Ladies: I met this girl that made me break my rules (help me out)

my input is simply this,

i always treated every woman i went out with the way i felt i would treat the one i would end up settling down with....

and i'm not talking affection wise, i'm just talking courtesy, and respect wise. I'd call them when i felt like calling them, go out when i felt like going out, and spoke my mind freely as soon as the thoughts came out...I've always been very carefree with the way I talked to women, I never went over the top or out of my comfort zone once to impress, or try to sweep a woman off her feet.....

i just casually acted and treated them like they were just a good friend i've hung out with plenty of times....


the strategy in this ...even though it's not a game.... is simply that i'm being me.......after a movie goes off the actors have to go back to being themselves, you can't play a character, or keep up a game forever...at some point, the real you, the person who you are on the inside is going to surface......

and while most people may keep the real them hidden for weeks, months, and sometimes even years...i display the real me on the very first date.....cuz i figure... if you can deal with the real me off the top... it's something worth pursuing....i can't stand playing a character or trying to figure out them and their character.... i just be me....

so my advice is to simply do what you want to do and damn the consequences...you can't do things wondering how she's going to react..you have to act accordingly to what you know what make you happy. cuz if she's the one you eventually settle down with, she's going to have to eventually meet that part of you...why not introduce him up front?