what's these fights about cuz idk

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needmorecash
needmorecash Members Posts: 253
edited December 2011 in The Powder Room
aight so this new relationship is turning out just like my last one.
i want to believe all women are crazy but this make me look at what am i doing to them to make them act like that

me and my girl be fighting and i dont know what the hell we be argueing about. its liike i walk in the crib feeling good and she already mad atbout some bs. then after i hear that shy before my first beer, it be too much for me and i blow up. now im yelling about some ? i dont care about

we talk/see each other everyday. i aint messing with nobody else. too soon for marriage i aint even thinking like that.. . what they need to fill secure or do i need to up my game
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  • Bussy_Getta
    Bussy_Getta Members Posts: 37,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2011
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    maybe your smothering each other too much
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  • CeLLaR-DooR
    CeLLaR-DooR Members Posts: 18,880 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2011
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    eddie2time wrote: »
    aight so this new relationship is turning out just like my last one.
    i want to believe all women are crazy but this make me look at what am i doing to them to make them act like that

    me and my girl be fighting and i dont know what the hell we be argueing about. its liike i walk in the crib feeling good and she already mad atbout some bs. then after i hear that shy before my first beer, it be too much for me and i blow up. now im yelling about some ? i dont care about

    we talk/see each other everyday. i aint messing with nobody else. too soon for marriage i aint even thinking like that.. . what they need to fill secure or do i need to up my game

    I believe this maybe the issue...Why you gotta talk/see your new girl everyday?...That's a marriage hype...Try slowly lowering the communication for a few weeks and see if that helps
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  • Ms Eudoxie
    Ms Eudoxie Members Posts: 406
    edited December 2011
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    What are the arguments about? Can you give some examples? You say they're minor complaints but they mite be important to your girl and your lack of concern mite be a problem.

    Sounds like you two live together. Just know that is there are unspoken or unresolved issues, she's going to keep a 'tude with you. Try talking to her w/o losing your temper. Even if you think the topic is silly (it happens)..... explain the situation from your perspective ...she mite be taking things the wrong way. When I sense my guy is upset, I give him space but come back with a some kind of honesty game (that I make up off the top of my head)...it lightens the tension and gives him the opportunity to vent w/o judgment from me. It works dayum near 100% of the time, mite work on your chick. Just get her to talk and resolve the issue.
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  • UPTOWN
    UPTOWN Members, Moderators, Writer Posts: 13,009 Regulator
    edited December 2011
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    its because of her friends, one which is a male
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  • dalyricalbandit
    dalyricalbandit Members, Moderators Posts: 67,918 Regulator
    edited December 2011
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    seeing some one everyday isnt a great thing
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