Am I the only ? too shook to approach a group of girls by themselves?
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Cuz there always that one ? that try an ? slick and say somethin under here breath or somethin of that nature.
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Get ? /high and hope for the best.
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hefty-vulturestatus wrote: »Get ? /high and hope for the best.
exactly...not if im on that sauce...i will approach, and if one does say sumn slick and they laugh (which they will) ima roast all they ass lol -
You should still try, if you get played then diss one of the girls in the group and move the hell on.
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At my age, a group of girls have become a pack of bitter b*tches.
Waiting for a chance to take out their past hurt on anything with a ? . -
i feel you on this but with the influx of bi chicks in NY i gotta man up ? runnin trains these hoes could share me
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Man i don't normally do that, cause theres always that 1 ? that tries ruin ? , and your game got to be on point to do that cause you got to make sure you talk to all the girls while also trying to talk the girl you approached the group for, i've pulled it off before but its not something i always do.
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hefty-vulturestatus wrote: »Get high and hope for the best.
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Like someone said on here before when they in groups at the club or just out and about they create some type of ? forcefield
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I've done it when I know at least one of the girls in the group. Approaching a group when you don't know none of them? Nah.
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You're supposed to single out the hater (just aim for the fat one) and direct most of the conversation towards her so she feels special and then once they all get comfortable talking to you - switch it up and start flirting with the one you really like. At that point she can't really start hating on you and the one you like is probably sick of her being negative and cockblocking all the time anyway.
But no i've never actually been able to pull this off. The theory is sound but my game is weak. -
You're supposed to single out the hater (just aim for the fat one) and direct most of the conversation towards her so she feels special and then once they all get comfortable talking to you - switch it up and start flirting with the one you really like. At that point she can't really start hating on you and the one you like is probably sick of her being negative and cockblocking all the time anyway.
But no i've never actually been able to pull this off. The theory is sound but my game is weak.
One of my friends read that book "the game", about pickup technique, and apparently if you go up to a group of girls you should kind of give the cold shoulder to the one you actually like. The idea being that they get jealous or something. Personally putting that much thinking into it is way too much effort. -
I can't even approach one girl by myself, let alone a whole group....
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you lot read to much into it, just stroll over like a gent and talk like a normal confident grown man, if she feels the need to insult you, just say 'real nice ladies real nice' and vamoosh onto the next one.
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Cuz there always that one ? that try an ? slick and say somethin under here breath or somethin of that nature.
...that's not fear. That's your gut telling you it's a bad idea...
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Naw I'm like that too, groups be the worst. Cuz if you want to buy one girl a drink her friends gonna want a drink too. If you only giving attention to one girl her friends are gonna catch feelings and may mess up your chances to talk with the one girl you want.
Also some chicks seem to act completely different when there around there friends and not alone. It's best to just stay away until she's buy herself or just talk to some other girl that's not in a group. -
Nahhhhhhhh
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Cuz there always that one ? that try an ? slick and say somethin under here breath or somethin of that nature.
Oh yeah, it aint being scared cuzzo it's called being a gentleman. Most of us are gentleman and we try to avoid any situation where we would make a female uncomfortable or rub them the wrong way(especially if you trying to get at her).American.Loo wrote: »At my age, a group of girls have become a pack of bitter b*tches.
Waiting for a chance to take out their past hurt on anything with a ? .Frank blanco wrote: »Like someone said on here before when they in groups at the club or just out and about they create some type of ? forcefieldSaboi 10.5 wrote: »you lot read to much into it, just stroll over like a gent and talk like a normal confident grown man, if she feels the need to insult you, just say 'real nice ladies real nice' and vamoosh onto the next one.
the females out there are a tad bit nicer, outgoing and less snobbish than the girls are here real talk!!! you will notice a difference if you come over here trust me. girls from out there come here all nice, good light hearten attitudes, and down to earth. But soon as they get turned out hanging around american chicks all that goes out the window.Naw I'm like that too, groups be the worst. Cuz if you want to buy one girl a drink her friends gonna want a drink too. If you only giving attention to one girl her friends are gonna catch feelings and may mess up your chances to talk with the one girl you want.
Also some chicks seem to act completely different when there around there friends and not alone. It's best to just stay away until she's buy herself or just talk to some other girl that's not in a group.
This is the perfect theme song for this thread -
? dont intimidate me. if you not confident/nervous around em they'll see it easily, just gotta act normal.
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I can't even approach one girl by myself, let alone a whole group....
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Nah, I usually take point on ? like that while my mans go around and come from the other side on the breezies
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Walk up to em...Punch the loudest ? in her eye and proceed to chop it up with the one you like. At first she'll be a little bit stand offish because you've dotted her friends eye but keep your fist clenched and your elbows bent and she'll straighten up too. Once you put the alpha ? in line you rule the pack...Happy hunting my dude.
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Naw I'm like that too, groups be the worst. Cuz if you want to buy one girl a drink her friends gonna want a drink too. If you only giving attention to one girl her friends are gonna catch feelings and may mess up your chances to talk with the one girl you want.
Also some chicks seem to act completely different when there around there friends and not alone. It's best to just stay away until she's buy herself or just talk to some other girl that's not in a group.
This is another good point.
Even the most chill chick can turn into a diva when she gets a chance to.
Notice if a girl approches a group of guys solo and she clearly is feeling one dude all that stuntin ? doesnt happen
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CokeWaveyEther wrote: »? dont intimidate me. if you not confident/nervous around em they'll see it easily, just gotta act normal.
Women don't intimidate me either. The reason I wouldnt slide up on a bunch of strange chicks is because I understand the power of groupthink.
Just like you wouldn't catch Hov doing an interview on Jerry Springer, you wont catch me trying to be a gentlemen before a group of ducks. Their mind aint ready for that. -
American.Loo wrote: »This is another good point.
Even the most chill chick can turn into a diva when she gets a chance to.Notice if a girl approches a group of guys solo and she clearly is feeling one dude all that stuntin ? doesnt happen
These chicks are silly. Yet wonder why they lonely.
This is a great point. Chicks will stunt for a cheap laugh from their friends.
To answer your question, nope I avoid it too. Hell I've been cockblocked by girls in pairs....and I learned later on the girl she blocked me on was actually feeling me. Hatin ass ? .
The more girls added to that equation, the more pointless I feel the venture is. -
Cuz there always that one ? that try an ? slick and say somethin under here breath or somethin of that nature.
Yes...they're known as cockblockers. Shut 'em down off the top if they try to clown.