Spinoff: Why are dudes so threatened / disgusted by females with "high" body counts?
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Many men feel as though women should be wholesome and when the thought of any other men blowing their women's back out is a shot to their egos.
I don't advocate wifing or starting a future with boppers but any man that doesn't acknowledge a woman possibly having a past is a highly naive man.
Having a past doesn't necessarily mean she was a hoe and getting smutted out by every man either.
The older we get the more bodies girls and men pile on. Especially attractive ones.
The only reason you wouldn't want a hometown ? because you know everybody that ? her.
If she was a hometown ? in another state you wouldn't care as much.
So it ain't always about the actual sex,its about the image
This, ? don't wanna go to function and be in the same room with 4 ? that splashed in yo wifey...lol
Plus ? got no respect...so deep down they still think they can hit and will laugh at you cause they smashed yo queen. -
Why would women lie about having high numbers if it would debase them?
Makes little sense for them to lie about having more sexual partners
And unless you have some evidence of lying in these particular studies you're making things up
This isn't creative writing class, keep it @ home -
You giving away too much lolBlack_Samson wrote: »The amount of ? a ? takes has no bearing on the look or feel of a ? .
Yall need to think.
If a kid passing thru it aint gon ? the fit up, then ? damn sure aint.
Some women just born with extra meat on theirs. -
The average dude more afraid and concerned about his boys opinion of him than the chick's body count
Sure,it will initially give a cat pause to discover his "" baby "" let the entire b-ball starting line up bust off in her mouth during her college years...
But if his boys EVER find out.. :-SS -
Black_Samson wrote: »If a kid passing thru it aint gon ? the fit up, then ? damn sure aint.
but it does
Some even seek seek vaginal reconstruction post child birth -
because it means she does not value her body and can be easily influenced to give the ? up.
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I personally don't feel like a woman having casual sex, being promiscuous, etc, is a problem as long as she is doing it honestly and safely. So body count was never really an issue for me. The simple fact of the matter is that most ? can't really stomach the thought of being out with a ? and having there be a good possibility that throughout the course of the night they'll come across a ? or two who will be secretly thinking, 'Oh, ? ! I ? that ? right there a few years back!'.
My question to that has always been...how does that affect you? Who really cares that much about what another man thinks about your woman or your relationship? -
maybe ? think because she has a high body count there's a good chance she's not good at being faithful in a relationship
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You know what just read what Black Samson said and put it in your notebook.
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Black_Samson wrote: »The amount of ? a ? takes has no bearing on the look or feel of a ? .
Yall need to think.
If a kid passing thru it aint gon ? the fit up, then ? damn sure aint.
Some women just born with extra meat on theirs.
False.
1) A baby is a 1 time thing. Even the most fertile of women will have a max of what 4, 5 babies in their lifetime. Plenty of time for it to snap back. What would that thang look like if she had a baby every month.
2) Have ya ever fuked a bytch right after she had a baby? A month after? 3 months after!?
3) Better yet, have you ever fuked a woman with multiple kids. Saying it doesnt ? up the fit aint exactly accurate. #beefcurtains
Bottom line, if a woman has a consistently loose ? , and its not due to multiple kids or old age, she is or at one point was a ? . Period. Ha -
Black_Samson wrote: »Black_Samson wrote: »
Unfortunately yes I have heard of it and the ? don't make sense.
Does the topic make more sense now?
I been understood the topic YOU didn't understand my comment. I'm ? up mentally that a dude would actually care whether or not he is the best ? a ? ever had.
Who really goes around thinking I know she ? 9 other dudes besides me. Where do I rank on her list of the 10 ? she has ? ? WTF kind of sucka ? ass ? is that?
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maybe ? think because she has a high body count there's a good chance she's not good at being faithful in a relationship
There's only one way to find out. If she isn't, then leave her ass alone. -
Women cheat off feelings.
The ones who have had sex with over 20 guys are more likely to with Lil work? I can't say that's true.
But as far as mindset with chicks who loves sex and been with a lot of guys. Some do have deep seated issues. The type of mental issues that would make you not want to be with them
I've met some cool ass hoes in my time tho...like three and even tho they freaks they still had the capabilities of being a good gf/wife. They mindset was right -
Serious question for the fellas. Take your egos and insecurities out of the equation. Disregard the opinions of your friends and be honest w/ yourself. Have y'all ever known a sexually promiscuous woman who did not have a lot of personal issues, baggage or questionable morals? Have y'all ever met one who you would consider "wifey material" because, in spite of her sexual past, she embodied everything that you wanted in a partner?
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count remy wrote: »Give an example of this. Most dudes i know don't mind females that like to ? . The problem comes in when those females aren't ? them.
Most men don't mind ? women who like to ? .
Having anything more than that and of substance with same woman is an entirely different story.
In short most ? want to ? females that are liberal with that ? , but when it comes down to one who will get his time, attention, and possibly love and money ? tend to prefer women who are more conservative about giving their ? up to men other than them.
yeah but OP said dudes was threatened by it. I remember being 17 and once the word got out that a chick was available to get chopped down, she gets all sorts of new found attention. I didn't care if i was number 2 or 222. It just don't sound right to me. It's like we're talking about .05% of men here. We know hos don't make good housewives but fools still try so that's not the issue. And we know females will have a kid with a dude that's got 3 other woman pregnant so, that's not an issue either. If a chick like to ? all sorts of different dudes, the best advice is to let her. They have a say in the matter too. I guess I'm just not seeing where the threat is. -
Black_Samson wrote: »I love this topic.
People have been trained to have this perception that women should have sex with only one man, which is her husband; however, men should sow their wild oats, so they can settle down with one one woman.
Also, another point is: reproduction. The more a woman have sex with multiple men without the use of BC (birth control) or condoms, then she has a higher chance to getting pregnant by multiple men.
My last point is: The Male Ego. Stereotypically, a man does not want to be associated with a woman who has over 3 sexual partners; however, in modern times, the number has been increased to 7. He does not want his woman to be an sexual expert because he wants her to learn from him.
Personally, I do not care how many partners a person has had in their past before me. I just want to know their STI status for health purposes.
I like threads like this because these self professed ladies men wind up showing how very little they actually know about the ? , the female orgasm, nipples, erogenous zones, yhe ? and pretty much sex in general.
Kinda like knowing how to buy things but not knowing how to count your change to ensure you aint getting gyped
If men took out the time to learn about the G spot or D spot. Then a lot of women wouldn't be raging ? . Lol
Jamel, I believe porn has desensitized men from learning about how to please a woman mentally and sexually.
I believe that porn is barbaric to the sensuality of sex. It's not all about being the guy who can jack hammer the fastest inside of a woman or beating that pu**y up; it is about connecting spiritual,mentally with a woman to gage her sexual needs and wants in bed.
People should try to tap their inner karma sutra or tantric to experience a beautiful world if sensual sex.
PREACH!
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Many men feel as though women should be wholesome and when the thought of any other men blowing their women's back out is a shot to their egos.
I don't advocate wifing or starting a future with boppers but any man that doesn't acknowledge a woman possibly having a past is a highly naive man.
Having a past doesn't necessarily mean she was a hoe and getting smutted out by every man either.
The thread is about women with high body counts. Don't try to spin this into something it's not. -
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Serious question for the fellas. Take your egos and insecurities out of the equation. Disregard the opinions of your friends and be honest w/ yourself. Have y'all ever known a sexually promiscuous woman who did not have a lot of personal issues, baggage or questionable morals? Have y'all ever met one who you would consider "wifey material" because, in spite of her sexual past, she embodied everything that you wanted in a partner?
Yes. I think that it's really hard for people to believe that there are women out there who just enjoy having sex as much as a man does and doesn't subscribe to the views of other people regarding it being some sort of indictment of her moral character.
There are women with high body counts with tons of personal baggage and there are virgins with tons of personal baggage. There are women with high body counts with little personal baggage and there are virgins with little personal baggage.
Trying to paint an entire cross section of people with the same brush doesn't really work. -
Serious question for the fellas. Take your egos and insecurities out of the equation. Disregard the opinions of your friends and be honest w/ yourself. Have y'all ever known a sexually promiscuous woman who did not have a lot of personal issues, baggage or questionable morals? Have y'all ever met one who you would consider "wifey material" because, in spite of her sexual past, she embodied everything that you wanted in a partner?
I don't think I have ever met a woman without issues.
But like a ? with a Lil questionable morals...cause i got some.
So as you can see its subjective to Evert mans preference of what type of woman he can deal with -
Black_Samson wrote: »I love this topic.
People have been trained to have this perception that women should have sex with only one man, which is her husband; however, men should sow their wild oats, so they can settle down with one one woman.
Also, another point is: reproduction. The more a woman have sex with multiple men without the use of BC (birth control) or condoms, then she has a higher chance to getting pregnant by multiple men.
My last point is: The Male Ego. Stereotypically, a man does not want to be associated with a woman who has over 3 sexual partners; however, in modern times, the number has been increased to 7. He does not want his woman to be an sexual expert because he wants her to learn from him.
Personally, I do not care how many partners a person has had in their past before me. I just want to know their STI status for health purposes.
I like threads like this because these self professed ladies men wind up showing how very little they actually know about the ? , the female orgasm, nipples, erogenous zones, yhe ? and pretty much sex in general.
Kinda like knowing how to buy things but not knowing how to count your change to ensure you aint getting gyped
If men took out the time to learn about the G spot or D spot. Then a lot of women wouldn't be raging ? . Lol
Jamel, I believe porn has desensitized men from learning about how to please a woman mentally and sexually.
I believe that porn is barbaric to the sensuality of sex. It's not all about being the guy who can jack hammer the fastest inside of a woman or beating that pu**y up; it is about connecting spiritual,mentally with a woman to gage her sexual needs and wants in bed.
People should try to tap their inner karma sutra or tantric to experience a beautiful world if sensual sex.
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Yo Pralims stays asking a question, not getting the answer he likes, then goes on to make a thread so he can find people who agree with him
It's like this ? is powered by cosigns or something... -
Many men feel as though women should be wholesome and when the thought of any other men blowing their women's back out is a shot to their egos.
I don't advocate wifing or starting a future with boppers but any man that doesn't acknowledge a woman possibly having a past is a highly naive man.
Having a past doesn't necessarily mean she was a hoe and getting smutted out by every man either.
The older we get the more bodies girls and men pile on. Especially attractive ones.
The only reason you wouldn't want a hometown ? because you know everybody that ? her.
If she was a hometown ? in another state you wouldn't care as much.
So it ain't always about the actual sex,its about the image
This, ? don't wanna go to function and be in the same room with 4 ? that splashed in yo wifey...lol
Plus ? got no respect...so deep down they still think they can hit and will laugh at you cause they smashed yo queen.
Tonya??!
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I simply don't ask..... I'm more worried if you got std than how many ? you tricked and finessed into ? you.
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Male ego can't handle the embarrassment of their chick being ole gang bang .... Its worse if u in the same town or know folk who done hot ur ole lady. The ideal is a wholesome woman who hadn't ? that many people. The reality is that not too many women out their like that no more.
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