Can feminists and strong black women really have a successful heterosexual relationship?
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Havent read the thread but i think a lot of women dont realize they have competition: the women out there that are happy, yes, HAPPY, non-combative, who have no problem conforming to traditional roles. Man that make me smile just thinkin bout. Fellas when the last time you talked to a bytch that was just happy!?!? Lol
You cant really be a feminist/strong woman and be outwardly HAPPY. B/c they always got a fukin chip on they shoulder. Lol Always just SOMETHIN to fight for. Make no mistake about it ladies: NO MAN WANTS THIS.
So the minute you find yourself arguin, tryin to be co-head of houshold, bein uncomfortable with the way the world been since Adam n Eve, you in a bad space relationship-wise. Either that or you got a sucker. ESPECIALLY if he's already had a more traditonal woman. He not tryin to go backward. He goes to bed dreamin of that nice agreeable bytch.
Just readin some of these chicks try to take on and debate a forum full of men every single day (@westie im lookin at you) already tells me irl it must be a monumental headache. Do not want. ? no.
Secondly, I already told yall all my frustration gets taken out on yall. I'm a great girlfriend.
Do not want? Really? Lol I'll let you have that one. See, I'm nice
Baby you can't be that great of a girlfriend sitting up online arguing with random bad ? .
Either that or you with a lame ass dude who can't hold your attention better than random ? on in a random thread on a random website.
You not his girl you the IC girl. You the new Kat.
Can you get your fake iceberg slim ? away from me? Kthanxbye -
Havent read the thread but i think a lot of women dont realize they have competition: the women out there that are happy, yes, HAPPY, non-combative, who have no problem conforming to traditional roles. Man that make me smile just thinkin bout. Fellas when the last time you talked to a bytch that was just happy!?!? Lol
You cant really be a feminist/strong woman and be outwardly HAPPY. B/c they always got a fukin chip on they shoulder. Lol Always just SOMETHIN to fight for. Make no mistake about it ladies: NO MAN WANTS THIS.
So the minute you find yourself arguin, tryin to be co-head of houshold, bein uncomfortable with the way the world been since Adam n Eve, you in a bad space relationship-wise. Either that or you got a sucker. ESPECIALLY if he's already had a more traditonal woman. He not tryin to go backward. He goes to bed dreamin of that nice agreeable bytch.
Just readin some of these chicks try to take on and debate a forum full of men every single day (@westie im lookin at you) already tells me irl it must be a monumental headache. Do not want. ? no.
Secondly, I already told yall all my frustration gets taken out on yall. I'm a great girlfriend.
Do not want? Really? Lol I'll let you have that one. See, I'm nice
Baby you can't be that great of a girlfriend sitting up online arguing with random bad ? .
Either that or you with a lame ass dude who can't hold your attention better than random ? on in a random thread on a random website.
You not his girl you the IC girl. You the new Kat.
And happy people do happy things. One does not argue online everyday then go home 'happy'. One would assume u got somethin on yo chest that u gotta let out @westie...Ngga. -
We're still confusing 'feminists' with 'feminist extremists', huh?
Y'all can't be this dense. -
Lmao @ "you not his girl you the iC girl" - so disrespectful
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Havent read the thread but i think a lot of women dont realize they have competition: the women out there that are happy, yes, HAPPY, non-combative, who have no problem conforming to traditional roles. Man that make me smile just thinkin bout. Fellas when the last time you talked to a bytch that was just happy!?!? Lol
You cant really be a feminist/strong woman and be outwardly HAPPY. B/c they always got a fukin chip on they shoulder. Lol Always just SOMETHIN to fight for. Make no mistake about it ladies: NO MAN WANTS THIS.
So the minute you find yourself arguin, tryin to be co-head of houshold, bein uncomfortable with the way the world been since Adam n Eve, you in a bad space relationship-wise. Either that or you got a sucker. ESPECIALLY if he's already had a more traditonal woman. He not tryin to go backward. He goes to bed dreamin of that nice agreeable bytch.
Just readin some of these chicks try to take on and debate a forum full of men every single day (@westie im lookin at you) already tells me irl it must be a monumental headache. Do not want. ? no.
Secondly, I already told yall all my frustration gets taken out on yall. I'm a great girlfriend.
Do not want? Really? Lol I'll let you have that one. See, I'm nice
Baby you can't be that great of a girlfriend sitting up online arguing with random bad ? .
Either that or you with a lame ass dude who can't hold your attention better than random ? on in a random thread on a random website.
You not his girl you the IC girl. You the new Kat.
And happy people do happy things. One does not argue online everyday then go home 'happy'. One would assume u got somethin on yo chest that u gotta let out @westie...Ngga. -
@LordZuko and @S2J who hurt you sweetie? How can I help?
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@Kat
@Westie
Both of you claim that you're in long-term relationships.
If that's the case, then why is it that you two so often come across as angry and bitter?
What's the root cause?
Where does this stem from?
Is there something that's lacking in your respective relationships?
What can be done to alleviate your feelings of resentment and hostility?
How can we start the healing process?
*benevolent sexism post* -
@Kat
@Westie
Both of you claim that you're in long-term relationships.
If that's the case, then why is it that you two so often come across as angry and bitter?
What's the root cause?
Where does this stem from?
Is there something that's lacking in your respective relationships?
What can be done to alleviate your feelings of resentment and hostility?
How can we start the healing process?
*benevolent sexism post*
I can't help what you interpret. If you think I'm angry that's cool. You catch feelings on here or nah? -
mryounggun wrote: »We're still confusing 'feminists' with 'feminist extremists', huh?
Y'all can't be this dense.
The problem is, the extremists are the ones who are at the forefront of the feminist movement. -
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@Kat
@Westie
Both of you claim that you're in long-term relationships.
If that's the case, then why is it that you two so often come across as angry and bitter?
What's the root cause?
Where does this stem from?
Is there something that's lacking in your respective relationships?
What can be done to alleviate your feelings of resentment and hostility?
How can we start the healing process?
*benevolent sexism post*
You catch feelings on here or nah?
Nah, that's all you babygirl. -
I've obviously hurt some feelings on here....
I don't give a ? . Man up and stop acting like ? . -
this debate is so 200-and late. yes they can
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If yall want to think every topic I touch is about me or about a current situation I'm in, that's your bad for assuming.
I base my opinions on many different things. -
I've obviously hurt some feelings on here....
I don't give a ? . Man up and stop acting like ? .
And you think I'm the one who caught feelings.
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If yall want to think every topic I touch is about me or about a current situation I'm in, that's your bad for assuming.
I base my opinions on many different things.
@Kat
Tell us more Kathryn.
What different things do you base your opinions on?
@Peeny_Wally
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I didn't say you did. I asked that because if you don't what makes you think I do?
This can't be proven either way... -
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mryounggun wrote: »We're still confusing 'feminists' with 'feminist extremists', huh?
Y'all can't be this dense.
The problem is, the extremists are the ones who are at the forefront of the feminist movement.
I don't think that's true. Like anything, if you just rely on the information made popular by the media, you'll have a skewed view of it. But if you take time to do your own research, using credible information from credible sources, you find that this isn't true.
And even if that WERE the case, shouldn't we all be savvy and intelligent enough to know that just because zealots and extremists are at the forefront, we can't assume that all people who subscribe to that ideology feel the same. For the most part, the only time hear about Muslims is when they are cutting heads off and blowing ? up...but we're smart enough to know that those are the extremists and not ALL Muslims. Same thing applies to Feminists and any other group. -
Marinate on these nuts MFer.
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If she got dat ass the possibilities are endless.
Stay strong in showing your femininity also respect nature and the laws of the land agreed upon by you and your partner before you started on this journey called life together
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? is stupid, i'm not reading all these pages....
anyone can find someone if they can establish a mutual point to build from....
sometimes you just got remember what got yall hooked up to begin with