Would a platonic friendship be ruined if the girl wanted more and you rejected her
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makaveli03
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For Example: Lets say both of you was overweight, and yall not dating or nothing but yall just mad close but noone has brought up anything about getting together, then lets say she gets in a relationship with someone while shes losing the weight...and she cool with him an everything...but in the back of your head, your a lil jealous just because shes basically the only girl that gives u the time of day while being 300 pounds. So then yall lose the weight ur tip top shape...and she also is in good shape but all of a sudden u end up looking more attractive than she does in the general aspect....and you subliminally have the idea that now you can go out and get as much ass as you could. If she breaks up with her current BF because she felt that your friendship with her is more important than her relationship...and you rejected her, do you think the friendship can continue between you and her?
And how much of you rejecting her is motivated by getting the attention after losing all that weight being 26 and single?
this question geared to the fellas but women can comment too
And how much of you rejecting her is motivated by getting the attention after losing all that weight being 26 and single?
this question geared to the fellas but women can comment too
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Fat hoes and former fat hoes gets no love
lol but what if when your self esteem was -1039 she was the only one that gave a ? bout u -
ur fat. its cool.
and fat people never get in tip top shape- once u hit a certain age
but no. if this did happen no. because yall friendship was based off of what yall WERE not who u have become -
MERYLISBACK wrote: »ur fat. its cool.
and fat people never get in tip top shape- once u hit a certain age
but no. if this did happen no. because yall friendship was based off of what yall WERE not who u have become
so basically you just proved that love doesnt exist...or if it does then vanity is more important to people personally than being in love? -
all u ? on the ic need to go c ya gynecologists ya estrogen level thru the roof
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what's the fat part got to do with anything?
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makaveli03 wrote: »so basically you just proved that love doesnt exist...or if it does then vanity is more important to people personally than being in love?
u didnt mention love. u said yall was cool. and did yall change? maybe u fell in love with her former self and vice versa -
BackInWhite wrote: »what's the fat part got to do with anything?
just a portion of what yall shared as friends by losing the weight together...and the fact that the way she looks after she lost it hasnt made her as attractive as it made you look when you lost yours...so theres the conflict between being happy and having a chic vs being a ? and ? mad ? ... -
makaveli03 wrote: »just a portion of what yall shared as friends by losing the weight together...and the fact that the way she looks after she lost it hasnt made her as attractive as it made you look when you lost yours...so theres the conflict between being happy and having a chic vs being a ? and ? mad ? ...
oh i see
so we share that weight loss bond
if being a ? and ? mad ? don't equate to happiness then i'd just be with her ugly slim ass -
Fat hoes and former fat hoes gets no love
I could never be fat, ? is despicable.
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Women and Men are allowed to do/feel whatever the ? they want to do as individuals. If the ? dont make sense, who gives a ? , its their right to make a decision whether its stupid or not. If she dont want to ? you (as a guy friend) then dont be angry, just accept it that this ONE (out of a gadrillion) individual isnt sexually attracted to me. Thats it, move on, no hard feelings. Same goes for women.
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so you propose that we forgo emotions and operate on logic?
how come no one thought of this before...
the world will be a much better place now that we have this blueprint...
just stop catching feeling...duh...
thanks bruh...
thanks bruh...
Nail on the head^^^^^^^^^^ -
women = emotion
men= logic -
do you stay friends with chicks who reject you???[/B]
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Perhaps not much has changed these past 13 months.
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do you stay friends with chicks who reject you???[/B]
I personally dont, but if people are in a situation where they were lead on with someone they were close with, I dont see why they should be ? if you think about it -
Me and a good friend of mines had the talk, I told her I did'nt like her in that way and we still cool. She is a blue ribbon chick too
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makaveli03 wrote: »I personally dont, but if people are in a situation where they were lead on with someone they were close with, I dont see why they should be ? if you think about it
Really ? ???
http://community.allhiphop.com/showthread.php?95625-Why-do-women-feel-obligated-to-stay-in-contact-with-someone-they-rejected&highlight=Makaveli03
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I only read the thread title, so not speaking on the details of t/s situaiton, but in general yea that ? 'll get ruined
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why they combine your threads...?man if you dont find loyalty attractive then thats you.
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whatevathehell wrote: »why they combine your threads...?man if you dont find loyalty attractive then thats you.
dont know fam the mods on this website be on some other ? -
it goes both ways as one person is usually more attracted to the person. it will always ruin "friendships" but of the awkwardness
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how important is her friendship to you compared to ? random ? ..I Mean if thats all you want to do then you dont have to rub her face in it, okay you know what after reading the thread again and reading the other one I see why the 2 were combined...however it seems backwards now...I thought you were the one that didnt want her...