So You Get A DNA Test And Find Out Its Not Yours, Whats Next?
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TX_Made713
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Assumin its someone you like and yall been together for a minute. Would you say ? it "once a cheater always a cheater" and leave or would you excuse her mistake and raise someone elses kid.
Lets throw in a little twist and say the dude who actually fathered the kid wants to be in his life.
Lets throw in a little twist and say the dude who actually fathered the kid wants to be in his life.
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for legal reasons i would have to break it off
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id be out if I was a guy
get outta jail free card -
Don't spite the Gods when they smile on you. Run like hell
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id ditch the relationship and move on. only problem is if the ? knows that im a good guy she aint goin let me leave that easily and probably throw salt in my game just to make sure i stay single
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then im out ? .. ? you talkin about. and I agree with that once a cheater always a cheater line. I mean if they can do it once, they are capable of doing it again.
i'll only take a cheater back if they come to me and tell me. That shows me they feel bad about it. but if I find out on my own, I dont wanna hear that sorry ? . you only sorry cuz you got caught -
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That's a foolish question.
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Jesus Jackson wrote: »That's a foolish question.
then why does the opposite of everyones answer happen every day? -
I would name him Jesus.
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? im out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Depends on what you're asking. If you're asking about my relationship with her, if ? bouncing. Less for the fact that she had a baby by another ? and more because the ? let me think he was mine all these years. Can't forgive that.
As far as the relationship with the kid, that's a bit harder. How old is he? I'd imagine I'd be attached to his ass by that point. So ionno. -
pico rivera wrote: »id be out if I was a guy
get outta jail free card
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im walkin out. no argument or nada. im GHOST! No point in stayin in when she already deceived u. Cant be friends either
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lol @ raisin' some other ? 's kid... I' d roll out ASAP.
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TX_Made713 wrote: »then why does the opposite of everyones answer happen every day?
Because until you actually experience a situation all you can do is speculate. The IC is full of that. -
*insert pic of white mom and dad holding a black baby*
stay and raise another mans child? where they do that at?
im out and im getting my number changed. -
It happens all the time.
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I delete the ? and her BASTARD ? from my memory.
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idk. i think i would have to bounce. depends alot on how old the kid is. its easy to be out if the kid is under 1 year old. but if the kid is like 3 or 4 or older and he/she has been callin u daddy all their life, obviously u have a bond with that child. its real easy to say "i'm out of there", but when u gotta look that kid in the eyes, and u will, its goin be mighty tough to say "peace out lil ? ". that being said, i would roll. it wouldnt be easy, but in the end, it aint my kid, and who's to say that the first time u and the baby's mom get into a fight she won't take the kid away anyways? so i would just cut my losses and roll, but it wouldnt be easy at all.
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The_Maryvale_Joker wrote: »..........
rolf lmao Have seen this numerous times and it always has me rollin -
Because until you actually experience a situation all you can do is speculate. The IC is full of that.
its easy to say you'd walk out but when you formed a bond with her and the child, that doesnt go away instantly -
youngstyles23 wrote: »idk. i think i would have to bounce. depends alot on how old the kid is. its easy to be out if the kid is under 1 year old. but if the kid is like 3 or 4 or older and he/she has been callin u daddy all their life, obviously u have a bond with that child. its real easy to say "i'm out of there", but when u gotta look that kid in the eyes, and u will, its goin be mighty tough to say "peace out lil ? ". that being said, i would roll. it wouldnt be easy, but in the end, it aint my kid, and who's to say that the first time u and the baby's mom get into a fight she won't take the kid away anyways? so i would just cut my losses and roll, but it wouldnt be easy at all.
this right here. though on the real I think sometimes dudes just blinded by the excitement of having a kid....cuz how in the hell can you not tell he/she aint yours....esp in my family we got some distinct characteristics apparent since child birth..so the ? would always be in the back of my mind if they werent there. -
a better ? would be why does windows 9 suck so bad? followed by how offended would the women really be if the father requested a dna test asap after birth?