Ladies: why do you do this to the men in YOUR life?

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  • DEE-LICIOUS
    DEE-LICIOUS Members Posts: 6,088 ✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    blackrain wrote: »
    nah my battery life is just really good so long as i'm not roaming the internet all day...i can go 2 days w/o charging my phone

    im jalous
    ....
  • blackrain
    blackrain Members, Moderators Posts: 27,269 Regulator
    edited January 2011
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    im jalous
    ....

    lol aww it's ok nena...bbm me and i'll tell you how to keep your battery life up
  • thehonorable
    thehonorable Members Posts: 2,979 ✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    Just buya work charger.

    best 20 bucks you will ever spend.
  • Young_Chitlin
    Young_Chitlin Members Posts: 23,852 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    lmao @ u THINKING she wants ur ass. How bout - if she wanted u she would go get u.

    U think you're reading signs that she wants you, meanwhile you're making it up in ur head. Flirting doesn't = us wanting you. Now you're mad cause u got all the signs mixed up. Don't blame us. Blame yourself. Believe me, if a female wants you she's gone let it be known.

    lol yall ? stay crying on here. it's hilarious.

    Hiiii BR!! :D good morning!

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    You make very valid points, points that I cannot counter. I will say this though: When a girl knows a guy for a long time (more than a year) and shows obvious interest in you (may not be body language flirting- could be the way she looks at you et al), if she is showing through her actions that she wants you, then it signals (to me) to step up and go for it. I did that with not just this girl but a different woman and got rejected a grand total of 5 times- an IC record.
    Maybe its true, maybe women who do what these two girls have done do not want to take it there. Its really hard to support that when their actions speak otherwise.
    Crying huh? If that's how you interpret it, so be it.
  • Young_Chitlin
    Young_Chitlin Members Posts: 23,852 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    You gotta be more upfront with females. It doesn't happen often where a friendship can just BLOSSOM into a relationship. ? is just using you. Have the courage from jumpstreet and have her know what it is. If she tries to give you the okeydoke dead it. ? don't realize that they friend zone themselves. I'm just glad for the people I grew up around that kept me outta that trap.

    That could be it, but it will be hard to dead it when our group of friends is 20 deep and counting.
  • Young_Chitlin
    Young_Chitlin Members Posts: 23,852 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    Young-Ice wrote: »
    you're ballsy

    i've only gone out on a limb and asked a chick out twice

    every other gf i've had asked me

    lol thanks man.

    Funny thing is, I'm feeling this other girl in my group of friends, ? going to be interesting. On to the next one I suppose...
  • haute
    haute Members Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    Come snuggle with me...my football team lost :-(

    I need to take out my aggression/feelings on you.
    ok

    ? it's sooo cold here :(

    i need you to warm me up
  • Young_Chitlin
    Young_Chitlin Members Posts: 23,852 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    The PM feature escapes the vets...
  • Young_Chitlin
    Young_Chitlin Members Posts: 23,852 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    Young-Ice wrote: »
    basically

    consider rejection the cost of doing business

    cant avoid it
    just dont let it bankrupt you

    Very wise word man, thanks again
  • American.Loo
    American.Loo Members Posts: 4,082 ✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    dont waste your time trying to figure out another persons motivations.

    just move on.
  • thehonorable
    thehonorable Members Posts: 2,979 ✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    haute wrote: »
    ok

    ? it's sooo cold here :(

    i need you to warm me up

    It is bone chilling cold :-(

    I dont want to say I would throw a puppy to fuel a fire if I needed to but...
  • Young_Chitlin
    Young_Chitlin Members Posts: 23,852 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    dont waste your time trying to figure out another persons motivations.

    just move on.

    Thank you. I should've followed this advice before
  • Yung_Souf_Money
    Yung_Souf_Money Members Posts: 4,019 ✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    cause she stupid let some playa or thug try it.he gonna get the panties on the first try

    she know you a good catch so she gonna make you earn it
  • American.Loo
    American.Loo Members Posts: 4,082 ✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    Thank you. I should've followed this advice before

    i had to learn that too, many of us do.

    truth is, when a good woman is truly interested, things will feel right.
  • DarcSkies
    DarcSkies Members Posts: 13,791 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    haute wrote: »
    naw

    holding to the anger and making many threads about it is waaay cooler
    lmao @ u THINKING she wants ur ass. How bout - if she wanted u she would go get u.

    U think you're reading signs that she wants you, meanwhile you're making it up in ur head. Flirting doesn't = us wanting you. Now you're mad cause u got all the signs mixed up. Don't blame us. Blame yourself. Believe me, if a female wants you she's gone let it be known.

    lol yall ? stay crying on here. it's hilarious.

    Hiiii BR!! :D good morning!
    ^ Raging ? on wheels.
  • Meet The Sniper
    Meet The Sniper Members Posts: 7,484 ✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    The PM feature escapes the vets...

    And thats the ? truth. That ? is dry simping to me.
  • Young_Chitlin
    Young_Chitlin Members Posts: 23,852 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    I did tell the story, but left out the girl's name. If you aren't sure of how to derive what I first said in this thread, reread my first post multiple times then.
  • King Erauno
    King Erauno Members Posts: 6,754 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    pay her no mind and she'll be on her knees in no time. she does like u...but shes into games....like a typical young female. HOH
  • Young_Chitlin
    Young_Chitlin Members Posts: 23,852 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited January 2011
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    Damn Ice

    Yea Erauno, makes sense. I'm no longer having her bitchassness, so she can play her games with some other person
  •   Colin$mackabi$h
    Colin$mackabi$h Members Posts: 16,586 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    lotta truth in this thread
  • ItsBboy!
    ItsBboy! Members Posts: 398 ✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    Like Dee said, and as is true with anything in life: If someone really wants something, they'd take it seriously.
  • Meet The Sniper
    Meet The Sniper Members Posts: 7,484 ✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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  • ptnutz
    ptnutz Members Posts: 1,717 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    Look at the bright side, you know she's into playing games up front, no need in wasting any more time. Drop it and save whatever dignity you have left.
  • Young_Chitlin
    Young_Chitlin Members Posts: 23,852 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited February 2011
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    ptnutz wrote: »
    Look at the bright side, you know she's into playing games up front, no need in wasting any more time. Drop it and save whatever dignity you have left.

    Isn't it more of a pride issue? If that's the case, I owe MILLIONS
  • Yummy.Lix
    Yummy.Lix Members Posts: 1,398
    edited February 2011
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    Well, what you take as being "flirty," she might take as just being
    friendly.Some guys take a female being nice/goofing around with them
    as the female wanting them...which is not always the case.OR she could
    just be playing with you.