For all my people here that DON'T have children.
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Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
It's a beautiful thing if you are ready, but having a child at the wrong time can't be good. -
SimplyKrys wrote: »Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
It's a beautiful thing if you are ready, but having a child at the wrong time can't be good.
Your whole life could pass waiting for the perfect time to have a kid, but I agree that you should feel somewhat ready. -
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I got turned off by watching jerry and maury in the late 90s... -
I'll probably get this girl pregnant with how she looks within 5 months and thats fine I always wanted a kid.
? ? me with the whole "I cant do w/e I want or travel to madagascar now with a kid"
First off, You wasnt going anyways
Second, If having a kid stops you from traveling forever than thats your fault -
SimplyKrys wrote: »Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
It's a beautiful thing if you are ready, but having a child at the wrong time can't be good.
Your whole life could pass waiting for the perfect time to have a kid, but I agree that you should feel somewhat ready.
My boss was actually telling me there is really no perfect time. If you don't mind me asking, how did you feel when you first found out your little one was coming? -
Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.I'll probably get this girl pregnant with how she looks within 5 months and thats fine I always wanted a kid.
? ? me with the whole "I cant do w/e I want or travel to madagascar now with a kid"
First off, You wasnt going anyways
Second, If having a kid stops you from traveling forever than thats your fault
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This question is for the ones without kids right? If you have em your in another boat. The reasons for not having them, in addition to the world being crazy, and the fact everybody aint trying to take on that job are all valid to the individual.
Doesnt really bother me at all. In fact its not something I usually think of. I got this and that and trying to stretch a dollar and do this and that. When I think of all the stuff I have to do and money I need and whatnot Im thankful for not having kids thats pretty much it.
I'll say I love not having kids. the opposite is like, no. Thats just me though. Its a relief and freeing realization. -
Stop catching feelings Stewart. You know if it applies to you or not.
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ill have kids when im married and stable, no sooner
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28 with no kids. I had it in my head when I was in my ealry 20s that 30 would be the age i'd be more willing to/prepared to have kids. I turn 29 in May and unless something radical changes in my life theres no way i'd be in the right place financially, mentally or lifestyle wise to even consider having children. Part of that is attributed to not accomplishing as much at this age as I'd have liked. I don't just mean money/career wise, I love to travel and have done a lot in my life but it just feels like i'm not there yet.
Hell, ive passed on some great women that have kids out of fear of getting locked down. That and i'm selfish as hell with my time/attention. I love my nieces and nephews I just don't feel like havings kids around all the time.
I'm looking at 35 as the age i'll think about it again lol. -
I'll probably get this girl pregnant with how she looks within 5 months and thats fine I always wanted a kid.
? ? me with the whole "I cant do w/e I want or travel to madagascar now with a kid"
First off, You wasnt going anyways
Second, If having a kid stops you from traveling forever than thats your fault
Foh I'm talking to my brother and he tells me every time he travels it's at least 10 gs cuz it's him, his wife and my nephew....and they travel at least 3 times a yr....I aint ready for that type of output -
Its not time for them yet, i cant say im happy about it though, it was pretty intentional... Every ? i ever nutted in I spent that 50 for the Plan B the next morning or that night.
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Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
U were like 30 struggling on stamps taking the 8 bus everywhere
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Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
*Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post* -
Ran into a teenager at fast food joint working the cash register...fou d out i grew up with her mama...felt old as ? .
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21...so heeeeellllllllllllll yeah
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Elzo69Renaissance wrote: »I'll probably get this girl pregnant with how she looks within 5 months and thats fine I always wanted a kid.
? ? me with the whole "I cant do w/e I want or travel to madagascar now with a kid"
First off, You wasnt going anyways
Second, If having a kid stops you from traveling forever than thats your fault
Foh I'm talking to my brother and he tells me every time he travels it's at least 10 gs cuz it's him, his wife and my nephew....and they travel at least 3 times a yr....I aint ready for that type of output
The kid ain't stop him from traveling though. ? like STEW think those trips to morrocco that he been planning just gonna stop lol -
I don't have any, I'll be 33 in 2-3 weeks. I didn't want any until we had a scare last year. I was good on not being a daddy but now...I'm in the middle about it.
I'm not stable, and I still got realistic dreams to pursue. I want to give my child(ren) a head start. -
Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
agreed at the bolded
mofos yelling bout their freedom yet they busy living mediocre lives on purpose haha
I'm just happy whenever people don't have have kids they truly don't want.......it's a sad thing to see an unwanted/unloved child who didn't ask to be here -
I dont need children to give me purpose or a new outlook on life.
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Elzo69Renaissance wrote: »I'll probably get this girl pregnant with how she looks within 5 months and thats fine I always wanted a kid.
? ? me with the whole "I cant do w/e I want or travel to madagascar now with a kid"
First off, You wasnt going anyways
Second, If having a kid stops you from traveling forever than thats your fault
Foh I'm talking to my brother and he tells me every time he travels it's at least 10 gs cuz it's him, his wife and my nephew....and they travel at least 3 times a yr....I aint ready for that type of output
The kid ain't stop him from traveling though. ? like STEW think those trips to morrocco that he been planning just gonna stop lol
And how do you know this again? Or u just taking a wild guess at what my life would turn into. -
FWIW, there is no "perfect time" to have kids. There are just times when you're more prepared to handle the responsibility.
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Lotta weak ass sperms and eggs in the building today I see
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Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing ? with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.
Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
*Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post*
I don't regret having a kid, I do regret who I had a kid with though.
I see folks feeling some type of way about my comment. Truth hurts. -
notice a trend with T/S threads lately?
she crying out for help
watch for the signs
