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SimplyKrys wrote: »BiblicalAtheist wrote: »SimplyKrys wrote: »
Actually I wouldn't, if him and his family actually did that I'd be done.semi-auto-mato wrote: »Even if he kicked her out she would still let him come back.
They kicked you out a long time ago, you just haven't left yet.
It's funny that you say this because a while back ago me and my bf bro's gf were in the kitchen talking one day (I forgot what we were talking about) and then the dad walks in the room and says to me I should have kicked you out a long time ago but... and then he didn't finish the sentence. The gf then just looked at me with a look of concern.
...But you keep the tub clean.
I know it's hard to accept they don't give a ? about you, want to find anything that shows its not true but if there is any hope for your own spirit you have to get away. -
BiblicalAtheist wrote: »SimplyKrys wrote: »BiblicalAtheist wrote: »SimplyKrys wrote: »
Actually I wouldn't, if him and his family actually did that I'd be done.semi-auto-mato wrote: »Even if he kicked her out she would still let him come back.
They kicked you out a long time ago, you just haven't left yet.
It's funny that you say this because a while back ago me and my bf bro's gf were in the kitchen talking one day (I forgot what we were talking about) and then the dad walks in the room and says to me I should have kicked you out a long time ago but... and then he didn't finish the sentence. The gf then just looked at me with a look of concern.
...But you keep the tub clean.
I know it's hard to accept they don't give a ? about you, want to find anything that shows its not true but if there is any hope for your own spirit you have to get away.
True, I really need my own place. I feel like they give a little bit of a ? because if they didn't they wouldn't have let me stay here. -
SimplyKrys wrote: »BiblicalAtheist wrote: »SimplyKrys wrote: »BiblicalAtheist wrote: »SimplyKrys wrote: »
Actually I wouldn't, if him and his family actually did that I'd be done.semi-auto-mato wrote: »Even if he kicked her out she would still let him come back.
They kicked you out a long time ago, you just haven't left yet.
It's funny that you say this because a while back ago me and my bf bro's gf were in the kitchen talking one day (I forgot what we were talking about) and then the dad walks in the room and says to me I should have kicked you out a long time ago but... and then he didn't finish the sentence. The gf then just looked at me with a look of concern.
...But you keep the tub clean.
I know it's hard to accept they don't give a ? about you, want to find anything that shows its not true but if there is any hope for your own spirit you have to get away.
True, I really need my own place. I feel like they give a little bit of a ? because if they didn't they wouldn't have let me stay here.
What if it's because they feel sorry for you? Would that make you feel better? And what if the reasons they keep you around is because the cooking and cleaning and intimacy for the son? People are capable of not giving a ? about someone yet keep them around cuz they do things for them. Are you not worthy of more? A dog would show you more love and affection and it may only ? on the floor once and a while not ? on you repeatedly. -
I aint read all these replies but.. im guessing you are conflicted/scared dont give anyone another chance to ? you over..You know better ... do better.
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BiblicalAtheist wrote: »SimplyKrys wrote: »BiblicalAtheist wrote: »SimplyKrys wrote: »BiblicalAtheist wrote: »SimplyKrys wrote: »
Actually I wouldn't, if him and his family actually did that I'd be done.semi-auto-mato wrote: »Even if he kicked her out she would still let him come back.
They kicked you out a long time ago, you just haven't left yet.
It's funny that you say this because a while back ago me and my bf bro's gf were in the kitchen talking one day (I forgot what we were talking about) and then the dad walks in the room and says to me I should have kicked you out a long time ago but... and then he didn't finish the sentence. The gf then just looked at me with a look of concern.
...But you keep the tub clean.
I know it's hard to accept they don't give a ? about you, want to find anything that shows its not true but if there is any hope for your own spirit you have to get away.
True, I really need my own place. I feel like they give a little bit of a ? because if they didn't they wouldn't have let me stay here.
What if it's because they feel sorry for you? Would that make you feel better? And what if the reasons they keep you around is because the cooking and cleaning and intimacy for the son? People are capable of not giving a ? about someone yet keep them around cuz they do things for them. Are you not worthy of more? A dog would show you more love and affection and it may only ? on the floor once and a while not ? on you repeatedly.
Good point, I feel like that's why good 'ol mommy dearest let me stay here in the first place. People do what benefits them.
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Lurkristocrat wrote: »? 30 years old wit a damn race car bed and you got the nerve to have sex on it
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Aye baby girl, not to make fun of u but this situation is funny. At one point I was a loser ? that took advantage of women with low self worth. So I can see it from homies perspective, cause I was "that dude" at some point. And I feel for you like I feel for the women that I hurt when I was younger. I really hope you rise before your tied to a weight that only lets you go but so high.
And your young, and so focused on just the next hour, day, month. That you can't even envision what you can be years from now. With gods blessing, one day you'll look down and see a low that you can't imagine is even somewhere someone can be. My honest two cents -
9 pages tho ?
Now close your eyes and imagine a man made this thread....
MFs would've laughed him up out of here.
Simping or nah ? -
SimplyKrys wrote: »Joker_De_La_Lover wrote: »SimplyKrys wrote: »one of her stoner friends tried to get some na-na while I was trying to sleep one night.
Details please
One night when I was trying to sleep (on the pull out couch) my cousin's pal who was high off of dust tapped me on the back, I was like gtfoh then he started rubbing my ribs saying you feel so good right now. So I threw his hand off of me and said you and getting none ? , then I got up and went to my cousins bedroom and slept on the floor. Then the next morning, I was trying to check my email and his pal came in the room and showed me his ? -? . Then I called my bf and told him what was going on then he told me to just pack some clothing and go to his mom's place for a few days. I then talked to him mom about all of the ? that was going on and she said, okay you can stay here...the rest is history.
You told your man a ? tried to ? you and another ? pulled it out on you and he aint bussing heads? You got a keeper there. Let someone try to ? @Kat there would be a strongly worded email. Right @Kat -
Lol..she said ? ?
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9 pages tho ?
Now close your eyes and imagine a man made this thread....
MFs would've laughed him up out of here.
Simping or nah ?
you know what simping is right? -
SimplyKrys wrote: »2stepz_ahead wrote: »SimplyKrys wrote: »2stepz_ahead wrote: »seems to me....
the very thing you hated about your mom.....you just became.
if she ain't got heat or electric an she got a ? ....he aint taking care if home.
sound familiar.
we already talked about this.
you need to leave dude, start off small...maybe in cheap apartments and relocate to that place.
look online for a job elsewhere....if you get it...you already have the money to move. negotiate a deal with a local extended stay hotel or something. move your things into storage, and bounce.
you don't owe an explanation to anyone once you roll.
afterwards. you need to surround yourself with more positive people and people who will bring positive influence into your life to help with your self esteem.
it seems your esteem was already low and you got into something that ? it a bit more.
don't sacrifice who you are because of your financial situation. you sacrifice your financial situation because of who you are. that's more important.
These are some powerful words. To be honest with you, going on my own scares me but I need to face my fear.
fear is a method of mind control. you will learn alot about yourself by being on your own.
you don't know what or who you are if you never had to face odds alone.
you need a mentor or some guidance. someone to walk you thru this.
yes. it's scary. but loving yourself should not be an option you need to think about.
someone talked about the mirror.
let's try this....look in the mirror, and ask yourself ...are you important?
are you happy?
is this what you want?
is he touching you like you want?
saying the words you want to hear?
planning a future, you are apart of?
do you see love in his eyes?
do you feel passion in his touch?
going out his way to think of you first?
are you a temple that deserves respect?
does he worship your temple?
do you respect yourself?
can you do it by yourself?
try to give honest answers to yourself without crying.
record yourself asking yourdelf these questions.
look at it...how do you look? how do you feel about how you look.
Am I happy: Yes and no...I'm happy for the fact that I don't still live at my high as a kite cousin's house.
Is this what I want: No! I always thought that by the time that I was 27/28 y.o. I'd be much better off in life.
Is he touching you like you want?: Not really, there are plenty of times I try to cuddle with him and does not want me to lay on him.
Saying the words I want to hear: HELL NO, because with the things he says it sounds like he's trying to obviously move on without me and if he wants to leave it is what it is.
Planning a future you are a part of: Not really, he keeps talking about getting a house but does not mention me moving in with him
Do you see love in his eyes?: Not really, I feel like he cares for me, but is falling out of love.
Do you feel passion in his touch?: The only passion I feel from him is when he is giving me the D to be honest with you.
Going out of his way to think of you first?: This is hard to anwser
Do I respect myself? Definitely
Can I do it by myself? Yes I can but I need to be making more $$ first.
Ouch... this could be the intro to Deuces -
Lol she coulda just stayed with a friend until she got a place with $800 rent..
But iono nothin
You think she got friends of substance if she still in the ? scenario?
Someone queue up Standardized Slaughter for this story -
ineedpussy wrote: »im going to ask/say this cause im real about mine @SimplyKrys let me take care of you bae. ? him. you cook and clean? bae i will treat you like the queen you are. just roll the dice and take a shot in the dark and watch our life blossom. i will love you forever. you just need to come be with me. aint no doubt about it. we got good journalism jobs here for you and i have a little environmental maintenance job so we will be straight. just hear me out bae. i will love you and make you forget about that haitian ? who gives fleas to dogs. just say yes and we can start the rest of our lives right now.
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2stepz_ahead wrote: »SimplyKrys wrote: »Joker_De_La_Lover wrote: »SimplyKrys wrote: »one of her stoner friends tried to get some na-na while I was trying to sleep one night.
Details please
One night when I was trying to sleep (on the pull out couch) my cousin's pal who was high off of dust tapped me on the back, I was like gtfoh then he started rubbing my ribs saying you feel so good right now. So I threw his hand off of me and said you and getting none ? , then I got up and went to my cousins bedroom and slept on the floor. Then the next morning, I was trying to check my email and his pal came in the room and showed me his ? -? . Then I called my bf and told him what was going on then he told me to just pack some clothing and go to his mom's place for a few days. I then talked to him mom about all of the ? that was going on and she said, okay you can stay here...the rest is history.
i hear innocence and naivety
And ? -
No doubt, but there's a relaxed meaning implied on here.
Fact is if a dude said this ? , they'd go in on him for living off of folk. -
SolemnSauce wrote: »Aye baby girl, not to make fun of u but this situation is funny. At one point I was a loser ? that took advantage of women with low self worth. So I can see it from homies perspective, cause I was "that dude" at some point. And I feel for you like I feel for the women that I hurt when I was younger. I really hope you rise before your tied to a weight that only lets you go but so high.
And your young, and so focused on just the next hour, day, month. That you can't even envision what you can be years from now. With gods blessing, one day you'll look down and see a low that you can't imagine is even somewhere someone can be. My honest two cents
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@2stepz_ahead say g gone head and sponsor that help shawty get on her feet
she ain't ready.
fukk around and be like movie casino.... she still taking care of the aint ? ? with my money.
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Yall some simps, imagine if this was a man tell you all this just think
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SimplyKrys wrote: »Elzo69Renaissance wrote: »how do u even have sex?
TBH we just have sex right in his bed..or on the chair.
She ain't say a sofa, or a couch or a love seat...... but a chair. I can't!! lolSimplyKrys wrote: »Elzo69Renaissance wrote: »how do u even have sex?
TBH we just have sex right in his bed..or on the chair.
Lol... I think he meant how as in with a house full of hatian bums not where.
"Usually on my back or on my stomach"
Where u graduated from?
"ICompletelyDon'tCare" College
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@Trillfate, have you offered her up ya giftcard connect yet or nah?
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SolemnSauce wrote: »Lol..she said ? ?
Say what you want but I'm kind of glad that happened. A few days prior to that happening I prayed to the good Lord, please let something happen to get me out of here. Then boom that happened. As soon as that ? started feeling up on me I was thinking, "Yes I'm about to be out this muthafucka" I was so sick of watching my cousin hallucinate off of the dust. Not to mention she was bipolar af. -
SimplyKrys wrote: »Okay so here's the deal, I have been with my bf since 6/22/06
Keep it real...
Leave now. I knew bs would follow after this first sentence.... -
I can't take this ? serious I didn't read the thread I'm sure you guys gave her great advice.
I was gonna give my thoughts and provide direction but I don't think it's worth it.
goggles you mean to tell me your living conditions are like that and you went on vacation having a wee ole time no huh?
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2stepz_ahead wrote: »@2stepz_ahead say g gone head and sponsor that help shawty get on her feet
she ain't ready.
fukk around and be like movie casino.... she still taking care of the aint ? ? with my money.
He knew ? wasn't ready, but still wifed the ? up and put all that money in her name. Should've known better when she was hiding, calling ole dude at the wedding. Then her ass turned into a junkie.
I love that movie, lol
