what am i doing wrong?
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black caesar wrote: »Mood Indigo wrote: »Pic and also describe your approach.
LOL at Mood Indigo trying to get this man to post a pic up.
Lol, well in order to fully understand his predicament and offer a solution I have to see what he looks like. It only makes sense. -
man your mouthpiece is your strongest weapon. gotta know how to flirt with a woman and make her feel good...make her laugh..etc.
really i talk alot of ? , but not assholeish.. just learn how to flirt. dont be over aggressive or thirsty. make yourself kind of mysterious at the same time..and dont give em what they want
you can talk yourself into some ? easily...but you can also talk yourself out of ? -
Stop being desperate!!! ? can smell desperation from a mile away.
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@mood i would post a pic but it wouldnt be a good look.
@everyone else- im trying. ill say hello or some ? . i was at the club two weeks ago and just posted. this chick was like you need to smile more why you look so mean? so im trying to talk to her. i grab her hand and start talking but she leaves. and goes a couple feet and another ? stops her and she gives the ? play. ? my life. -
maybe they heard rumors about the size of your ?
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Ms Southern wrote:maybe they heard rumors about the size of your ?
lol. not funny. serious discussion. if you have nothing nice to say then kick rocks. when people blame the world for their ills people get mad at them. but when they look in the mirror and try to find out whats wrong you still kick'em. damn thats sad.
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I was being serious .....
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@mood i would post a pic but it wouldnt be a good look.
@everyone else- im trying. ill say hello or some ? . i was at the club two weeks ago and just posted. this chick was like you need to smile more why you look so mean? so im trying to talk to her. i grab her hand and start talking but she leaves. and goes a couple feet and another ? stops her and she gives the ? play. ? my life.
Just because she said that doesn't mean she was interested.
What kind of girls are you going after? -
Just be you and talk like you're you, stop trying to be for them.
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@mood- good looking ones. not to hoeish just somethin to beat.
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You need homegirls to tell you what you're doing wrong. You won't be able to really tell us b/c you can't see yourself from the outside. Body language, eye contact, your "vibe"/energy, ? expression, voice inflection will do most of the talking for you before you even open your mouth.
Also, practice. Just holla at almost every half-decent looking woman you see. You'll get it right soon enough. -
NYCeeCee wrote:You need homegirls to tell you what you're doing wrong. You won't be able to really tell us b/c you can't see yourself from the outside. Body language, eye contact, your "vibe"/energy, ? expression, voice inflection will do most of the talking for you before you even open your mouth.
Also, practice. Just holla at almost every half-decent looking woman you see. You'll get it right soon enough.
thanks for the help. i wish i had homegirls but hell they wouldnt even talk to me either.
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Is the club the only place you try to pic up women?
I know I never talk to guys when I go out because I'm not looking to just hookup. -
Mood Indigo wrote:Is the club the only place you try to pic up women?
I know I never talk to guys when I go out because I'm not looking to just hookup.
so where should i go and how should i approach these woman?
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I don't know how old you are, but Just know that when you're at the club, most young/er (I'd say 23 & under) women aren't looking for the "nice guy". They're looking to see who looks the flashiest (best watch, shoes, maybe a stupid chain or something) b/c they want you to buy them (sometimes their whole crew) some drinks. They couldn't care less what you have to say.
I didn't read the whole thread, so I'm not sure what you're looking for, but if its just sex, get a nice (looking) watch, some nice (looking) shoes, be borderline disrespectful and they'll be all over you. If you're looking for something meaningful, the club may be the last place you wanna look. -
I'm looking for sex and meaningful relationship
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DoUwant2go2Heaven? wrote: »? presented Eve to Adam. You don't have to go looking for her. She will come looking for you. Amen.
yo, is this ? serious??? -
You're new, that's DoU, the "Jesus Freak", "Go Hard Christian", yes he's serious.
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woooooooooow
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Maybe you just mad corny b.
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BlackThor356 wrote: »DoUwant2go2Heaven? wrote: »? presented Eve to Adam. You don't have to go looking for her. She will come looking for you. Amen.
yo, is this ? serious???
Dude is a self proclaimed "Christian sodomite." Don't take anything duke says seriously.
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I'm looking for sex and meaningful relationship
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Start tricking.
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You not going to find that looking in a club. Are you school? If so, join diff clubs/organizations to meett new people.