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  • Trillfate
    Trillfate Members Posts: 24,008 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    Oh I forgot bride and killa..dey smart tho, they got the ? up outta here

    @BrideofKilla still lurks wit her shook ass lol
  • blackrain
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    blackrain wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    To each one 's own path. Some people are treated like dogs in mansions. Some are queens and kings in a basement.

    If she is satisfied and happy with her situation so be it.

    This the type of "educated" ? some of these ? love to brag about having or wanting.

    Gets treated like ? called out about how dumb she is for putting up with that treatment and responds by saying how she can't be dumb cause she has a degree and 3 certificates.

    You may think I get treated like ? but really I don't. I get along really well with everyone I live with and me living here is stable unlike how it was when I was growing up. My bf may say things that seem a little messed up, but you have to realize if I never met him I'd be up ? 's creek with no paddle. I would either be living at home with my mom and her ratchet bf or ? knows where I'd be at.

    You get treated like ? is my opinion.

    You would rather deal with being disrespected by being called "convenience ? ", threatened to be put out the house, etc because he paid for ONE class, occasionally gets your hair done and its a cheaper place for you to live instead of struggling by yourself by renting a room somewhere or splitting rent with a responsible friend is a FACT.

    Yet you still don't see how putting up with said disrespect and praising him for doing the most basic of things says a lot about YOU.

    You've said these things yourself.

    I find it highly funny that women such as yourself allows a man to ? you for years and use that ? up and then later on in life swear up and down to the high heavens you all of sudden DESERVE a good man because ? didn't work out with the other ? during your prime years and you got a new outlook on life and how a man is supposed to treat a woman.

    A good man don't DESERVE or NEED a washed up ? (not calling you a ? ) after shes been used up by someone else.

    don't like your punk ass....but this post was on point. si right now , I dint want problems. I'm just giving credit where it's due. but anyway...

    why do these chicks think they Queens all of a sudden?

    then claim to be strong black independent women. only after being forced to see the ? up life they lived. but most end up going right back or into similar situations cuz they can't understand that guys can be nice an call them weak. smdh.

    I bet she will be a baby mother soon. she's not yet cuz dude is choosing not procreate, not her. he ain't trynna take care of two kids.

    an what type parent takes from the kids when they supposed to be saving up to move? unless. they living the free money an saving theirs.

    they getting a free check an aint on the govt assistance. smdh

    now back to ebeef reality...

    fukk you bruh, you ain't ?

    Did you deserve a good woman after admittedly having kids with ain't ? women before you met your wife?

    good question.

    because I shouldnt have been with those women. I lowered standard against my own better judgement. being young and stupid. I will always admit it. it was all me. but see the difference is...I know I fukked up and did everything to make sure I was going to be better than what I allowed myself to be lowered too. my situation is very different than some may think.

    so yes cuz I grew up

    So you grew up matured and realized you can do better...but women who've made similar mistakes can't grow and want the same?
  • blackgod813
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    Where my post blah blah she gives her life two a message boatd an keeps us inform of her life thats the realist ? not that many folks real
  • 2stepz_ahead
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    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    To each one 's own path. Some people are treated like dogs in mansions. Some are queens and kings in a basement.

    If she is satisfied and happy with her situation so be it.

    This the type of "educated" ? some of these ? love to brag about having or wanting.

    Gets treated like ? called out about how dumb she is for putting up with that treatment and responds by saying how she can't be dumb cause she has a degree and 3 certificates.

    You may think I get treated like ? but really I don't. I get along really well with everyone I live with and me living here is stable unlike how it was when I was growing up. My bf may say things that seem a little messed up, but you have to realize if I never met him I'd be up ? 's creek with no paddle. I would either be living at home with my mom and her ratchet bf or ? knows where I'd be at.

    You get treated like ? is my opinion.

    You would rather deal with being disrespected by being called "convenience ? ", threatened to be put out the house, etc because he paid for ONE class, occasionally gets your hair done and its a cheaper place for you to live instead of struggling by yourself by renting a room somewhere or splitting rent with a responsible friend is a FACT.

    Yet you still don't see how putting up with said disrespect and praising him for doing the most basic of things says a lot about YOU.

    You've said these things yourself.

    I find it highly funny that women such as yourself allows a man to ? you for years and use that ? up and then later on in life swear up and down to the high heavens you all of sudden DESERVE a good man because ? didn't work out with the other ? during your prime years and you got a new outlook on life and how a man is supposed to treat a woman.

    A good man don't DESERVE or NEED a washed up ? (not calling you a ? ) after shes been used up by someone else.

    don't like your punk ass....but this post was on point. si right now , I dint want problems. I'm just giving credit where it's due. but anyway...

    why do these chicks think they Queens all of a sudden?

    then claim to be strong black independent women. only after being forced to see the ? up life they lived. but most end up going right back or into similar situations cuz they can't understand that guys can be nice an call them weak. smdh.

    I bet she will be a baby mother soon. she's not yet cuz dude is choosing not procreate, not her. he ain't trynna take care of two kids.

    an what type parent takes from the kids when they supposed to be saving up to move? unless. they living the free money an saving theirs.

    they getting a free check an aint on the govt assistance. smdh

    now back to ebeef reality...

    fukk you bruh, you ain't ?

    Did you deserve a good woman after admittedly having kids with ain't ? women before you met your wife?

    good question.

    because I shouldnt have been with those women. I lowered standard against my own better judgement. being young and stupid. I will always admit it. it was all me. but see the difference is...I know I fukked up and did everything to make sure I was going to be better than what I allowed myself to be lowered too. my situation is very different than some may think.

    so yes cuz I grew up

    So you grew up matured and realized you can do better...but women who've made similar mistakes can't grow and want the same?

    there are phases an lifestyles.
    some women experiment in college ,others are hoes point blank.
    one is a learning point and one is just dumb.

    one knows what she wants outta life an does rely in her ? to get it..but wants to know what's pleases her...the other wants her ? to give her everything in life an allows herself to be abused.

    always had high hopes an visions...nothing was going to stop that. not kids, sickness babymom, parent....nothing but ? was going to stop me.

    never allowed fukk ? without a fight. now while I admit to ? up, I knew I was better than that. so i didn't stay around long hoping it would get better or allowing any fukk treatment.

    now as to what I deserve... i deserved my equal. i brought a ? load of potential to the table as did my wife. together we built what we have.

  • SolemnSauce
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    Yo...

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    @beta

    This trinisuede
  • Beta
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    Yo...

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    @beta

    This trinisuede

    Lmao nah i actually seen what she looks like TS ain't her at all
  • OmegaConflict
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    So TS is in a abusive relationship? ??
  • SimplyKrys
    SimplyKrys Members Posts: 763 ✭✭✭✭
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    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    To each one 's own path. Some people are treated like dogs in mansions. Some are queens and kings in a basement.

    If she is satisfied and happy with her situation so be it.

    This the type of "educated" ? some of these ? love to brag about having or wanting.

    Gets treated like ? called out about how dumb she is for putting up with that treatment and responds by saying how she can't be dumb cause she has a degree and 3 certificates.

    You may think I get treated like ? but really I don't. I get along really well with everyone I live with and me living here is stable unlike how it was when I was growing up. My bf may say things that seem a little messed up, but you have to realize if I never met him I'd be up ? 's creek with no paddle. I would either be living at home with my mom and her ratchet bf or ? knows where I'd be at.

    You get treated like ? is my opinion.

    You would rather deal with being disrespected by being called "convenience ? ", threatened to be put out the house, etc because he paid for ONE class, occasionally gets your hair done and its a cheaper place for you to live instead of struggling by yourself by renting a room somewhere or splitting rent with a responsible friend is a FACT.

    Yet you still don't see how putting up with said disrespect and praising him for doing the most basic of things says a lot about YOU.

    You've said these things yourself.

    I find it highly funny that women such as yourself allows a man to ? you for years and use that ? up and then later on in life swear up and down to the high heavens you all of sudden DESERVE a good man because ? didn't work out with the other ? during your prime years and you got a new outlook on life and how a man is supposed to treat a woman.

    A good man don't DESERVE or NEED a washed up ? (not calling you a ? ) after shes been used up by someone else.

    I used to rent a room out and it was rough. I'm not ready to do that again. I'd rather not struggle. My situation is much better than what it was when I was living at my cousins house miserable af on the pull-out couch. This is why I'm working on getting my own place.

    but you working on it with someone who aint helping you save and allowing you money to be taken.

    why can't he pay his mom?

    He pays him mom too. So does his brother and his bro's gf.
  • englishdude
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    @SimplyKrys I've lurked a few of your threads, and I think the topics of choice display that you're clearly rolling with high self esteem.

    Don't listen to these haters, they're just jealous they don't have such loving relationships in their lives.

    Continue to be great.
  • englishdude
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  • blackrain
    blackrain Members, Moderators Posts: 27,269 Regulator
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    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    To each one 's own path. Some people are treated like dogs in mansions. Some are queens and kings in a basement.

    If she is satisfied and happy with her situation so be it.

    This the type of "educated" ? some of these ? love to brag about having or wanting.

    Gets treated like ? called out about how dumb she is for putting up with that treatment and responds by saying how she can't be dumb cause she has a degree and 3 certificates.

    You may think I get treated like ? but really I don't. I get along really well with everyone I live with and me living here is stable unlike how it was when I was growing up. My bf may say things that seem a little messed up, but you have to realize if I never met him I'd be up ? 's creek with no paddle. I would either be living at home with my mom and her ratchet bf or ? knows where I'd be at.

    You get treated like ? is my opinion.

    You would rather deal with being disrespected by being called "convenience ? ", threatened to be put out the house, etc because he paid for ONE class, occasionally gets your hair done and its a cheaper place for you to live instead of struggling by yourself by renting a room somewhere or splitting rent with a responsible friend is a FACT.

    Yet you still don't see how putting up with said disrespect and praising him for doing the most basic of things says a lot about YOU.

    You've said these things yourself.

    I find it highly funny that women such as yourself allows a man to ? you for years and use that ? up and then later on in life swear up and down to the high heavens you all of sudden DESERVE a good man because ? didn't work out with the other ? during your prime years and you got a new outlook on life and how a man is supposed to treat a woman.

    A good man don't DESERVE or NEED a washed up ? (not calling you a ? ) after shes been used up by someone else.

    don't like your punk ass....but this post was on point. si right now , I dint want problems. I'm just giving credit where it's due. but anyway...

    why do these chicks think they Queens all of a sudden?

    then claim to be strong black independent women. only after being forced to see the ? up life they lived. but most end up going right back or into similar situations cuz they can't understand that guys can be nice an call them weak. smdh.

    I bet she will be a baby mother soon. she's not yet cuz dude is choosing not procreate, not her. he ain't trynna take care of two kids.

    an what type parent takes from the kids when they supposed to be saving up to move? unless. they living the free money an saving theirs.

    they getting a free check an aint on the govt assistance. smdh

    now back to ebeef reality...

    fukk you bruh, you ain't ?

    Did you deserve a good woman after admittedly having kids with ain't ? women before you met your wife?

    good question.

    because I shouldnt have been with those women. I lowered standard against my own better judgement. being young and stupid. I will always admit it. it was all me. but see the difference is...I know I fukked up and did everything to make sure I was going to be better than what I allowed myself to be lowered too. my situation is very different than some may think.

    so yes cuz I grew up

    So you grew up matured and realized you can do better...but women who've made similar mistakes can't grow and want the same?

    there are phases an lifestyles.
    some women experiment in college ,others are hoes point blank.
    one is a learning point and one is just dumb.

    one knows what she wants outta life an does rely in her ? to get it..but wants to know what's pleases her...the other wants her ? to give her everything in life an allows herself to be abused.

    always had high hopes an visions...nothing was going to stop that. not kids, sickness babymom, parent....nothing but ? was going to stop me.

    never allowed fukk ? without a fight. now while I admit to ? up, I knew I was better than that. so i didn't stay around long hoping it would get better or allowing any fukk treatment.

    now as to what I deserve... i deserved my equal. i brought a ? load of potential to the table as did my wife. together we built what we have.

    You also brought a ? load of baggage to the table she was well within her rights to tell you she didn't wanna deal with. Pretty much what I'm saying is perception wise you weren't really any different from the women you criticized in your post. So for you to say you knew what you deserved and go for it yet call Someone else out for doing the same is hypocritical. You ain't that far removed from the life of those you say shouldn't want or feel they deserve better.
  • SimplyKrys
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    @ TS

    fear controls you. someone said you had stockholm syndrome but you dont. you are in love with your hero. u had a bad life and at that time he saved u. his family saved u but instead of u growing and doing for urself u became super dependent on a dude who doesnt want to be ur hero anymore. u keep saying u dont know where u would be without him. it is time for u to find out. it is time for u to be a woman and stand on ur own feet.

    as for ur degrees and ur certificates. that is all show. u are not doing anything with it. u want to make it look it good for ur dude but really want to rely on him to take care of u and dude doesnt want to take care of himself. people have degrees and work in different fields all the time. some jobs require degrees in fields closely related to the job but plenty just want a degree to show u are teachable. u can do better but u have to want better.
    @ TS

    fear controls you. someone said you had stockholm syndrome but you dont. you are in love with your hero. u had a bad life and at that time he saved u. his family saved u but instead of u growing and doing for urself u became super dependent on a dude who doesnt want to be ur hero anymore. u keep saying u dont know where u would be without him. it is time for u to find out. it is time for u to be a woman and stand on ur own feet.

    as for ur degrees and ur certificates. that is all show. u are not doing anything with it. u want to make it look it good for ur dude but really want to rely on him to take care of u and dude doesnt want to take care of himself. people have degrees and work in different fields all the time. some jobs require degrees in fields closely related to the job but plenty just want a degree to show u are teachable. u can do better but u have to want better.

    As far as the whole degree thing goes, trust me I know people work in different fields all the time. I have been applying to jobs outside of my field left and right. It's just hard out here. And hopefully I get a job before 12/18 because that would make officially 3 years since I graduated.
  • semi-auto-mato
    semi-auto-mato Members Posts: 2,833 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    @ TS

    fear controls you. someone said you had stockholm syndrome but you dont. you are in love with your hero. u had a bad life and at that time he saved u. his family saved u but instead of u growing and doing for urself u became super dependent on a dude who doesnt want to be ur hero anymore. u keep saying u dont know where u would be without him. it is time for u to find out. it is time for u to be a woman and stand on ur own feet.

    as for ur degrees and ur certificates. that is all show. u are not doing anything with it. u want to make it look it good for ur dude but really want to rely on him to take care of u and dude doesnt want to take care of himself. people have degrees and work in different fields all the time. some jobs require degrees in fields closely related to the job but plenty just want a degree to show u are teachable. u can do better but u have to want better.
    @ TS

    fear controls you. someone said you had stockholm syndrome but you dont. you are in love with your hero. u had a bad life and at that time he saved u. his family saved u but instead of u growing and doing for urself u became super dependent on a dude who doesnt want to be ur hero anymore. u keep saying u dont know where u would be without him. it is time for u to find out. it is time for u to be a woman and stand on ur own feet.

    as for ur degrees and ur certificates. that is all show. u are not doing anything with it. u want to make it look it good for ur dude but really want to rely on him to take care of u and dude doesnt want to take care of himself. people have degrees and work in different fields all the time. some jobs require degrees in fields closely related to the job but plenty just want a degree to show u are teachable. u can do better but u have to want better.

    As far as the whole degree thing goes, trust me I know people work in different fields all the time. I have been applying to jobs outside of my field left and right. It's just hard out here. And hopefully I get a job before 12/18 because that would make officially 3 years since I graduated.

    It's hard but it aint 3 years hard. i went on indeed just now typed in Journalism in Ct and jobs popped up left and right. Carter Mario attorney looks like a good starting point for someone young with a journalism degree. Apply now! If you did already then call them. It's the Corporate Communications Specialist job. I am not going to clown you like others are doing but i know it's a waste of time trying to talk to you because you dont want better. you are happy where you are at.

    http://www.cartermario.com/about-us/employment-opportunities/
  • 2stepz_ahead
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    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    blackrain wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    To each one 's own path. Some people are treated like dogs in mansions. Some are queens and kings in a basement.

    If she is satisfied and happy with her situation so be it.

    This the type of "educated" ? some of these ? love to brag about having or wanting.

    Gets treated like ? called out about how dumb she is for putting up with that treatment and responds by saying how she can't be dumb cause she has a degree and 3 certificates.

    You may think I get treated like ? but really I don't. I get along really well with everyone I live with and me living here is stable unlike how it was when I was growing up. My bf may say things that seem a little messed up, but you have to realize if I never met him I'd be up ? 's creek with no paddle. I would either be living at home with my mom and her ratchet bf or ? knows where I'd be at.

    You get treated like ? is my opinion.

    You would rather deal with being disrespected by being called "convenience ? ", threatened to be put out the house, etc because he paid for ONE class, occasionally gets your hair done and its a cheaper place for you to live instead of struggling by yourself by renting a room somewhere or splitting rent with a responsible friend is a FACT.

    Yet you still don't see how putting up with said disrespect and praising him for doing the most basic of things says a lot about YOU.

    You've said these things yourself.

    I find it highly funny that women such as yourself allows a man to ? you for years and use that ? up and then later on in life swear up and down to the high heavens you all of sudden DESERVE a good man because ? didn't work out with the other ? during your prime years and you got a new outlook on life and how a man is supposed to treat a woman.

    A good man don't DESERVE or NEED a washed up ? (not calling you a ? ) after shes been used up by someone else.

    don't like your punk ass....but this post was on point. si right now , I dint want problems. I'm just giving credit where it's due. but anyway...

    why do these chicks think they Queens all of a sudden?

    then claim to be strong black independent women. only after being forced to see the ? up life they lived. but most end up going right back or into similar situations cuz they can't understand that guys can be nice an call them weak. smdh.

    I bet she will be a baby mother soon. she's not yet cuz dude is choosing not procreate, not her. he ain't trynna take care of two kids.

    an what type parent takes from the kids when they supposed to be saving up to move? unless. they living the free money an saving theirs.

    they getting a free check an aint on the govt assistance. smdh

    now back to ebeef reality...

    fukk you bruh, you ain't ?

    Did you deserve a good woman after admittedly having kids with ain't ? women before you met your wife?

    good question.

    because I shouldnt have been with those women. I lowered standard against my own better judgement. being young and stupid. I will always admit it. it was all me. but see the difference is...I know I fukked up and did everything to make sure I was going to be better than what I allowed myself to be lowered too. my situation is very different than some may think.

    so yes cuz I grew up

    So you grew up matured and realized you can do better...but women who've made similar mistakes can't grow and want the same?

    there are phases an lifestyles.
    some women experiment in college ,others are hoes point blank.
    one is a learning point and one is just dumb.

    one knows what she wants outta life an does rely in her ? to get it..but wants to know what's pleases her...the other wants her ? to give her everything in life an allows herself to be abused.

    always had high hopes an visions...nothing was going to stop that. not kids, sickness babymom, parent....nothing but ? was going to stop me.

    never allowed fukk ? without a fight. now while I admit to ? up, I knew I was better than that. so i didn't stay around long hoping it would get better or allowing any fukk treatment.

    now as to what I deserve... i deserved my equal. i brought a ? load of potential to the table as did my wife. together we built what we have.

    You also brought a ? load of baggage to the table she was well within her rights to tell you she didn't wanna deal with. Pretty much what I'm saying is perception wise you weren't really any different from the women you criticized in your post. So for you to say you knew what you deserved and go for it yet call Someone else out for doing the same is hypocritical. You ain't that far removed from the life of those you say shouldn't want or feel they deserve better.

    perception is a ? aint it.
    i gave you the example with the two women.
    one knows better, one doesn't. but both think they should have a good man after growing pain.

    we all bring ? to the table along with baggage. how you handle it, control it and what expect from yourself as well as the other person comes into play.

    I will take a chick with two kids but legit trying to better her life an treats me like a king over a single no kids ? who thinks she deserves the best with minimum work cause she looks good.

    in my eyes you can't compare the two. but you are trying.
  • SimplyKrys
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    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    @ TS

    fear controls you. someone said you had stockholm syndrome but you dont. you are in love with your hero. u had a bad life and at that time he saved u. his family saved u but instead of u growing and doing for urself u became super dependent on a dude who doesnt want to be ur hero anymore. u keep saying u dont know where u would be without him. it is time for u to find out. it is time for u to be a woman and stand on ur own feet.

    as for ur degrees and ur certificates. that is all show. u are not doing anything with it. u want to make it look it good for ur dude but really want to rely on him to take care of u and dude doesnt want to take care of himself. people have degrees and work in different fields all the time. some jobs require degrees in fields closely related to the job but plenty just want a degree to show u are teachable. u can do better but u have to want better.
    @ TS

    fear controls you. someone said you had stockholm syndrome but you dont. you are in love with your hero. u had a bad life and at that time he saved u. his family saved u but instead of u growing and doing for urself u became super dependent on a dude who doesnt want to be ur hero anymore. u keep saying u dont know where u would be without him. it is time for u to find out. it is time for u to be a woman and stand on ur own feet.

    as for ur degrees and ur certificates. that is all show. u are not doing anything with it. u want to make it look it good for ur dude but really want to rely on him to take care of u and dude doesnt want to take care of himself. people have degrees and work in different fields all the time. some jobs require degrees in fields closely related to the job but plenty just want a degree to show u are teachable. u can do better but u have to want better.

    As far as the whole degree thing goes, trust me I know people work in different fields all the time. I have been applying to jobs outside of my field left and right. It's just hard out here. And hopefully I get a job before 12/18 because that would make officially 3 years since I graduated.

    It's hard but it aint 3 years hard. i went on indeed just now typed in Journalism in Ct and jobs popped up left and right. Carter Mario attorney looks like a good starting point for someone young with a journalism degree. Apply now! If you did already then call them. It's the Corporate Communications Specialist job. I am not going to clown you like others are doing but i know it's a waste of time trying to talk to you because you dont want better. you are happy where you are at.

    http://www.cartermario.com/about-us/employment-opportunities/

    I meant to say 2 years, that 3 was a typo. And yes I do want better.
  • semi-auto-mato
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    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    @ TS

    fear controls you. someone said you had stockholm syndrome but you dont. you are in love with your hero. u had a bad life and at that time he saved u. his family saved u but instead of u growing and doing for urself u became super dependent on a dude who doesnt want to be ur hero anymore. u keep saying u dont know where u would be without him. it is time for u to find out. it is time for u to be a woman and stand on ur own feet.

    as for ur degrees and ur certificates. that is all show. u are not doing anything with it. u want to make it look it good for ur dude but really want to rely on him to take care of u and dude doesnt want to take care of himself. people have degrees and work in different fields all the time. some jobs require degrees in fields closely related to the job but plenty just want a degree to show u are teachable. u can do better but u have to want better.
    @ TS

    fear controls you. someone said you had stockholm syndrome but you dont. you are in love with your hero. u had a bad life and at that time he saved u. his family saved u but instead of u growing and doing for urself u became super dependent on a dude who doesnt want to be ur hero anymore. u keep saying u dont know where u would be without him. it is time for u to find out. it is time for u to be a woman and stand on ur own feet.

    as for ur degrees and ur certificates. that is all show. u are not doing anything with it. u want to make it look it good for ur dude but really want to rely on him to take care of u and dude doesnt want to take care of himself. people have degrees and work in different fields all the time. some jobs require degrees in fields closely related to the job but plenty just want a degree to show u are teachable. u can do better but u have to want better.

    As far as the whole degree thing goes, trust me I know people work in different fields all the time. I have been applying to jobs outside of my field left and right. It's just hard out here. And hopefully I get a job before 12/18 because that would make officially 3 years since I graduated.

    It's hard but it aint 3 years hard. i went on indeed just now typed in Journalism in Ct and jobs popped up left and right. Carter Mario attorney looks like a good starting point for someone young with a journalism degree. Apply now! If you did already then call them. It's the Corporate Communications Specialist job. I am not going to clown you like others are doing but i know it's a waste of time trying to talk to you because you dont want better. you are happy where you are at.

    http://www.cartermario.com/about-us/employment-opportunities/

    I meant to say 2 years, that 3 was a typo. And yes I do want better.

    Then do it. you young and the time is now. stop being afraid and stop waiting for ur dude. if he gonna ride with u then he will ride with u and if not then u gotta go ahead and do ur thing.

    hit up them jobs sites. go into them interviews and sell urself. u can get one of those jobs. u gotta believe that.
  • Kat
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    Lol...it's weird how the Ic is always tryna break up relationships.

    So far..

    Khalessi, Averix, Her Husband
    Chuck and Yunn
    Pico and CP30
    SWIJ and Marley
    Homie and Moving..? was his name again
    Goldie and Young Chops
    Six and Lou
    Kat and...hold up..Kat still wit dude right?

    Point being, keep yo relationship away from us

    I lowkey peep Lurk wavering a bit lately..

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    I ? wit you..don't make us do it

    Not for lack of them trying, I promise you that.
  • OmegaConflict
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    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    @ TS

    fear controls you. someone said you had stockholm syndrome but you dont. you are in love with your hero. u had a bad life and at that time he saved u. his family saved u but instead of u growing and doing for urself u became super dependent on a dude who doesnt want to be ur hero anymore. u keep saying u dont know where u would be without him. it is time for u to find out. it is time for u to be a woman and stand on ur own feet.

    as for ur degrees and ur certificates. that is all show. u are not doing anything with it. u want to make it look it good for ur dude but really want to rely on him to take care of u and dude doesnt want to take care of himself. people have degrees and work in different fields all the time. some jobs require degrees in fields closely related to the job but plenty just want a degree to show u are teachable. u can do better but u have to want better.
    @ TS

    fear controls you. someone said you had stockholm syndrome but you dont. you are in love with your hero. u had a bad life and at that time he saved u. his family saved u but instead of u growing and doing for urself u became super dependent on a dude who doesnt want to be ur hero anymore. u keep saying u dont know where u would be without him. it is time for u to find out. it is time for u to be a woman and stand on ur own feet.

    as for ur degrees and ur certificates. that is all show. u are not doing anything with it. u want to make it look it good for ur dude but really want to rely on him to take care of u and dude doesnt want to take care of himself. people have degrees and work in different fields all the time. some jobs require degrees in fields closely related to the job but plenty just want a degree to show u are teachable. u can do better but u have to want better.

    As far as the whole degree thing goes, trust me I know people work in different fields all the time. I have been applying to jobs outside of my field left and right. It's just hard out here. And hopefully I get a job before 12/18 because that would make officially 3 years since I graduated.

    Good ?
    @kat you have competition sweethear
  • SimplyKrys
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    Kai wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    To each one 's own path. Some people are treated like dogs in mansions. Some are queens and kings in a basement.

    If she is satisfied and happy with her situation so be it.

    This the type of "educated" ? some of these ? love to brag about having or wanting.

    Gets treated like ? called out about how dumb she is for putting up with that treatment and responds by saying how she can't be dumb cause she has a degree and 3 certificates.

    You may think I get treated like ? but really I don't. I get along really well with everyone I live with and me living here is stable unlike how it was when I was growing up. My bf may say things that seem a little messed up, but you have to realize if I never met him I'd be up ? 's creek with no paddle. I would either be living at home with my mom and her ratchet bf or ? knows where I'd be at.

    You get treated like ? is my opinion.

    You would rather deal with being disrespected by being called "convenience ? ", threatened to be put out the house, etc because he paid for ONE class, occasionally gets your hair done and its a cheaper place for you to live instead of struggling by yourself by renting a room somewhere or splitting rent with a responsible friend is a FACT.

    Yet you still don't see how putting up with said disrespect and praising him for doing the most basic of things says a lot about YOU.

    You've said these things yourself.

    I find it highly funny that women such as yourself allows a man to ? you for years and use that ? up and then later on in life swear up and down to the high heavens you all of sudden DESERVE a good man because ? didn't work out with the other ? during your prime years and you got a new outlook on life and how a man is supposed to treat a woman.

    A good man don't DESERVE or NEED a washed up ? (not calling you a ? ) after shes been used up by someone else.

    don't like your punk ass....but this post was on point. si right now , I dint want problems. I'm just giving credit where it's due. but anyway...

    why do these chicks think they Queens all of a sudden?

    then claim to be strong black independent women. only after being forced to see the ? up life they lived. but most end up going right back or into similar situations cuz they can't understand that guys can be nice an call them weak. smdh.

    I bet she will be a baby mother soon. she's not yet cuz dude is choosing not procreate, not her. he ain't trynna take care of two kids.

    an what type parent takes from the kids when they supposed to be saving up to move? unless. they living the free money an saving theirs.

    they getting a free check an aint on the govt assistance. smdh

    now back to ebeef reality...

    fukk you bruh, you ain't ?

    I definitely won't be a baby mother EVER. Especially being that I'm on the shot. The chances of getting prego on the shot are slim to none. The idea of having a kid without being married disgusts me. It always has.

    ummmmmmm.....................it's been 11 years and he ain't married your simply ass yet!

    pretty sure its cuz you and the thought of marrying you disgust him
    Kai wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    To each one 's own path. Some people are treated like dogs in mansions. Some are queens and kings in a basement.

    If she is satisfied and happy with her situation so be it.

    This the type of "educated" ? some of these ? love to brag about having or wanting.

    Gets treated like ? called out about how dumb she is for putting up with that treatment and responds by saying how she can't be dumb cause she has a degree and 3 certificates.

    You may think I get treated like ? but really I don't. I get along really well with everyone I live with and me living here is stable unlike how it was when I was growing up. My bf may say things that seem a little messed up, but you have to realize if I never met him I'd be up ? 's creek with no paddle. I would either be living at home with my mom and her ratchet bf or ? knows where I'd be at.

    You get treated like ? is my opinion.

    You would rather deal with being disrespected by being called "convenience ? ", threatened to be put out the house, etc because he paid for ONE class, occasionally gets your hair done and its a cheaper place for you to live instead of struggling by yourself by renting a room somewhere or splitting rent with a responsible friend is a FACT.

    Yet you still don't see how putting up with said disrespect and praising him for doing the most basic of things says a lot about YOU.

    You've said these things yourself.

    I find it highly funny that women such as yourself allows a man to ? you for years and use that ? up and then later on in life swear up and down to the high heavens you all of sudden DESERVE a good man because ? didn't work out with the other ? during your prime years and you got a new outlook on life and how a man is supposed to treat a woman.

    A good man don't DESERVE or NEED a washed up ? (not calling you a ? ) after shes been used up by someone else.

    don't like your punk ass....but this post was on point. si right now , I dint want problems. I'm just giving credit where it's due. but anyway...

    why do these chicks think they Queens all of a sudden?

    then claim to be strong black independent women. only after being forced to see the ? up life they lived. but most end up going right back or into similar situations cuz they can't understand that guys can be nice an call them weak. smdh.

    I bet she will be a baby mother soon. she's not yet cuz dude is choosing not procreate, not her. he ain't trynna take care of two kids.

    an what type parent takes from the kids when they supposed to be saving up to move? unless. they living the free money an saving theirs.

    they getting a free check an aint on the govt assistance. smdh

    now back to ebeef reality...

    fukk you bruh, you ain't ?

    I definitely won't be a baby mother EVER. Especially being that I'm on the shot. The chances of getting prego on the shot are slim to none. The idea of having a kid without being married disgusts me. It always has.

    ummmmmmm.....................it's been 11 years and he ain't married your simply ass yet!

    pretty sure its cuz you and the thought of marrying you disgust him

    ? kick rocks, we will still be together years to come.
  • Kai
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    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    Kai wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    To each one 's own path. Some people are treated like dogs in mansions. Some are queens and kings in a basement.

    If she is satisfied and happy with her situation so be it.

    This the type of "educated" ? some of these ? love to brag about having or wanting.

    Gets treated like ? called out about how dumb she is for putting up with that treatment and responds by saying how she can't be dumb cause she has a degree and 3 certificates.

    You may think I get treated like ? but really I don't. I get along really well with everyone I live with and me living here is stable unlike how it was when I was growing up. My bf may say things that seem a little messed up, but you have to realize if I never met him I'd be up ? 's creek with no paddle. I would either be living at home with my mom and her ratchet bf or ? knows where I'd be at.

    You get treated like ? is my opinion.

    You would rather deal with being disrespected by being called "convenience ? ", threatened to be put out the house, etc because he paid for ONE class, occasionally gets your hair done and its a cheaper place for you to live instead of struggling by yourself by renting a room somewhere or splitting rent with a responsible friend is a FACT.

    Yet you still don't see how putting up with said disrespect and praising him for doing the most basic of things says a lot about YOU.

    You've said these things yourself.

    I find it highly funny that women such as yourself allows a man to ? you for years and use that ? up and then later on in life swear up and down to the high heavens you all of sudden DESERVE a good man because ? didn't work out with the other ? during your prime years and you got a new outlook on life and how a man is supposed to treat a woman.

    A good man don't DESERVE or NEED a washed up ? (not calling you a ? ) after shes been used up by someone else.

    don't like your punk ass....but this post was on point. si right now , I dint want problems. I'm just giving credit where it's due. but anyway...

    why do these chicks think they Queens all of a sudden?

    then claim to be strong black independent women. only after being forced to see the ? up life they lived. but most end up going right back or into similar situations cuz they can't understand that guys can be nice an call them weak. smdh.

    I bet she will be a baby mother soon. she's not yet cuz dude is choosing not procreate, not her. he ain't trynna take care of two kids.

    an what type parent takes from the kids when they supposed to be saving up to move? unless. they living the free money an saving theirs.

    they getting a free check an aint on the govt assistance. smdh

    now back to ebeef reality...

    fukk you bruh, you ain't ?

    I definitely won't be a baby mother EVER. Especially being that I'm on the shot. The chances of getting prego on the shot are slim to none. The idea of having a kid without being married disgusts me. It always has.

    ummmmmmm.....................it's been 11 years and he ain't married your simply ass yet!

    pretty sure its cuz you and the thought of marrying you disgust him
    Kai wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    D. Morgan wrote: »
    To each one 's own path. Some people are treated like dogs in mansions. Some are queens and kings in a basement.

    If she is satisfied and happy with her situation so be it.

    This the type of "educated" ? some of these ? love to brag about having or wanting.

    Gets treated like ? called out about how dumb she is for putting up with that treatment and responds by saying how she can't be dumb cause she has a degree and 3 certificates.

    You may think I get treated like ? but really I don't. I get along really well with everyone I live with and me living here is stable unlike how it was when I was growing up. My bf may say things that seem a little messed up, but you have to realize if I never met him I'd be up ? 's creek with no paddle. I would either be living at home with my mom and her ratchet bf or ? knows where I'd be at.

    You get treated like ? is my opinion.

    You would rather deal with being disrespected by being called "convenience ? ", threatened to be put out the house, etc because he paid for ONE class, occasionally gets your hair done and its a cheaper place for you to live instead of struggling by yourself by renting a room somewhere or splitting rent with a responsible friend is a FACT.

    Yet you still don't see how putting up with said disrespect and praising him for doing the most basic of things says a lot about YOU.

    You've said these things yourself.

    I find it highly funny that women such as yourself allows a man to ? you for years and use that ? up and then later on in life swear up and down to the high heavens you all of sudden DESERVE a good man because ? didn't work out with the other ? during your prime years and you got a new outlook on life and how a man is supposed to treat a woman.

    A good man don't DESERVE or NEED a washed up ? (not calling you a ? ) after shes been used up by someone else.

    don't like your punk ass....but this post was on point. si right now , I dint want problems. I'm just giving credit where it's due. but anyway...

    why do these chicks think they Queens all of a sudden?

    then claim to be strong black independent women. only after being forced to see the ? up life they lived. but most end up going right back or into similar situations cuz they can't understand that guys can be nice an call them weak. smdh.

    I bet she will be a baby mother soon. she's not yet cuz dude is choosing not procreate, not her. he ain't trynna take care of two kids.

    an what type parent takes from the kids when they supposed to be saving up to move? unless. they living the free money an saving theirs.

    they getting a free check an aint on the govt assistance. smdh

    now back to ebeef reality...

    fukk you bruh, you ain't ?

    I definitely won't be a baby mother EVER. Especially being that I'm on the shot. The chances of getting prego on the shot are slim to none. The idea of having a kid without being married disgusts me. It always has.

    ummmmmmm.....................it's been 11 years and he ain't married your simply ass yet!

    pretty sure its cuz you and the thought of marrying you disgust him

    ? kick rocks, we will still be together years to come.

    Yup and you'll still have no ring and living in his Mama's basement, what a charmed life you lead, I'm sooooooo jealous, lmao

  • SimplyKrys
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    @Kai Yes I am living good with my education, the fact I'm not collecting unemployment and I live in a 4 bedroom home and boo is staying by my side. There are people out here that don't even know where their next meal is coming from, while I'm eating good. And I will get the ring eventually, you ain't special just because that ? gave you some cubic zirconia.
  • Kat
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    SimplyKrys wrote: »
    @ TS

    fear controls you. someone said you had stockholm syndrome but you dont. you are in love with your hero. u had a bad life and at that time he saved u. his family saved u but instead of u growing and doing for urself u became super dependent on a dude who doesnt want to be ur hero anymore. u keep saying u dont know where u would be without him. it is time for u to find out. it is time for u to be a woman and stand on ur own feet.

    as for ur degrees and ur certificates. that is all show. u are not doing anything with it. u want to make it look it good for ur dude but really want to rely on him to take care of u and dude doesnt want to take care of himself. people have degrees and work in different fields all the time. some jobs require degrees in fields closely related to the job but plenty just want a degree to show u are teachable. u can do better but u have to want better.
    @ TS

    fear controls you. someone said you had stockholm syndrome but you dont. you are in love with your hero. u had a bad life and at that time he saved u. his family saved u but instead of u growing and doing for urself u became super dependent on a dude who doesnt want to be ur hero anymore. u keep saying u dont know where u would be without him. it is time for u to find out. it is time for u to be a woman and stand on ur own feet.

    as for ur degrees and ur certificates. that is all show. u are not doing anything with it. u want to make it look it good for ur dude but really want to rely on him to take care of u and dude doesnt want to take care of himself. people have degrees and work in different fields all the time. some jobs require degrees in fields closely related to the job but plenty just want a degree to show u are teachable. u can do better but u have to want better.

    As far as the whole degree thing goes, trust me I know people work in different fields all the time. I have been applying to jobs outside of my field left and right. It's just hard out here. And hopefully I get a job before 12/18 because that would make officially 3 years since I graduated.

    Good ?
    @kat you have competition sweethear

    Hey, at least I don't have student loans though. Her job situation is exactly why I'm nervous about accruing that debt.