WHATEVER HAPPEND TO THAT "PERSON" THAT YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO BE WITH BUT THINGS DIDNT WORK OUT?
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They all fat as hell now, ? dodge a lot of bullets
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She never got away...she laying right next to me..
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IAmDopeSmoke wrote: »Hmmm let's see I had this girl named Nikki she was into I was feeling her. She went to college in Florida to become a surgeon. I didn't hold her down tho got my ? wet as quick as possibly with some broad who had a baby. My ? was actually getting away with it till I let the broad on my fb friends list. She posted a pic of me she took while I wasn't looking and da caption said "that's bae"....my ole girl saw it and flipped out but I actually got her to take me back. Then a few weeks later dumped her for the same ? with a baby cause I wanted ? when I wanted and couldn't do long distance. It was my L doe cause ole girl in Florida revealed she had just got a beach front house in Florida and wanted me to move from G.A and live with her and she would pay rent till I got a job she also supported my dream of owning my own recording studio......did I mention she was going to school to be a fckin surgeon while holding down a job smh....then turns out the bicth I left her for found out she was pregnant by another ? (made a thread abt it) I lost big time I cut my lose and kept it moving tho. I still stalk old girl fb on the regular doe tried getting back with her she ain't going for it dating some ? at her college now they live together in her beach front house
The most self ether i ever read on IC.
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TBH im mad now becuase i repressed sooooo many things that i feel like i have plenty great stories but i cant recall from so much ether. Like i been trying to think for the past 30 mintues, guess the ? was so etherous my mind wont allow me to revist it.
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IAmDopeSmoke wrote: »Hmmm let's see I had this girl named Nikki she was into I was feeling her. She went to college in Florida to become a surgeon. I didn't hold her down tho got my ? wet as quick as possibly with some broad who had a baby. My ? was actually getting away with it till I let the broad on my fb friends list. She posted a pic of me she took while I wasn't looking and da caption said "that's bae"....my ole girl saw it and flipped out but I actually got her to take me back. Then a few weeks later dumped her for the same ? with a baby cause I wanted ? when I wanted and couldn't do long distance. It was my L doe cause ole girl in Florida revealed she had just got a beach front house in Florida and wanted me to move from G.A and live with her and she would pay rent till I got a job she also supported my dream of owning my own recording studio......did I mention she was going to school to be a fckin surgeon while holding down a job smh....then turns out the bicth I left her for found out she was pregnant by another ? (made a thread abt it) I lost big time I cut my lose and kept it moving tho. I still stalk old girl fb on the regular doe tried getting back with her she ain't going for it dating some ? at her college now they live together in her beach front house
lol....so much self inflicted ether. Hold this.
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This one is easy.
I've literally known this chick since I was like 4-5 years old. My mom used to babysit her. We went to the same church. Her parents were cool af, really liked me, etc..etc. Shorty was cute, sexy, intelligent, driven, from an affluent family...what more could a nigguh ask for. We always flirted w/ each other growing up. When I was like 17 we briefly toyed w/ the idea of making it official but my stupid ass never would commit to the idea. Plus I was about to go off to college and didn't want to do the long distance relationship thing "w/ her".
Fast forward a couple of years to the first day of school...junior year. I'm unpacking my ? & getting settled in when I get a call from guess who. Shorty is on the other line like "hey I transferred here...found your # in the student directory....what dorm are you in so I can come see you". At the time I had a girlfriend who was like 2 hours away (so much for not wanting a long distance relationship...lol), but I was confident that I could stay faithful. After all, she had tried to get w/ me before one summer when I was home and my girl was in Cali for a month. I passed that test.........barely. Anyway, so she's looking good af as usual. She befriended some chick's who were the homies and our cliques used to hang out a lot. I remember one night we were out drinking and her homegirl had to drag her away cause she was trying to follow me back to my room ( yeah...I would've failed the test that night...lol ). I guess after that point she just gave up. What was my excuse for not sealing the deal on multiple occasions knowing damn well I had that one in the bag????......... I wish I had the answer. I guess it's because I looked at her different than every other female. I never wanted us to get together on foul terms, and I was always overly concerned about hurting her or losing her as a friend because of our history. And so I never took advantage of all of the chances she gave me. I know...lame right? I'm leaving out a lot of details, but let's just say that I still think about her all the time.
I was talking to my mom about a week ago and she hits me w/ the "Guess who divorced her husband and moved back home?" line. (damn I didn't even know she had gotten married). I already knew who she was talking about, but I didn't want to seem too obvious. So I'm like "who"? She's like "so and so is back" and she was asking how you were doing. Then she just had to throw in the line "and yeah she saw a picture of your son and was like 'he's cute just like his daddy'". A nigguh was on the other end of the phone w/ the Grinch grin trying to play it cool..lol. To this day shorty got me feeling like Will Smith in Hancock. Damn I disgust myself -
*sighs* where do I start
I spoke on this before and posted her a few times but those were old pics. I found her instagram and her new ? , so crowd around ? ....
We went to highschool together, cute af (half black/half russian) but back then she had acme & kinda goofy and ? so I never paid her any mind. We was cool for a while and my boy told me she liked me but at that point I was getting girls so I was on a high horse, plus her being mad skinny back then, and there being prettier girls I just never noticed her like that so I ignored her and fronted on her. We eventually lost contact and then I see her one time at the gym, I was in a session and I noticed her out back squatting and ? crowding around just watching her ass.... my ? in heaven fam when I seen her face my jaw legit dropped.... SMMFH......... her acme gone, she gained weight, got her money up, and invested in herself, and a black woman who LOVES fitness !? What more could a ? ask for ? I felt my soul on fire, if I knew ? . My ? didn't leave to approach or nothing, I was so shocked at how she came up I didn't wanna be THAT guy and try (back then didn't want her now she hot now I'm all on her).... this her now in 2014, she's a fitness instructor, licensed and the whole 9 yards:
^^^ and so this is how Toronto gets down....... I got her instagram and so now I must conjure a plan to get back into this lovely lady's life and make her my baby mother...... wish me luck yall....
Nigggggggggggga.
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This one is easy.
I've literally known this chick since I was like 4-5 years old. My mom used to babysit her. We went to the same church. Her parents were cool af, really liked me, etc..etc. Shorty was cute, sexy, intelligent, driven, from an affluent family...what more could a nigguh ask for. We always flirted w/ each other growing up. When I was like 17 we briefly toyed w/ the idea of making it official but my stupid ass never would commit to the idea. Plus I was about to go off to college and didn't want to do the long distance relationship thing "w/ her".
Fast forward a couple of years to the first day of school...junior year. I'm unpacking my ? & getting settled in when I get a call from guess who. Shorty is on the other line like "hey I transferred here...found your # in the student directory....what dorm are you in so I can come see you". At the time I had a girlfriend who was like 2 hours away (so much for not wanting a long distance relationship...lol), but I was confident that I could stay faithful. After all, she had tried to get w/ me before one summer when I was home and my girl was in Cali for a month. I passed that test.........barely. Anyway, so she's looking good af as usual. She befriended some chick's who were the homies and our cliques used to hang out a lot. I remember one night we were out drinking and her homegirl had to drag her away cause she was trying to follow me back to my room ( yeah...I would've failed the test that night...lol ). I guess after that point she just gave up. What was my excuse for not sealing the deal on multiple occasions knowing damn well I had that one in the bag????......... I wish I had the answer. I guess it's because I looked at her different than every other female. I never wanted us to get together on foul terms, and I was always overly concerned about hurting her or losing her as a friend because of our history. And so I never took advantage of all of the chances she gave me. I know...lame right? I'm leaving out a lot of details, but let's just say that I still think about her all the time.
I was talking to my mom about a week ago and she hits me w/ the "Guess who divorced her husband and moved back home?" line. (damn I didn't even know she had gotten married). I already knew who she was talking about, but I didn't want to seem too obvious. So I'm like "who"? She's like "so and so is back" and she was asking how you were doing. Then she just had to throw in the line "and yeah she saw a picture of your son and was like 'he's cute just like his daddy'". A nigguh was on the other end of the phone w/ the Grinch grin trying to play it cool..lol. To this day shorty got me feeling like Will Smith in Hancock. Damn I disgust myself
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This one is easy.
I've literally known this chick since I was like 4-5 years old. My mom used to babysit her. We went to the same church. Her parents were cool af, really liked me, etc..etc. Shorty was cute, sexy, intelligent, driven, from an affluent family...what more could a nigguh ask for. We always flirted w/ each other growing up. When I was like 17 we briefly toyed w/ the idea of making it official but my stupid ass never would commit to the idea. Plus I was about to go off to college and didn't want to do the long distance relationship thing "w/ her".
Fast forward a couple of years to the first day of school...junior year. I'm unpacking my ? & getting settled in when I get a call from guess who. Shorty is on the other line like "hey I transferred here...found your # in the student directory....what dorm are you in so I can come see you". At the time I had a girlfriend who was like 2 hours away (so much for not wanting a long distance relationship...lol), but I was confident that I could stay faithful. After all, she had tried to get w/ me before one summer when I was home and my girl was in Cali for a month. I passed that test.........barely. Anyway, so she's looking good af as usual. She befriended some chick's who were the homies and our cliques used to hang out a lot. I remember one night we were out drinking and her homegirl had to drag her away cause she was trying to follow me back to my room ( yeah...I would've failed the test that night...lol ). I guess after that point she just gave up. What was my excuse for not sealing the deal on multiple occasions knowing damn well I had that one in the bag????......... I wish I had the answer. I guess it's because I looked at her different than every other female. I never wanted us to get together on foul terms, and I was always overly concerned about hurting her or losing her as a friend because of our history. And so I never took advantage of all of the chances she gave me. I know...lame right? I'm leaving out a lot of details, but let's just say that I still think about her all the time.
I was talking to my mom about a week ago and she hits me w/ the "Guess who divorced her husband and moved back home?" line. (damn I didn't even know she had gotten married). I already knew who she was talking about, but I didn't want to seem too obvious. So I'm like "who"? She's like "so and so is back" and she was asking how you were doing. Then she just had to throw in the line "and yeah she saw a picture of your son and was like 'he's cute just like his daddy'". A nigguh was on the other end of the phone w/ the Grinch grin trying to play it cool..lol. To this day shorty got me feeling like Will Smith in Hancock. Damn I disgust myself
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But yeah, go on and get that.
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This one is easy.
I've literally known this chick since I was like 4-5 years old. My mom used to babysit her. We went to the same church. Her parents were cool af, really liked me, etc..etc. Shorty was cute, sexy, intelligent, driven, from an affluent family...what more could a nigguh ask for. We always flirted w/ each other growing up. When I was like 17 we briefly toyed w/ the idea of making it official but my stupid ass never would commit to the idea. Plus I was about to go off to college and didn't want to do the long distance relationship thing "w/ her".
Fast forward a couple of years to the first day of school...junior year. I'm unpacking my ? & getting settled in when I get a call from guess who. Shorty is on the other line like "hey I transferred here...found your # in the student directory....what dorm are you in so I can come see you". At the time I had a girlfriend who was like 2 hours away (so much for not wanting a long distance relationship...lol), but I was confident that I could stay faithful. After all, she had tried to get w/ me before one summer when I was home and my girl was in Cali for a month. I passed that test.........barely. Anyway, so she's looking good af as usual. She befriended some chick's who were the homies and our cliques used to hang out a lot. I remember one night we were out drinking and her homegirl had to drag her away cause she was trying to follow me back to my room ( yeah...I would've failed the test that night...lol ). I guess after that point she just gave up. What was my excuse for not sealing the deal on multiple occasions knowing damn well I had that one in the bag????......... I wish I had the answer. I guess it's because I looked at her different than every other female. I never wanted us to get together on foul terms, and I was always overly concerned about hurting her or losing her as a friend because of our history. And so I never took advantage of all of the chances she gave me. I know...lame right? I'm leaving out a lot of details, but let's just say that I still think about her all the time.
I was talking to my mom about a week ago and she hits me w/ the "Guess who divorced her husband and moved back home?" line. (damn I didn't even know she had gotten married). I already knew who she was talking about, but I didn't want to seem too obvious. So I'm like "who"? She's like "so and so is back" and she was asking how you were doing. Then she just had to throw in the line "and yeah she saw a picture of your son and was like 'he's cute just like his daddy'". A nigguh was on the other end of the phone w/ the Grinch grin trying to play it cool..lol. To this day shorty got me feeling like Will Smith in Hancock. Damn I disgust myself
I'll just say what no one else will.
? , you have no excuse not to holler at her. ASAP.
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I've told this story before. Glad she got away ? that ? lol
Ok read most of these and damn. But ok here is mine: I was a late bloomer didn't lose my virginity till I was almost 19. My first gf was a sophomore in hs. So we date for like 8 months and come to find out she was ? other ? behind my back. Fast forward like 6 months and its my cousins bday and she is throwing a party. Her and my ex hang out sometimes and I hear shes gonna be there. A ? still in love so I was like I gotta get fresh go there and win her back.
So I put on my fresh karl kani's and go to the party. My cousins boyfriend had got like 2 half gallons of hennessy and I was mad nervous so I figured I better get some liquid courage. Back then I didnt know my limit and proceed to get smashed. By the time my ex gets there I am completely ? up. I go up to her and was like can I talk to you for a sec. And I guess spit what I thought was the most ? ? I could think of; I'm sure I sounded ? as ? . She's like we'll talk later but hinting like im in there. Im gassed up now and continue drinking like a ? . That is last I remember I blacked out and from what I was told she invited the new dude she was dealing with over and ? in my cousins spare room all the while im passed out on the couch.
Ok so end of the night my cousin takes me back to my parents house and leaves me on the porch like ol boy off of house party. And I had to be at work at 6am. Now that im thinking back on that ? can't blame anyone but myself I let that ? happen...still ? that ? tho...
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basically my high school sweet heart. started my freshmen year when my teammate was messing with her. we still messed around until we her friends snitched on me. but then sophomore year we got back talking and ? and eventually got in a relationship, eventually i forgot that ? wasn't ? and she cheated on me . couple months later she got a new ? and she pregnant. so 2 years later she a single mama really living house to house and im chilling with no child
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"I don't ? with youu!" - Big Sean
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EThis one is easy.
I've literally known this chick since I was like 4-5 years old. My mom used to babysit her. We went to the same church. Her parents were cool af, really liked me, etc..etc. Shorty was cute, sexy, intelligent, driven, from an affluent family...what more could a nigguh ask for. We always flirted w/ each other growing up. When I was like 17 we briefly toyed w/ the idea of making it official but my stupid ass never would commit to the idea. Plus I was about to go off to college and didn't want to do the long distance relationship thing "w/ her".
Fast forward a couple of years to the first day of school...junior year. I'm unpacking my ? & getting settled in when I get a call from guess who. Shorty is on the other line like "hey I transferred here...found your # in the student directory....what dorm are you in so I can come see you". At the time I had a girlfriend who was like 2 hours away (so much for not wanting a long distance relationship...lol), but I was confident that I could stay faithful. After all, she had tried to get w/ me before one summer when I was home and my girl was in Cali for a month. I passed that test.........barely. Anyway, so she's looking good af as usual. She befriended some chick's who were the homies and our cliques used to hang out a lot. I remember one night we were out drinking and her homegirl had to drag her away cause she was trying to follow me back to my room ( yeah...I would've failed the test that night...lol ). I guess after that point she just gave up. What was my excuse for not sealing the deal on multiple occasions knowing damn well I had that one in the bag????......... I wish I had the answer. I guess it's because I looked at her different than every other female. I never wanted us to get together on foul terms, and I was always overly concerned about hurting her or losing her as a friend because of our history. And so I never took advantage of all of the chances she gave me. I know...lame right? I'm leaving out a lot of details, but let's just say that I still think about her all the time.
I was talking to my mom about a week ago and she hits me w/ the "Guess who divorced her husband and moved back home?" line. (damn I didn't even know she had gotten married). I already knew who she was talking about, but I didn't want to seem too obvious. So I'm like "who"? She's like "so and so is back" and she was asking how you were doing. Then she just had to throw in the line "and yeah she saw a picture of your son and was like 'he's cute just like his daddy'". A nigguh was on the other end of the phone w/ the Grinch grin trying to play it cool..lol. To this day shorty got me feeling like Will Smith in Hancock. Damn I disgust myself
Dude take it from someone who's shot themselves in the foot before if u have a chance to get it right a 2nd time do it Aka hit her line like now -
OMEGA_CONFLICT wrote: »Ting
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IAmDopeSmoke wrote: »Hmmm let's see I had this girl named Nikki she was into I was feeling her. She went to college in Florida to become a surgeon. I didn't hold her down tho got my ? wet as quick as possibly with some broad who had a baby. My ? was actually getting away with it till I let the broad on my fb friends list. She posted a pic of me she took while I wasn't looking and da caption said "that's bae"....my ole girl saw it and flipped out but I actually got her to take me back. Then a few weeks later dumped her for the same ? with a baby cause I wanted ? when I wanted and couldn't do long distance. It was my L doe cause ole girl in Florida revealed she had just got a beach front house in Florida and wanted me to move from G.A and live with her and she would pay rent till I got a job she also supported my dream of owning my own recording studio......did I mention she was going to school to be a fckin surgeon while holding down a job smh....then turns out the bicth I left her for found out she was pregnant by another ? (made a thread abt it) I lost big time I cut my lose and kept it moving tho. I still stalk old girl fb on the regular doe tried getting back with her she ain't going for it dating some ? at her college now they live together in her beach front house
After reading this, I felt compelled to go to the store and pick up a couple of items for you. Lets see, I got you this...
Two bottles of...
Picked this up b/c it was on sale...
Got myself this after reading your story...
Oh and this. Got it under a discount...
@ that makes your soul burn slow.
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These some sad ass posts but remember
"The grass is always greener..."
"One man's trash is another man's treasure...."
"For every bad ? out here, there's a ? that's tired of ? ' her"
etc... etc... etc...
The only way I'd even give a ? a 2nd thought is if I wanted to, but didn't smash. If I hit it (especially multiple times), then it's whatever. -
There was this one chick in college that I tried to holla at but she just wasnt going. The ? was beautiful. Tall slim gorgeous intelligent banging ass body. The ? was about 5'10 with curves beautiful face cool personality the ? was everything a brother was looking for. I got at her a couple of times but the ? never went anywhere. I cant lie I was feeling some type of way about it. Last I heard the ? got caught up w/some make believe wanna be fake ass thug who ended up kicking the ? out of her daily while I ended up graduating getting an even badder chick and moving forward in life. She ended up like.......
and ive been like...
Lmfao dumb hoes stay losing -
2 from high school both has kids and are married now.
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This one is easy.
I've literally known this chick since I was like 4-5 years old. My mom used to babysit her. We went to the same church. Her parents were cool af, really liked me, etc..etc. Shorty was cute, sexy, intelligent, driven, from an affluent family...what more could a nigguh ask for. We always flirted w/ each other growing up. When I was like 17 we briefly toyed w/ the idea of making it official but my stupid ass never would commit to the idea. Plus I was about to go off to college and didn't want to do the long distance relationship thing "w/ her".
Fast forward a couple of years to the first day of school...junior year. I'm unpacking my ? & getting settled in when I get a call from guess who. Shorty is on the other line like "hey I transferred here...found your # in the student directory....what dorm are you in so I can come see you". At the time I had a girlfriend who was like 2 hours away (so much for not wanting a long distance relationship...lol), but I was confident that I could stay faithful. After all, she had tried to get w/ me before one summer when I was home and my girl was in Cali for a month. I passed that test.........barely. Anyway, so she's looking good af as usual. She befriended some chick's who were the homies and our cliques used to hang out a lot. I remember one night we were out drinking and her homegirl had to drag her away cause she was trying to follow me back to my room ( yeah...I would've failed the test that night...lol ). I guess after that point she just gave up. What was my excuse for not sealing the deal on multiple occasions knowing damn well I had that one in the bag????......... I wish I had the answer. I guess it's because I looked at her different than every other female. I never wanted us to get together on foul terms, and I was always overly concerned about hurting her or losing her as a friend because of our history. And so I never took advantage of all of the chances she gave me. I know...lame right? I'm leaving out a lot of details, but let's just say that I still think about her all the time.
I was talking to my mom about a week ago and she hits me w/ the "Guess who divorced her husband and moved back home?" line. (damn I didn't even know she had gotten married). I already knew who she was talking about, but I didn't want to seem too obvious. So I'm like "who"? She's like "so and so is back" and she was asking how you were doing. Then she just had to throw in the line "and yeah she saw a picture of your son and was like 'he's cute just like his daddy'". A nigguh was on the other end of the phone w/ the Grinch grin trying to play it cool..lol. To this day shorty got me feeling like Will Smith in Hancock. Damn I disgust myself
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head ass nggas -
she single
doing well for herself so I heard
she got a kid and I got a kid...........so I've considered running up on her to make a ready-made family
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the one in the white kneeling down, she house size now