What Would YOU Do, Ladies?
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Stopitfive wrote: »friends rarely tell their friends the whole story... ijs...
I was gonna say this after my Kat's response to my original post...You kno' how women don't tell their friends about all the sleaze they've done...
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Believe me, I know there are two sides..I used to live with this friend.
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he might just be going through some extreme stress
stress can REALLY ? up a guys sex drive, and if the stress is work related or related to a subject that maybe he feels she can't handle, it can come off as being distant
so I wouldn't jump on the "? that ? , lemme find tyrones ? " route
one of my married g/fs went through something similar. The way she was able to get him to really talk about what happening was when she suggested marriage counseling.
for some reason he decided he rather finally talk it out with her instead of a 3rd party.
It actually ended up being combination of stress over some bad business investments and him having to make decision on his mother living with them or continue to try and pay 2 mortgages (theirs and his moms)
good thing she wasn't a hoe and jumped to conclusions too quick
that couldve been disastrous
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Even dudes wit no options. Get tired of whining ?
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btw... dudes dont stop ? they girl because they ? another ? ... thats what chicks do...
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one thing i will say
i've learned soooooooooo much just watching my two g/f go through their marriage ? lol
i've seen both sides of the coin
not all dudes are scummy, even when they do dumb ? , many are just trying to figure out the best way to make a life for their family -
lol at making 100k
50k
Any amount of money and ya girl wont give head.
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is this that 1 chick that doesnt want her dude to know she had sex with a ? in the past?
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Not all men (especially of the white variety) are obsessed with head, but that may be a factor.
I think marriage counseling is a good idea. I am not around both of them together enough to advise her of anything, but I do know that cheating isn't going to make her feel better. It will be a temporary satisfaction at most that will leave her feeling bad about herself in the end.
@lurker6 I no-signed your original post. This is not the same friend. -
He might have be distraught and depressed when if he got ethered or banned from a forum. That stopped my sex drive when I couldn't post on the IC.
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she needa suck a ? ? or somethin...
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Of course no one is surprised you have hoe friends.
You know how I know women are stupid? Because 9/10 solutions they come up wit involve sucking someone's ? .
"Husband isnt ? me often enough? I know, suck a new ? !"
18 years of schooling and ? the smartest thing they can imagine.MzGrahamBitches wrote: »She’s tried everything from dressing sexier around the house, dieting and exercising,
So not only is she a hoe but shes a liar too. ? aint lose not a single iota of a pound but she crediting herself with exercising. and no I dont need to see her to know that. -
ParallelRhymes wrote: »I don't get why women think buying new lingerie will automatically work. We've seen your body naked for years at that point...it might add an extra flare to the package but at the end of the day we know what gift is inside. Don't see why women are so shocked when they say "I bought this lingerie and he didn't even care." He didn't care because he knows under that over priced underwear is the same c-section scarred stomach and saggy ? . *shrugs*
Why are you being so ugly? If you can't be grown about the ? , then go on back to Donkey with the rest of the ? .
The lingerie wasn't put on to entice him or disguise anything, it was put on as "Hey MFer I want some ? tonight!" and as her husband he should have taken note and obliged her.
Just like there are certain signs my man gives off when he wants some ? or some head. As his woman I pick up on that and most of the time I oblige him EVEN when I don't really feel like it.
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Reppin don't you have some internet ? to lick....bye little boy.
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? i aint trollin. check ur emotions and digest them facts i wrote
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i apologize for callin u a ? btw
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ReppinTime wrote: »? i aint trollin. check ur emotions and digest them facts i wrote
How ironic.
I knew this topic would be ethering dudes souls like I was talking about their women, but it's a REAL issue and worthy of discussion.
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MzGrahamBitches wrote: »Reppin don't you have some internet ? to lick....bye little boy.
http://cheapflights.com -
You can be realistic without being a straight ass, but you know that..I'm sure your mother raised you better.
And yes I have felt obligated to satisfy him at times, but that's part of what you sign up for when you're commited to someone and expect a monogamous relationship.
If that's something you find yourself resenting, then maybe it's time to decide if you even want to be with that person anymore.
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MzGrahamBitches wrote: »Du..this dude has no reason to be depressed.
He has a job working downtown making WELL over 100K a year, they have a beautiful brand new home in a nice part of town, his truck is paid off, her car is paid off...they're living comfortably.
Because he's financially well off he has no reason to be depressed? Damn Kat, that is definitely the dumbest ? I've ever heard. You're far too old to be that ? ignorant -
I know my opinion won't matter because I have a ? , but a lack of sex drive doesn't mean he is cheating.
The problem could be elsewhere. A diminished to non-existent sex drive can be a symptom caused by things like depression, being overweight, drug use.... etc. If she loves him then she needs to make sure its none of those things before she does something stupid. -
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You're right..it isn't the only reason, I was just putting that out there..
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Sounds kinky Matthew.