Nada, just wasting a few mins b4 I start working for real lol u should tweet :-(
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DEE-LICIOUS wrote: »Nada, just wasting a few mins b4 I start working for real lol u should tweet :-(
I got facebook and my bbm...can't bring myself to do twitter...i don't have that important of a life to let people know what i'm doing all day lol -
I got facebook and my bbm...can't bring myself to do twitter...i don't have that important of a life to let people know what i'm doing all day lol
aye! u bbm a lot? I only chat wit like 2 ppl regularly on there lmao I'm so bad @ responding :-/ -
DEE-LICIOUS wrote: »aye! u bbm a lot? I only chat wit like 2 ppl regularly on there lmao I'm so bad @ responding :-/
yeah i do...either that or straight up texting... -
lol u must bring ur charger to work. My bb loses juice too fast...I just tweet instead of texting cause I can do it on my pc at work
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You gotta be more upfront with females. It doesn't happen often where a friendship can just BLOSSOM into a relationship. ? is just using you. Have the courage from jumpstreet and have her know what it is. If she tries to give you the okeydoke dead it. ? don't realize that they friend zone themselves. I'm just glad for the people I grew up around that kept me outta that trap.
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Young_Chitlin wrote: »Let's say that there is a guy that wants you, and you "want him too." However, you let him know with flirtatious body language such as touching et al. He steps up, but you reject him. when you sense that he is distancing himself from you, you start again with the flirtatious body language, only this time, its more obvious that you 'want' him. He gathers courage to step up again, but you reject him again. Why on earth do you do this to us? We want to be with you and you are giving the go ahead to step up, we do that, but then you push us away? Wouldn't it be easier if you told us that you are not interested in a relationship with us??
Well if girls did that, then how else would they get the wanted attention from men they crave so much?? Women love attention, they like to be validated on a daily basis. Which is why women in relationships will go out to the club. They're not going to pick up a guy and take him home for the night, but they know a guy is gonna come up and talk to her and tell her how beautiful she looks that night. So they can go home to their man and know that there is a man out there besides the one they're with who wants them. Single girls are no different, they will play with a man just so he can come out and say he's attracted to her, regardless if she feels the same way. They just want that validation. -
DEE-LICIOUS wrote: »lol u must bring ur charger to work. My bb loses juice too fast...I just tweet instead of texting cause I can do it on my pc at work
nah my battery life is just really good so long as i'm not roaming the internet all day...i can go 2 days w/o charging my phone