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  • KaiKai Posts: 704 Regulator
    R0mp wrote: »
    Kai wrote: »
    MsSouthern wrote: »
    So @Kai are you ok with him saying "I'm not coming home cause I'm with *insert girl name* tonight " what if you want him home with you ????

    Do you ask questions about where he is or who he is with or are you not allowed to ?


    I have a friend who dated a guy for years. He told her he would give her 6 good nights and the 7th she wasn't allowed to ask about

    Worked for her .... could never be me

    If he said it just like that, I'd have no problem with it, just tell him to drive safe and have fun. he comes home like 99% of the time tho, it's probably more cuz he likes sleeping in his own bed, he'll usually just stay out as late as he wants then go home after

    He'll tell me he's going out and just goes. I don't really ask usually, or care to, about where he's going in general, so the same applies to this. I mean if he volunteers the info, I'm like sure, but I don't care either way

    Like if we're just making small talk let's say after dinner on a Friday or something, I might ask him if he had any plans for the night if we're not going out together and he'll tell me he's having drinks with so and so

    I mean I can ask whatever I want, I really don't care to usually. As far as him leaving if I need him to stay, he'd never go anywhere if he knew I genuinely needed him there. He's very attentive to my needs that way

    What a cuckquean. Lmao.

    Lol, I guess, I don't have any interest watching him fuck other hoes tho,
    Kai wrote: »
    LPast wrote: »
    The thing with situations like @kai isn't the mechanics... It's the EGO. Kai has to be REALLY secure, even a bit naive to make this work.

    My question is if things didn't work out. Is this your rule for any man or just your husband?

    She puts minced celery in her tuna salad my nigga....

    He ain't going NO WHERE.

    Lol, I can't believe you remember this. Don't forget the minced onion and dash of lemon juice

    yo tuna aint seein mine..
    i put all that in as well.. also some shit i aint go list that sets it over the top..

    i dont mince tho..
    i like the crunch.. otherwise I'm chewing on mush. lol

    Unless you're making your mayo from scratch like I do I doubt it does lol

    Solid albacore tuna, with fresh mayo on a toasted brioche bun, then you put the tuna mix on the bun with some marble cheddar on top. Put under the broiler for a min. And on the other bun lettuce and tomato with a little bit of Greek dressing............perfection

    Arya TsaddiqatribecalledgabiMD_PROPER Young Stef
  • KaiKai Posts: 704 Regulator
    Kai just came in and derailed the thread.

    Sorry lol

    Young Stef
  • CapitalBCapitalB all these dollars.. no sense. Posts: 24,556 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November 2016
    Kai wrote: »
    R0mp wrote: »
    Kai wrote: »
    MsSouthern wrote: »
    So @Kai are you ok with him saying "I'm not coming home cause I'm with *insert girl name* tonight " what if you want him home with you ????

    Do you ask questions about where he is or who he is with or are you not allowed to ?


    I have a friend who dated a guy for years. He told her he would give her 6 good nights and the 7th she wasn't allowed to ask about

    Worked for her .... could never be me

    If he said it just like that, I'd have no problem with it, just tell him to drive safe and have fun. he comes home like 99% of the time tho, it's probably more cuz he likes sleeping in his own bed, he'll usually just stay out as late as he wants then go home after

    He'll tell me he's going out and just goes. I don't really ask usually, or care to, about where he's going in general, so the same applies to this. I mean if he volunteers the info, I'm like sure, but I don't care either way

    Like if we're just making small talk let's say after dinner on a Friday or something, I might ask him if he had any plans for the night if we're not going out together and he'll tell me he's having drinks with so and so

    I mean I can ask whatever I want, I really don't care to usually. As far as him leaving if I need him to stay, he'd never go anywhere if he knew I genuinely needed him there. He's very attentive to my needs that way

    What a cuckquean. Lmao.

    Lol, I guess, I don't have any interest watching him fuck other hoes tho,
    Kai wrote: »
    LPast wrote: »
    The thing with situations like @kai isn't the mechanics... It's the EGO. Kai has to be REALLY secure, even a bit naive to make this work.

    My question is if things didn't work out. Is this your rule for any man or just your husband?

    She puts minced celery in her tuna salad my nigga....

    He ain't going NO WHERE.

    Lol, I can't believe you remember this. Don't forget the minced onion and dash of lemon juice

    yo tuna aint seein mine..
    i put all that in as well.. also some shit i aint go list that sets it over the top..

    i dont mince tho..
    i like the crunch.. otherwise I'm chewing on mush. lol

    Unless you're making your mayo from scratch like I do I doubt it does lol

    Solid albacore tuna, with fresh mayo on a toasted brioche bun, then you put the tuna mix on the bun with some marble cheddar on top. Put under the broiler for a min. And on the other bun lettuce and tomato with a little bit of Greek dressing............perfection

    i said my tuna tastes better and i stand by it..
    now u may have me on the sandwhich..

    i aint got that kinda time..

    warm my bread in the microwave for 15secs..
    light spread of "im not tellin"..
    cheese lettuce tomato..

    SWAG!
    TOO REAL for IC
    #TEAMDRAGONSnSHIT
    #TargGangyabish
    Arya Tsaddiqatribecalledgabi
  • Peace_79Peace_79 Sion Posts: 8,964 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November 2016
    Kai wrote: »
    R0mp wrote: »
    Kai wrote: »
    MsSouthern wrote: »
    So @Kai are you ok with him saying "I'm not coming home cause I'm with *insert girl name* tonight " what if you want him home with you ????

    Do you ask questions about where he is or who he is with or are you not allowed to ?


    I have a friend who dated a guy for years. He told her he would give her 6 good nights and the 7th she wasn't allowed to ask about

    Worked for her .... could never be me

    If he said it just like that, I'd have no problem with it, just tell him to drive safe and have fun. he comes home like 99% of the time tho, it's probably more cuz he likes sleeping in his own bed, he'll usually just stay out as late as he wants then go home after

    He'll tell me he's going out and just goes. I don't really ask usually, or care to, about where he's going in general, so the same applies to this. I mean if he volunteers the info, I'm like sure, but I don't care either way

    Like if we're just making small talk let's say after dinner on a Friday or something, I might ask him if he had any plans for the night if we're not going out together and he'll tell me he's having drinks with so and so

    I mean I can ask whatever I want, I really don't care to usually. As far as him leaving if I need him to stay, he'd never go anywhere if he knew I genuinely needed him there. He's very attentive to my needs that way

    What a cuckquean. Lmao.

    Lol, I guess, I don't have any interest watching him fuck other hoes tho,
    Kai wrote: »
    LPast wrote: »
    The thing with situations like @kai isn't the mechanics... It's the EGO. Kai has to be REALLY secure, even a bit naive to make this work.

    My question is if things didn't work out. Is this your rule for any man or just your husband?

    She puts minced celery in her tuna salad my nigga....

    He ain't going NO WHERE.

    Lol, I can't believe you remember this. Don't forget the minced onion and dash of lemon juice

    yo tuna aint seein mine..
    i put all that in as well.. also some shit i aint go list that sets it over the top..

    i dont mince tho..
    i like the crunch.. otherwise I'm chewing on mush. lol

    Unless you're making your mayo from scratch like I do I doubt it does lol

    Solid albacore tuna, with fresh mayo on a toasted brioche bun, then you put the tuna mix on the bun with some marble cheddar on top. Put under the broiler for a min. And on the other bun lettuce and tomato with a little bit of Greek dressing............perfection

    Well damn ...
    All this for a tuna Samich?

    @kai you a chef or some shit?


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    mike06Young Stef
  • dwade206dwade206 Posts: 11,559 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Kai wrote: »
    MsSouthern wrote: »
    So @Kai are you ok with him saying "I'm not coming home cause I'm with *insert girl name* tonight " what if you want him home with you ????

    Do you ask questions about where he is or who he is with or are you not allowed to ?


    I have a friend who dated a guy for years. He told her he would give her 6 good nights and the 7th she wasn't allowed to ask about

    Worked for her .... could never be me

    If he said it just like that, I'd have no problem with it, just tell him to drive safe and have fun. he comes home like 99% of the time tho, it's probably more cuz he likes sleeping in his own bed, he'll usually just stay out as late as he wants then go home after

    He'll tell me he's going out and just goes. I don't really ask usually, or care to, about where he's going in general, so the same applies to this. I mean if he volunteers the info, I'm like sure, but I don't care either way

    Like if we're just making small talk let's say after dinner on a Friday or something, I might ask him if he had any plans for the night if we're not going out together and he'll tell me he's having drinks with so and so

    I mean I can ask whatever I want, I really don't care to usually. As far as him leaving if I need him to stay, he'd never go anywhere if he knew I genuinely needed him there. He's very attentive to my needs that way

    Nah, nah, this shit is a trap. Kai's an agent. Ain't no way she reached that level of trillnigganess.
    Bustin a new nut on @R.D's moms collarbone everyday.
    deadeyeYoung Stef
  • nex ginnex gin Keep It Simple Stupid Posts: 10,698 ✭✭✭✭✭
    **reads @kai posts**

    .......got a brother feeling like he needs to upgrade his chick..smh

    sad-obama-angry-upset-barack-president-sad-hill-news-769394.jpg


    The person who controls your anger controls you.

    The conventional mind is passive. It consumes information and
    regurgitates it in familiar forms. The dimensional mind is active
    transforming everything it digests into something new & original,
    creating instead of consuming.

    Excuses don't solve problems.

    Life is a series of serious choices
    Theories are formed from experience, never mysterious forces
    CapitalBmike06deadeyeYoung Stef
  • dallas' 4 evadallas' 4 eva Dallas Cowboys 2016 NFC EAST CHAMPS Posts: 11,217 ✭✭✭✭✭
    EmM HoLLa. wrote: »
    With all relationships communication is key.. With age i've found that you may not get every women to agree but there are women who are perfectly all right with this kind of relationship as long as it is understood from the beginning.. Prop to @kai I wish you and your husband a strong and enduring marriage..

    I got a potna who recently got married and he told his old lady straight up that marriage aint gonna change him, he still gonna go out and he still gone slide in something strange every now and then, if she aint cool with it this is her chance to walk. Apparently she was cool with it, shit I need to find me a broad like that for real.
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  • CapitalBCapitalB all these dollars.. no sense. Posts: 24,556 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited December 2016
    EmM HoLLa. wrote: »
    With all relationships communication is key.. With age i've found that you may not get every women to agree but there are women who are perfectly all right with this kind of relationship as long as it is understood from the beginning.. Prop to @kai I wish you and your husband a strong and enduring marriage..

    I got a potna who recently got married and he told his old lady straight up that marriage aint gonna change him, he still gonna go out and he still gone slide in something strange every now and then, if she aint cool with it this is her chance to walk. Apparently she was cool with it, shit I need to find me a broad like that for real.

    want who wants u and ull never have a problem.

    you cant have who u want AND do what u want..
    it doesnt work like that unfortunately.
    TOO REAL for IC
    #TEAMDRAGONSnSHIT
    #TargGangyabish
    rip.dillaMissKBussy_Getta
  • Recaptimus_Prime360Recaptimus_Prime360 Earned my Masters and Ph.d in Phat Booty-ology Posts: 64,802 ✭✭✭✭✭
    blackrain wrote: »
    EmM HoLLa. wrote: »
    With all relationships communication is key.. With age i've found that you may not get every women to agree but there are women who are perfectly all right with this kind of relationship as long as it is understood from the beginning.. Prop to @kai I wish you and your husband a strong and enduring marriage..

    I've said on the IC plenty of times let what you will and won't go for known up front and it eliminates alot of confusion and put the onus on the other person to decide whether or not they're truly game for it.

    As for the whole open relationship thing..it ain't for everybody. It does take a certain security in yourself to know that your partner fucking someone else can have nothing to do with their feelings for you. It's just a fuck. Most people, men included, don't have the mentality it would take to accept that. Just look at how suspicious the average nigga would be if their lady told them they could fuck somebody else. Their first thought would be she's fucking somebody else too


    Wouldn't bother me tbh. Hell I told her she could if she wanted to.

    She has said the same thing as well, but I think was a booby trap. Might have to ask her about that.
    AGSN: OUR MOVEMENT STILL CONTINUES.
  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 27,261 Regulator
    EmM HoLLa. wrote: »
    With all relationships communication is key.. With age i've found that you may not get every women to agree but there are women who are perfectly all right with this kind of relationship as long as it is understood from the beginning.. Prop to @kai I wish you and your husband a strong and enduring marriage..

    I got a potna who recently got married and he told his old lady straight up that marriage aint gonna change him, he still gonna go out and he still gone slide in something strange every now and then, if she aint cool with it this is her chance to walk. Apparently she was cool with it, shit I need to find me a broad like that for real.

    Truth be told most women don't care or are willing to forgive so long as they're not embarrassed in public. Same way you don't wanna walk into a room and see 4-5 niggas laughing because they smashed your girl is the same way a woman don't want to have to hear about any dirt you did or are doing.
    rip.dillaMissK
  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 27,261 Regulator
    EmM HoLLa. wrote: »
    With all relationships communication is key.. With age i've found that you may not get every women to agree but there are women who are perfectly all right with this kind of relationship as long as it is understood from the beginning.. Prop to @kai I wish you and your husband a strong and enduring marriage..

    I got a potna who recently got married and he told his old lady straight up that marriage aint gonna change him, he still gonna go out and he still gone slide in something strange every now and then, if she aint cool with it this is her chance to walk. Apparently she was cool with it, shit I need to find me a broad like that for real.

    want who wants u and ull never have a problem.

    you cant have who u want AND do what u want..
    it doesnt work like that unfortunately.

    Nah if you're a person who is truly happy with one person you can have who you want and do what you want. Problem is people don't know how to say what they want
  • CapitalBCapitalB all these dollars.. no sense. Posts: 24,556 ✭✭✭✭✭
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    EmM HoLLa. wrote: »
    With all relationships communication is key.. With age i've found that you may not get every women to agree but there are women who are perfectly all right with this kind of relationship as long as it is understood from the beginning.. Prop to @kai I wish you and your husband a strong and enduring marriage..

    I got a potna who recently got married and he told his old lady straight up that marriage aint gonna change him, he still gonna go out and he still gone slide in something strange every now and then, if she aint cool with it this is her chance to walk. Apparently she was cool with it, shit I need to find me a broad like that for real.

    want who wants u and ull never have a problem.

    you cant have who u want AND do what u want..
    it doesnt work like that unfortunately.

    Nah if you're a person who is truly happy with one person you can have who you want and do what you want. Problem is people don't know how to say what they want

    what did i jus say??

    Why the hostility.."come on man we supposed to brothers" lol

    cause u jus tryin to argue..
    i aint got time for u today... nor the energy. lol
    TOO REAL for IC
    #TEAMDRAGONSnSHIT
    #TargGangyabish
    blackrainatribecalledgabiiron man1EmM HoLLa.
  • CapitalBCapitalB all these dollars.. no sense. Posts: 24,556 ✭✭✭✭✭
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    EmM HoLLa. wrote: »
    With all relationships communication is key.. With age i've found that you may not get every women to agree but there are women who are perfectly all right with this kind of relationship as long as it is understood from the beginning.. Prop to @kai I wish you and your husband a strong and enduring marriage..

    I got a potna who recently got married and he told his old lady straight up that marriage aint gonna change him, he still gonna go out and he still gone slide in something strange every now and then, if she aint cool with it this is her chance to walk. Apparently she was cool with it, shit I need to find me a broad like that for real.

    want who wants u and ull never have a problem.

    you cant have who u want AND do what u want..
    it doesnt work like that unfortunately.

    Nah if you're a person who is truly happy with one person you can have who you want and do what you want. Problem is people don't know how to say what they want

    what did i jus say??

    Why the hostility.."come on man we supposed to brothers" lol

    cause u jus tryin to argue..
    i aint got time for u today... nor the energy. lol

    Nigga I got a 2 week old...time and energy are a luxury right now. I take my moments to antagonize when I can lol

    nigga ill see ur 2wk old and raise u this 2yr old thats next to me full of fuckin energy and words!! she wont be still she wont shit up and i can barely understand the shit she say!! lol
    TOO REAL for IC
    #TEAMDRAGONSnSHIT
    #TargGangyabish
    gnsEmM HoLLa.mike06deadeye
  • blackrainblackrain Posts: 27,261 Regulator
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    EmM HoLLa. wrote: »
    With all relationships communication is key.. With age i've found that you may not get every women to agree but there are women who are perfectly all right with this kind of relationship as long as it is understood from the beginning.. Prop to @kai I wish you and your husband a strong and enduring marriage..

    I got a potna who recently got married and he told his old lady straight up that marriage aint gonna change him, he still gonna go out and he still gone slide in something strange every now and then, if she aint cool with it this is her chance to walk. Apparently she was cool with it, shit I need to find me a broad like that for real.

    want who wants u and ull never have a problem.

    you cant have who u want AND do what u want..
    it doesnt work like that unfortunately.

    Nah if you're a person who is truly happy with one person you can have who you want and do what you want. Problem is people don't know how to say what they want

    what did i jus say??

    Why the hostility.."come on man we supposed to brothers" lol

    cause u jus tryin to argue..
    i aint got time for u today... nor the energy. lol

    Nigga I got a 2 week old...time and energy are a luxury right now. I take my moments to antagonize when I can lol

    nigga ill see ur 2wk old and raise u this 2yr old thats next to me full of fuckin energy and words!! she wont be still she wont shit up and i can barely understand the shit she say!! lol

    Lol I'm actually looking forward to when he can talk so he use some damn words instead of crying, though people weren't lying when they told me you learn to decipher the baby crying language damn near instantly. Know what the hungry cry is, the i need a change cry, the i'm tired of laying here pick me up nigga cry lol...
  • obnoxiouslyfreshobnoxiouslyfresh Still Ginny From The Block Posts: 11,495 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Kai seems real secure in her relationship. You would think one would have to be. But I was watching that show with that guy Cody on TLC with the 4 wives and they're all jealous. I don't get it at all. They have the nerve to be jealous
    Angel out of heaven, such a goddess, have a nigga praying [-O<
    KaiEmM HoLLa.MissKdeadeye
  • CapitalBCapitalB all these dollars.. no sense. Posts: 24,556 ✭✭✭✭✭
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    EmM HoLLa. wrote: »
    With all relationships communication is key.. With age i've found that you may not get every women to agree but there are women who are perfectly all right with this kind of relationship as long as it is understood from the beginning.. Prop to @kai I wish you and your husband a strong and enduring marriage..

    I got a potna who recently got married and he told his old lady straight up that marriage aint gonna change him, he still gonna go out and he still gone slide in something strange every now and then, if she aint cool with it this is her chance to walk. Apparently she was cool with it, shit I need to find me a broad like that for real.

    want who wants u and ull never have a problem.

    you cant have who u want AND do what u want..
    it doesnt work like that unfortunately.

    Nah if you're a person who is truly happy with one person you can have who you want and do what you want. Problem is people don't know how to say what they want

    what did i jus say??

    Why the hostility.."come on man we supposed to brothers" lol

    cause u jus tryin to argue..
    i aint got time for u today... nor the energy. lol

    Nigga I got a 2 week old...time and energy are a luxury right now. I take my moments to antagonize when I can lol

    nigga ill see ur 2wk old and raise u this 2yr old thats next to me full of fuckin energy and words!! she wont be still she wont shit up and i can barely understand the shit she say!! lol

    Lol I'm actually looking forward to when he can talk so he use some damn words instead of crying, though people weren't lying when they told me you learn to decipher the baby crying language damn near instantly. Know what the hungry cry is, the i need a change cry, the i'm tired of laying here pick me up nigga cry lol...

    yeh.. i know what u talkin about..
    when my daughter was first born everyone was askin me "how it feel??" i was like "boring!" lol she didnt do shit but eat sleep shit and cry. lol & smh

    from like 7mnths on she been turnt up since.. she acts jus like me and im finding out how much of a burden i am on people as far as energy and patience is concerned..

    ur kid may be different.. they all have they own personalities.. but mine.. soon as she wakes up and jump out the bed she hits the ground runnin..

    im.. tired!!! hahhaahaha

    and now that she's in school its worse..
    its like she bottles up all her energy at school to be good.. but soon as she's wit me and her mom that shit explodes. smmfh
    TOO REAL for IC
    #TEAMDRAGONSnSHIT
    #TargGangyabish
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