How much of Your S/O 's (not married) problems are you willing to take on ?
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Say you've been with your gf/bf for about 3 or 4 months and they lose their job. Are you stepping up to help out with bills? Or at that point is it more of a "i dont know you like that I'm rooting for you tho fr fr" How long is too long to have been together to NOT help? Or is that more of a marriage thing?
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Noooooooooooooooope
Nope. Nope. Nah -
obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »Noooooooooooooooope
Nope. Nope. Nah
Sheesh cold world -
better tell em to get on they hustle till they get a job. Not your problem
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If my girl takes a hit, I'm stepping in.
3-4 months just determines how far I'm willing to go. -
We better be real serious before then if I'm even considering doing something like that. I don't even like paying my own bills over that time period, ? .
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That's tough....that's a critical time period in a relationship too....
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If you're not married, it depends on the situation ...
But you are under no obligation
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obnoxiouslyfresh wrote: »Noooooooooooooooope
Nope. Nope. Nah
Damn u cant carry a lil baggage for a ? ? -
After 3-4 months I would personally help out a bit if I could. Not paying full bills though but partially just to help out
How long is too long to not help at all? Ehhh 6 months imo -
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3-4 months? Lmao man hell nah we aint even living together at that point, ? I look like paying your bills..... I'll give her ass rides to job interviews all day though, I'm good for that.
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This actually happened with the bf, but by 4 months I felt strongly enough to stick with him. Sometimes you gotta look at the potential. I knew he wouldn't be down for long.
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Yeah we did help eachother out when we were broke in Bali...back when we were barely 2 months together...got married after a year so gues my point is that it depends on how yall stand, love conquers all ? best believe that ? ....
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3-4 months still kinda early to be tackling their bills.
I'll help them job search. -
Absolutely none
3-4 months ain't even long enough for me to really know anything about shorty
If I set that precedent off the muscle like that she gon think I'm a trick -
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If i love her im taking ALL her problems
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I don't get how y'all can be all "whatever..your problem" with your SO....it's not like this just some ? you smashing..this somebody you thought were at least special enough to build something with
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If she giving me all 3 holes ill take a few bills off her back, maybe get her a studio apartment.
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If we "official" for 4 months after the courting period, i'm ridin. I'll peel off a lil bit for a couple utilities, maybe even a couple dollars if she got a car note. Some of you ? said ya'll won't eat at a applebees but electric bills is like $80 a month or somethin short like that.
If we in the street and i'm sayin she mine, how i'ma look if she out here between jobs and can't pay an electric bill. I'm way too official for all that.
You find out what kind of people you dealin with when the storm come. I'm loyal to a fault, but it got me this far. If I can buy you ? and take you to dinner to show you what i'm bout it don't stop because I got you under my wing, that's stupid, and in adult life, ? happens. -
If I can why not
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Hell no 3 or 4 months ain't enough for all that
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Just to be clear, we're talking about your lady, not some random ? or new ? .
I can't judge her for taking a loss and needing a loan. It happens to the best of us. But I will judge her off of how she bounces back.
Again this is my lady. She represents me out here. -
Depends how much I liked her, 4 months is not long as far as being in a relationship, if she was hungry I would buy her a meal and a drink, but as far as paying her bills nah ? that, I would drive her to the nearest job center and advise her to tighten her purse strings, then she can loosen the G-strings...gigidy.
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