Women's Mentality at the club and parties!!!!!!!!!!
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He called me ugly. That wasn't very nice.
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Iheart~Cali wrote: »I don't have a set list of rules. I just lie my way out of it. The lies differ each time though.
Some women are horrible liars. What works for you might not work for others. As for me. I just go to the club just to go when I did. I had no goal or purpose, friends wanted to go and I went. I had fun sometimes, but usually with a girl I knew already or a random cutie. Never brought ? for anyone at a club outside of myself. -
Iheart~Cali wrote: »He called me ugly. That wasn't very nice.
? are the new females! real talk jus take the L and keep moving, can't win them all smh -
politicalthug202 wrote: »I must give another lesson on the IC.
1. The clubs are never a good place to meet females,they should only be used as a substitue or secondary.
2., never hit on a group of woman that has more then 3 girls,one will try to ?
3.if you the type to get drinks make sure you get 5 minutes of convo before offering.
4. in a group isolate the weak link of the female group to get the dime alone.
5. talk to the average girl when u intiate in the group,not the dime,this makes the convo more genuine to the females.
6.bring up casual stuff dont compliment them or anything just act like u talking to anybody.
these are the basics.
Dinner parties,house parties,>>> clubs,much easier to strike convo's
1. if a chick is 8,9 or dime on the looks scale dont try and ? her
that night,you can talkj your self outta ? by being thirsty.
most dimes dont ? on the 1st night,bcuz they have alot of ?
on deck already. just take her number and work on her for a week
or 2,its better to have dimes in rotation then trying to have one night
stands with average ? unless u desperate,but the more ? you have
on deck from dimes the less desperate you are. -
? are the new females! real talk jus take the L and keep moving, can't win them all smh
I wasn't taking him seriously. -
politicalthug202 wrote: »Dinner parties,house parties,>>> clubs,much easier to strike convo's
1. if a chick is 8,9 or dime on the looks scale dont try and ? her
that night,you can talkj your self outta ? by being thirsty.
most dimes dont ? on the 1st night,bcuz they have alot of ?
on deck already. just take her number and work on her for a week
or 2,its better to have dimes in rotation then trying to have one night
stands with average ? unless u desperate,but the more ? you have
on deck from dimes the less desperate you are.
1. The rating ? is useless bro. It's about the chick. She'll ? if she has major interest from the start. No matter if she is ugly or fine, just as long as she loose that night. On another note, not to be judging but ? random broads really ain't all that great. -
Iheart~Cali wrote: »I wasn't taking him seriously.
well cali some dudes go to the extreme when rejected by the opposite sex. so I stand corrected -
So what types of clubs should u go to since we're on discussion if your looking for a ONS
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Damn this reminds me that I haven't been to a party in a minute. I need to hit the party and find me something sleazy and easy to please me(eww that was nice)
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1. The rating ? is useless bro. It's about the chick. She'll ? if she has major interest from the start. No matter if she is ugly or fine, just as long as she loose that night. On another note, not to be judging but ? random broads really ain't all that great.
true,but if a chick a dime,and thing are less of inconvience.
she lives far from the club, she has something to do etc etc.
dimes are not going to go thru as much trouble for ? ,? is easily avaliable to them
she prolly has dudes texting her for sex that she already know, u can pull a dime out the club
but its no point in risking it when u can get the ? later guranteed,because if u over reach to early
u can talk yo self outta ? . -
politicalthug202 wrote: »true,but if a chick a dime,and thing are less of inconvience.
she lives far from the club, she has something to do etc etc.
dimes are not going to go thru as much trouble for ? ,? is easily avaliable to them
she prolly has dudes texting her for sex that she already know, u can pull a dime out the club
but its no point in risking it when u can get the ? later guranteed,because if u over reach to early
u can talk yo self outta ? .
and alot of chicks think they 2 good for 1 night stands but they ? you after a few texts and phone
conversation,and blowing her back out a week or 2 later -
politicalthug202 wrote: »true,but if a chick a dime,and thing are less of inconvience.
she lives far from the club, she has something to do etc etc.
dimes are not going to go thru as much trouble for ? ,? is easily avaliable to them
she prolly has dudes texting her for sex that she already know, u can pull a dime out the club
but its no point in risking it when u can get the ? later guranteed,because if u over reach to early
u can talk yo self outta ? .
? is easily available for women who choose to live that lifestyle. Another thing is everyone I know has a different ideal of what a dime is. I seen ? on here clamor about women who I wouldn't touch with another man's ? . The dimes I know just have a range and if you fit it, they will holla back. -
what type of dude approaches women with intentions of long talks about her day and purse shopping?...
Exactly. Use reverse psychology. A chick knows she's bad, so you gotta know you bad. A chick knows these guys wanna halla at her, so you gotta know these chicks wanna holla at you. Not as easy, I'm sure, but plausable. -
Iheart~Cali wrote: »This is way too much strategizing for a simple night out. How do you men even enjoy yourselves if you have to go through all these thought processes and remember all these rules just to be around women?....good lord.
Lol........ -
darkone360 wrote: »Alot of them just want the attention. I can understand if a guy approaches you wrong, and hits u wit some crazy azzz line. But if he comes at u like a gentleman, at least show some kinda manners and give him a chance. If you're not interested, then show some class and decline in a way proper way. But ? up your face, and tryin to play ? in front of folks is uncalled for.
And if you don't wanna be bothered wit, then yes, stay yo azzz home! That's like sayin "I don't wanna get shot," yet u move to one of the worse, gang infested neighborhoods in the country. Another I don't understand about y'all women. Why do y'all need permission from your girls, in order to talk to a brotha?? Last time I checked, you're suppose to be a GROWN AZZZ ADULT!! The chick could be feelin u more than any other brotha in there. But as soon as one of her stankin azzz, ain't got no man havin friends insert her input and says "Naw girl. He LOOK broke," u change your mind.
Ladies stop takin advice from that lonely, bitter azzz, miserable Lookin hefa! There's a reason why she's alone. There's a reason why she cockblocks mofos who try to holla at u. It's not b/c she Lookin out for ur safety. Well maybe part of that. But most of that has to wit the old phrase of "misery loves company".
Sorry for venting y'all lol
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Iheart~Cali wrote: »I don't have a set list of rules. I just lie my way out of it. The lies differ each time though.
The game is the game. LOL -
Watch this video. It will answer all your questions
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Iheart~Cali wrote: »This is way too much strategizing for a simple night out. How do you men even enjoy yourselves if you have to go through all these thought processes and remember all these rules just to be around women?....good lord.
A lot of it comes from trial and error. ? just becomes ingrained. I mean the cheetah just doesn't run full speed at the gazelle from a distance. The cheetah stealthily closes the gap waits for the opportune time to pounce and give chase knowing that his speed will be properly utilize.
umm not sure where i was going with this analogy but as a man, I enjoy the hunt. ? is fun and when the 'hip lift' occurs, it is all worth it.
Until women stop being afraid of rejection it will always be that way. -
props on the Tariq video...he stay droppin jewels.
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fortyacres&amule wrote: »woman are just taller children.....
so what that makes us men that what to ? ? -
I never see this in the south, but in the eastcoast n up here in Canada yea broads be on they own ? . but in the south ? is easy, im jealous of alot of ? on this board gettin exposure to that everyday.
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Know what they talkin' bout posts
I've been clubbin' for a hot minute now and there is no exact science to it, BUT if keep ya'self well groomed (haircut, smell nice), dress well (clean shoes, knowing how to coordinate and put an outfit together), have a confident presence and go out with intentions of having FUN/trippin' out (whether you be dolo or wit ya homeboy's) then you prolly will have a breezy or two come up to u before the end of the night or @ least have a few broads eyeballin', which gives you an entry.
What's funny is some nikka's can't even pick up on simple ass clues or don't notice'em for that matter. Have ya head on the swivel (to be aware of your surroundings of course, but) b/c broads try to get they peep on on the sly. Some are bolder than others and will "eye ? " you, but most will try to do it standing from a distance, while trying not to be too obvious. I wear aviators in the club (yeah, I'm that nikka, deal wit it, LOL) and I can see everything, but they can't tell I'm lookin' @ them unless I'm lookin' str8 in there direction so I know or have a better understanding of who's choosin'/wants to be chose. Another sign a chick prolly wants you to holla is if she walks over near you & then eventually stands (or dances) in front of you by a couple of feet (for a significant amount time) while there are plenty of other spaces available for her and/or her homegirls to post up. It's not a dead give away, but more times than not, she wants you to check in. There's more green lights that women give, but now I feel like I'm ranting so I'll stop. lolIce...Take Note. Think this thread has become a "Let's help Young-Ice get some" thread.
LOL.... It did kinda turn into that, but there are some key pointers dropped in here that could be beneficial to a rookie on da club scene or to any dude for that matter. -
Damn my thread got over 5,000 views!!!
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@ Ice and everyother dude in here:
1. it is possible to dance without lookin stupid, if your good at it first of all, but i would only do this at a party where some chicks showed interest in learning the dance. Let's say teach me how to dougie comes on, u could ask the females your with if they know how to do it, they say no and ask u the same question, u offer to teach them only if they do it with you. This not only looks good cause you got females around you, and your in control, but other females will notice and want your attention, ie. "maybe he can teach me something too"
Speaking of chicks noticing, I was grinding a few days ago with a chick, and I later found out another chick I know was behind me the whole time watching me get freaky, she told me she wanted to say hi but didnt. So they DO notice, even when your not aware.
2. I cooked fine dining food in the past as a profession until I went back to school, so Im dope in the kitchen, which explains my IC name. but if the person hosting the party is a homie of mine then I will cook some desserts and bring them to the party to share. I cant tell u how many women flock around me wanting to conversate on how I made the dessert, which then makes it easier to lead to other conversation before you move to dance and get the numbers or whatever your trying to do.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gHVHedRgKc
