Successful Black Women Having A Hard Time Finding Black Men Set To Air On ABC Tonight
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sdrawkcabseh wrote: »And the loudest ones are unwifeable. Good black women don't complain about the "lack" of quality black men, they are too busy out meeting them/dating them. Good black women don't call themselves "strong" black women, they display their strength through silence, submission and loyalty. Good black women have no problem submitting to their men, the "loud" ones boast about how independent they are.
Needless to say, good black women will be wifed with ease, most black women will die as unwed mothers with degrees..........................
It dont mean that these women aren't good though, that's where many people get it twisted. A good woman is someone that is loyal to her man, someone that can hold down a house and be a partner and a friend to her man, someone that gives support and has love for her man, I am sure this is something these woman can be, but they have certain lists that their men must have and many of them have a hard time finding men that fit their criteria, some women are single because they want to stick to what they believe in.
These bad women you always talk about are women that may or may not have good women qualities, but they may not have had respect or a certain level of love and respect for that man she was messing with so she did him ? . Just like men do certain women grimey but changes their way with a different woman, these women change with a new man, but that is my theory. -
It dont mean that these women aren't good though, that's where many people get it twisted. A good woman is someone that is loyal to her man, someone that can hold down a house and be a partner and a friend to her man, someone that gives support and has love for her man, I am sure this is something these woman can be, but they have certain lists that their men must have and many of them have a hard time finding men that fit their criteria, some women are single because they want to stick to what they believe in.
These bad women you always talk about are women that may or may not have good women qualities, but they may not have had respect or a certain level of love and respect for that man she was messing with so she did him ? . Just like men do certain women grimey but changes their way with a different woman, these women change with a new man, but that is my theory.
To counter, a woman or man that has to "change" for a mate is doing it for the wrong reasons. You should change because you want to/want better for yourself. It's no secret that most black women don't know what a real man is, because mostly they've listened to the thoughts/delusions of other single black women and have listened to their delusional single mothers all their lives.Why do you think their lists of what they want in men are silly to begin with? They, and their slutty homegirls have never seen a real man and replace the true meaning of a stand up guy with the dude on the corner, or the ? that they pal around with.
I contend, good black women are easily found, and wifed up, and are enjoying their good lives with their good men. Most black women, however, that are lamenting the single life, usually try to go find love in the club, or are so far gone with untold amounts of baggage(kids, ex-drama), that no man wants to deal with them beyond physical interaction. Even white guys know that most "sistas" are only a good ? and that's it...................... -
I did agree with a little of what Steve Harvey said about successful women not intimidating men. I’ve heard it a million times, the whole “I’m a strong black Independent woman, I don’t need a man to do for me, I do for myself, ? a ? who think he’s about to hold me down, men can’t deal with my success it intimidates them.” Most of the time, I’m thinking, naw chick, you’re single because you’re a ? ! Nobody wants to be around someone who constantly throws their personal success in their face and uses it to belittle them. They’re not intimidated by your success, they just can’t take the uncontrolled ego and accompanying misc. ? that comes with it. Your success isn’t the reason you’re single, your personality is.
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What's your definition of a Good Man or a Real Man? just curious.....
Sure:
A real man is reliable
A real man is resourceful
A real man is responsible
A real man doesn't owe anybody anything
A real man doesn't care what others think
A real man understands that success isn't about ballin on a corner or riding on expensive rims
A real man doesn't depend on or ask a woman for anything
A real man places family in perspective
A real man uses his time wisely
A real man makes the right decision, not the popular one
A real man tells the truth, even when people don't want to hear it
A real man doesn't need a "crew" of homies to roll with him everywhere
A real man aint looking for love in the club
A real man doesn't simp under any conditions
A real man doesn't beef with another man, he's too busy living his own life
A real man handles rejection and moves on to the next one
A real man doesn't sweat a ? , ? , ? or skank
A real man evolves as the years go by
A real man is never stuck in the same place
A real man is a man of his word
Unfortunately, most black women don't choose men that fit half the things on this list.................................... -
I did agree with a little of what Steve Harvey said about successful women not intimidating men. I’ve heard it a million times, the whole “I’m a strong black Independent woman, I don’t need a man to do for me, I do for myself, ? a ? who think he’s about to hold me down, men can’t deal with my success it intimidates them.” Most of the time, I’m thinking, naw chick, you’re single because you’re a ? ! Nobody wants to be around someone who constantly throws their personal success in their face and uses it to belittle them. They’re not intimidated by your success, they just can’t take the uncontrolled ego and accompanying misc. ? that comes with it. Your success isn’t the reason you’re single, your personality is.
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But on the real i really do think this issue is redundant and becoming like a way for the media to pin black women and men against each other. And just like slave masters of our ancestors past used to use this tactic on us back then, that ? is still vivid and working NOW. Stop drinking the GOT DAMN KOOLAID!!!
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To add to genstasia's query, a Real man spends his time studying in college instead of clubbing. A real man is chasing his dream instead of chasing ? . A real man graduates college and crafts his respective career while the weak men(thugs) that black women love so much are hating on them. A real man takes time to go through the process, while "sistas" only want the finished product............................................................
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Now other than yourself im guessin how many Men do u know thats exactly like this? Because these dudes on here obviously ain't..... talkin about gettin revenge on chicks aka "Hard on Hoes movement"
Oh trust, myself and my friends that I surround myself are exactly like this. I'm wealthy, so I have surrounded myself with brothas that have attained and amassed wealth as well. These brothas are not only wealthy in paper,but they have goodness of character as well. It's very simple, I win, these guys win. I'm creative, therefore the real men that I associate myself with are creative. When all of us were coming up, we got "labeled" by sistas and the thugs. They called us "white", they called us "sellouts", they called us "wierd" and said that in order for us to get with them we needed more "swag".
Needless to say, my friends did the same thing I did and have sought happiness elsewhere(with non-black women). It's funny now, to see the thugs that dissed us in high school waiting our tables when all of us go out to eat, or working at the gas station. Just last night for example, I went to the store to pick up a few things to surprise wifey with, and the cashier happened to be a "sista" that dissed me back in the day for having no "game". She now has three kids by three different men, is still living with her mom, and is warranting the same complaint that she can't find a "good man" or that all of the men she's meeting are "breaking up with her" immediately.
This is why I tell brothas that get dissed by sistas, don't worry, treat life as chess, because the pawns always go first........................ -
The reason why a lot of women are alone is because they aren't attractive or have a bad personality. That simple.
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They are exploiting us as usual![I mean black men and women]
Why is being married such a big deal? If you like being single….stay single!! The media gets on my nerves.
They showing a bunch of people who failed at relationships and I'm suppose to listen to them.
Why not show people who have been successful in life plus relationships this whole thing is ass backwards. -
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cosign that lady who said, YOU CAN'T DO IT ALL. You can't have a great career, marraige, or be a mother. I personally think the feminist movement ruined marraige, got these broads thinking their career is as important as being a mom and wife.
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rhymentekniq2.0 wrote: »like i said son, straight comedy. you can't even make a negative comment against a ? without being called a woman hater or bitter lol. i remember my ex told me i was bitter cause i told her the reason these hoes can't get a man is cause they're ? up. i'm like how am i the bitter one when you tell me everyday all the women in your family ? they can't find a man?
ima dvr the ? and watch over and over again with a cold glass of lemonade and some hot wings[/QUOTE]
i concour with these eleqoent words, i might get half and half flavors while im at it...splurge a little:cool:
exactly my ? people think you hate women and youre bitter because you speak the truth about their behavior.somebody gotta speak on it or ? will get outta hand foreal.Why should i allow women to use me as a scapegoat cause tyrone beat and cheated on her alot so i get the backlash.I feel topics like this are not being brought up enough people sweep it under the rug like it aint no big deal.I like to confront not back away from anything.call me a hater all you want i like to speak on things that's hurting me and others
we as good men have to deal with these bitter as ? at the end -
cosign that lady who said, YOU CAN'T DO IT ALL. You can't have a great career, marraige, or be a mother. I personally think the feminist movement ruined marraige, got these broads thinking their career is as important as being a mom and wife.
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But on the real i really do think this issue is redundant and becoming like a way for the media to pin black women and men against each other. And just like slave masters of our ancestors past used to use this tactic on us back then, that ? is still vivid and working NOW. Stop drinking the GOT DAMN KOOLAID!!!
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Gnawledgeable wrote: »The reason why a lot of women are alone is because they aren't attractive or have a bad personality. That simple.
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mostvigorousone wrote: »Is this Steve Harvey's daughter?
ooo ? this thread just finally meant something to me... props -
32 pages smh....
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how did i know this thread was goin be long as ?
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HOH movement~~~
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ooo ? this thread just finally meant something to me... props
i know right...she look like a freak...i bet money her "friend" is puttin the tongue lash on her ? -
They are exploiting us as usual![I mean black men and women]
Why is being married such a big deal? If you like being single….stay single!! The media gets on my nerves.
They showing a bunch of people who failed at relationships and I'm suppose to listen to them.
Why not show people who have been successful in life plus relationships this whole thing is ass backwards.
because they can't sell advertising revenue by showing black folks being fly. hows it gonna look if i'm white and i keep seeing black folks with good marriages, good careers, big houses and happy and my ass just got laid off, my wife fat, and the only time i get a nut is when i watch kiddie porn online. ? is making MILLIONS off of this subject.
Come on son, think about it. There's one thing all 3 of them ? that was on the panel have in common.....
I'm sure that's just a coincidence
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because they can't sell advertising revenue by showing black folks being fly. hows it gonna look if i'm white and i keep seeing black folks with good marriages, good careers, big houses and happy and my ass just got laid off, my wife fat, and the only time i get a nut is when i watch kiddie porn online. ? is making MILLIONS off of this subject.
Come on son, think about it. There's one thing all 3 of them ? that was on the panel have in common.....
I'm sure that's just a coincidence
lmao....lmao...i'm glad i wasn't the one who said that ?
