Fellas and Women in a relationship, need some real help
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Y'all making excuses for her, talking about hormones, that aint what she said, she said this ? treat her like a sex object
Let's stick to the facts and not project or "live in la la land"
Isn't this what you're doing by assuming it can't possibly be anything else? -
if this was just general conversation then cool, but since this a person with a specific issue then i must say this....
Threadstarter you got to tell the full story, because i hate telling ? to bail on a relationship or love, unless they're situation is that they're in a one sided relationship, that's not good for either person
Now a marriage, I give no advice except get some real professional counseling and figure it out -
atribecalledgabi wrote: »
no ma'am I'm just going off the facts as stated in the opening post
Ol girl never said the problem was her or that she didn't want to have sex, she said he was "a ? and she felt like a sex object"
Now me "living in la la land" would be me saying that she is getting some non sexual attention from some one else thus opening her eyes to the fact that the only attention she gets from threadstarter is in a sexual manner -
I know when certain posters enter a thread and engage, it's a wrap. They will go 3-4 pages volleying tired ass rhetoric.
Don't quote me bro -
This is cynical, but it's probably a wrap for the relationship. This kind of thing doesn't just fix itself, and it's usually a deal breaker. You're just going to be robbing yourself of physical intimacy if you try to go past this
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atribecalledgabi wrote: »@silverfoxx is your gf on birth control? If so that could be a reason why her sex drive took a dip.
Also many prescriptions have this effect, like antidepressants. She's also 24, her prime aint hitting for a few years, and I'm assuming you're in yours. Doesn't mean there's anything "wrong" with either of you.
This is a myth.
First off, why would men and women hit their primes years apart? Evolutionarily speaking, that makes very little sense. Second, women are at their most fecund in their early to mid-twenties. Having a prime that doesn't coincide with when women are best able to bear children is equally as weird -
Rozetta5tone wrote: »I know when certain posters enter a thread and engage, it's a wrap. They will go 3-4 pages volleying tired ass rhetoric.
Don't quote me bro
^^^^
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silverfoxx wrote: »Guys please no fighting. I respect everyone opinions. Westie dropping some good ? , as well as fellas. Let's chill it out guys
Its all love....i mean kinda...
I feel like some of these ? are trying to corrupt you. Good luck with your lady.
A man raises a man -
This is why I only get with cougars: they know what they want, unlike these young chicks out here.
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Break up with her. It's the only way she'll learn.
And if she doesn't learn, you've done both of you a favor. -
atribecalledgabi wrote: »@silverfoxx is your gf on birth control? If so that could be a reason why her sex drive took a dip.
Also many prescriptions have this effect, like antidepressants. She's also 24, her prime aint hitting for a few years, and I'm assuming you're in yours. Doesn't mean there's anything "wrong" with either of you.
This is a myth.
First off, why would men and women hit their primes years apart? Evolutionarily speaking, that makes very little sense. Second, women are at their most fecund in their early to mid-twenties. Having a prime that doesn't coincide with when women are best able to bear children is equally as weird
Its not a myth. -
silverfoxx wrote: »Guys please no fighting. I respect everyone opinions. Westie dropping some good ? , as well as fellas. Let's chill it out guys
Its all love....i mean kinda...
I feel like some of these ? are trying to corrupt you. Good luck with your lady.
A man raises a man
Half these ? don't raise their own kids. Stop. -
atribecalledgabi wrote: »@silverfoxx is your gf on birth control? If so that could be a reason why her sex drive took a dip.
Also many prescriptions have this effect, like antidepressants. She's also 24, her prime aint hitting for a few years, and I'm assuming you're in yours. Doesn't mean there's anything "wrong" with either of you.
This is a myth.
First off, why would men and women hit their primes years apart? Evolutionarily speaking, that makes very little sense. Second, women are at their most fecund in their early to mid-twenties. Having a prime that doesn't coincide with when women are best able to bear children is equally as weird
Its not a myth.
It totally is. Women don't hit their sexual prime in their middle ages. Men and women biologically hit their primes around the same time, it's just that our culture permits women to express their sexuality differently as they get older and they stop caring as much about what society thinks of them that changes how they treat sex -
atribecalledgabi wrote: »@silverfoxx is your gf on birth control? If so that could be a reason why her sex drive took a dip.
Also many prescriptions have this effect, like antidepressants. She's also 24, her prime aint hitting for a few years, and I'm assuming you're in yours. Doesn't mean there's anything "wrong" with either of you.
This is a myth.
First off, why would men and women hit their primes years apart? Evolutionarily speaking, that makes very little sense. Second, women are at their most fecund in their early to mid-twenties. Having a prime that doesn't coincide with when women are best able to bear children is equally as weird
Its not a myth.
It totally is. Women don't hit their sexual prime in their middle ages. Men and women biologically hit their primes around the same time, it's just that our culture permits women to express their sexuality differently as they get older and they stop caring as much about what society thinks of them that changes how they treat sex
That's to be debated in scientific studies because there's evidence to both sides. So does that not stop women from feeling more at ease sexually when they get a little older? Wanting to ? more? Having sex feel better? I didn't say biological anything I said the word Prime what does the word prime mean to you? -
As usual someone with a ? trying to tell a woman with a ? , having sex with that ? how her ? is supposed to feel.
For the record I did not start this Part conversation and I will not be responsible for the direction it turns. -
pissedoffnobody wrote: »atribecalledgabi wrote: »@silverfoxx is your gf on birth control? If so that could be a reason why her sex drive took a dip.
Also many prescriptions have this effect, like antidepressants. She's also 24, her prime aint hitting for a few years, and I'm assuming you're in yours. Doesn't mean there's anything "wrong" with either of you.
This is a myth.
First off, why would men and women hit their primes years apart? Evolutionarily speaking, that makes very little sense. Second, women are at their most fecund in their early to mid-twenties. Having a prime that doesn't coincide with when women are best able to bear children is equally as weird
Its not a myth.
It totally is. Women don't hit their sexual prime in their middle ages. Men and women biologically hit their primes around the same time, it's just that our culture permits women to express their sexuality differently as they get older and they stop caring as much about what society thinks of them that changes how they treat sex
That's to be debated in scientific studies because there's evidence to both sides. So does that not stop women from feeling more at ease sexually when they get a little older? Wanting to ? more? Having sex feel better? I didn't say biological anything I said the word Prime what does the word prime mean to you?
Men are in their prime between 19-26, women between 32-38 by most standards. It's an old inherent hold over from nature when the female of the species would need to be mature enough to be engaged by many younger more virile suitors. Anyone arguing otherwise hasn't even bothered to check Animal Planet anytime recently. I mean, in nature, some male suitors get eaten or have their ? ripped off post coitus after their purpose has been served. We can alpha male impress our ? her as much as we like as if men are the ultimate ? machines but it's not real. I mean, pigs have half hour orgasms and a human would drown in a nut of whale ? , we're not as sexually industrious, indulgent or efficent as other species.
whatever ? ....
eyez put it down -
@BOSSExcellence is right, there's some lesbians on here pretending to be men
What man wouldn't tell another man to dip out on a chick complaining about sex 6 months into a relationship
Y'all making excuses for her, talking about hormones, that aint what she said, she said this ? treat her like a sex object
Let's stick to the facts and not project or "live in la la land"
You do know that hormones can affect her feeling like he's treating her like a sex object right? You do know how hormones work and affect your mood don't you? -
pissedoffnobody wrote: »atribecalledgabi wrote: »@silverfoxx is your gf on birth control? If so that could be a reason why her sex drive took a dip.
Also many prescriptions have this effect, like antidepressants. She's also 24, her prime aint hitting for a few years, and I'm assuming you're in yours. Doesn't mean there's anything "wrong" with either of you.
This is a myth.
First off, why would men and women hit their primes years apart? Evolutionarily speaking, that makes very little sense. Second, women are at their most fecund in their early to mid-twenties. Having a prime that doesn't coincide with when women are best able to bear children is equally as weird
Its not a myth.
It totally is. Women don't hit their sexual prime in their middle ages. Men and women biologically hit their primes around the same time, it's just that our culture permits women to express their sexuality differently as they get older and they stop caring as much about what society thinks of them that changes how they treat sex
That's to be debated in scientific studies because there's evidence to both sides. So does that not stop women from feeling more at ease sexually when they get a little older? Wanting to ? more? Having sex feel better? I didn't say biological anything I said the word Prime what does the word prime mean to you?
Men are in their prime between 19-26, women between 32-38 by most standards. It's an old inherent hold over from nature when the female of the species would need to be mature enough to be engaged by many younger more virile suitors. Anyone arguing otherwise hasn't even bothered to check Animal Planet anytime recently. I mean, in nature, some male suitors get eaten or have their ? ripped off post coitus after their purpose has been served. We can alpha male impress our ? her as much as we like as if men are the ultimate ? machines but it's not real. I mean, pigs have half hour orgasms and a human would drown in a nut of whale ? , we're not as sexually industrious, indulgent or efficent as other species.
32 bruh? You got something to back that up? Sounds way off -
@BOSSExcellence is right, there's some lesbians on here pretending to be men
What man wouldn't tell another man to dip out on a chick complaining about sex 6 months into a relationship
Y'all making excuses for her, talking about hormones, that aint what she said, she said this ? treat her like a sex object
Let's stick to the facts and not project or "live in la la land"
You do know that hormones can affect her feeling like he's treating her like a sex object right? You do know how hormones work and affect your mood don't you?
^^ the lesbian ring leader!!! -
Westie so confrontational.
Yall ever seen her bow out knowing she wrong? -
Westie so confrontational.
Yall ever seen her bow out knowing she wrong?
1 - I am not the only person with an opinion in this thread. I don't know why it always comes to me. Also I am not wrong, I don't have a ? so my perspective is different.
2 - this aint about me. Why don't you address the thread starter? -
Bow down to anyone in this mfker... ? out of here with that.
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Stop set tripping cuzBOSSExcellence wrote: »@BOSSExcellence is right, there's some lesbians on here pretending to be men
What man wouldn't tell another man to dip out on a chick complaining about sex 6 months into a relationship
Y'all making excuses for her, talking about hormones, that aint what she said, she said this ? treat her like a sex object
Let's stick to the facts and not project or "live in la la land"
You do know that hormones can affect her feeling like he's treating her like a sex object right? You do know how hormones work and affect your mood don't you?
^^ the lesbian ring leader!!!
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Westie so confrontational.
Yall ever seen her bow out knowing she wrong?
the ? told yall in the other thread the other day she loves to argue.. not like.. but LOVE!!
im willin to bet the ? know she wrong..
but turn down a good argument for what!!? -
@BOSSExcellence is right, there's some lesbians on here pretending to be men
What man wouldn't tell another man to dip out on a chick complaining about sex 6 months into a relationship
Y'all making excuses for her, talking about hormones, that aint what she said, she said this ? treat her like a sex object
Let's stick to the facts and not project or "live in la la land"
You do know that hormones can affect her feeling like he's treating her like a sex object right? You do know how hormones work and affect your mood don't you?
bro let's not make assumptions, you have no clue what kind of birth control she is on, and bc can cause the sex drive to go either way, so let's stick to facts, bro said she complains about him not her and he admits he has a high sex drive
He didn't say she wasn't in the mood or that she doesn't be down to ? , from what threadstarter is saying the problem sounds like they're sexually incompatible, and he asked advice on what to do next
